When visiting the Family of your sweetheart

[seamus]

I'm sure Harris11 could give you a few tips, He has been ferns BF for over a year now, he must have met the family several times

[pacman]

       You can be so cruel seamus. At the time harris11 needs our sympathy after confirmation of Fern's looming infidelity [on a massive scale]
you want to remind him of his familial visits, back in happier times when the thought of her being untrue wouldn't even cross his mind.

I hope his visits to her family hold good memories for him & you learn to pay the poor fellow a bit of respect.

I mean how would you like to be in his situation, knowing others are thinking the coast is clear & only too willing to try their luck.        

[jimslim]

(sev7en @ Jun. 23 2008,05:16) That´s why i´m sticking to the chocolate.  

With the humidity in Thailand that does not surprise me

[sev7en]

damn thats lame , jim, , but made me laugh , hehe..

[sev7en]

pacman, knowing your shameless brown nosing and protecting towards the "female" members on this board i don´t know if you are being sarcastic. In normal cases this would be bitter sarcasm, really good actually, but the thought that it isn´t scares me.

[dummy_plug]

(kahuna @ Jun. 23 2008,05:01) Indeed...you will be absolutely amazed how large her "family" is...

And they will all want to meet you...you are the visiting ATM...

So Kahuna, how did you deal with this? I mean, I assume you've probably been in a few situations where you've been at the head of the table surrounded by several of your tee rak's "cousins", "friends", and "others". Do you pretty much just grin and pay up at the end?

And if you get the inkling this is going to happen, how do you avoid such pitfalls?

I have a feeling that Si Geena may encounter some problems with friends as well. I'm sure his girl will be keen to parade him around in front of her chums for dinners, nights on the town, etc. and he needs to be prepared for that.

[69billy]

(stogie bear @ Jun. 22 2008,18:47) I agree... Chocolates is a weird kind of gift to give a Thai person.

I don't know...But Nony's mum loves chocolates and you know what ..??!! Pizza even makes her more happy..

PS..
Aircon. is a good gift i hear..

[dummy_plug]

Billy, all will be forgiven if you promise to write (and include pics) of your conquests for your upcoming trip!

[jimslim]

(stogie bear @ Jun. 19 2008,22:14) Eat everything you are offered but politely decline third helpings!

I wish Id known this before , I was handed a bowl of chicken and vegtables and a plate of rice , pretty darn tasty it was but every time I finished I was handed another , then another .
I got through 3 bowls of the stuff before the teerak saved me , I thought my belly was gonna burst afterwards

[Road Runner]

It's considered a loss of face not to offer your guest enough food.

You could have been eating until you exploded!

RR.

[harris11]

Can |Seamus and Pacman please explain the posts on internet regarding my relationship with Fern, am pissed off with both their post without any details. Who want to move in on her, and what about this massive infidilty Pacman talk about, facts please not fiction, you are dealing with people her guys who have a relationship and rumours are one thing fact is another

Get some balls and let see some posts, I am up for it

[harris11]

What does Pacman know, lets read it, omce and for all cut the crap. I think I am fully aware of what Fern does and what business she does in the bar, but what about this massive infilidity you talk about.

Come on Pacman , spill the beans

[Monkey]

I think it came about after this post: https://theladyboyforums.com/cgi-bin....y302990

[stogie bear]

Off topic... Start a new thread or stick to the subject.

[si geena]

Well well, fascinating. Looks like all of the guys are pitching in a little to help the young 'un out.

I'm under no illusions that this could go drastically awry once I touch down.

1. The clothes. She has made mention that she has some clothes for me. Well, before she went back to BKK, she did buy me underwear... briefs... of the skimpy colourful variety, which I do not wear.

2. I'm bringing back for 1 of her suitcase. She left it with me because it would have exceeded her luggage allowance. There's a buddha statue in it and I've been instructed not to stuff footwear and underwear with buddha. I hope buddha travels well.

3. I have spoken to a couple of the family members. All sound like they are quite keen to actually meet me and I do note that as much as I want to endear myself to them, they would like to do likewise as well. It's perhaps a very sobering note.

4. Got it. Chocs for the young one, perfume for the mother. Still wondering what's for the father. He's not in good health apparently and I've yet to speak to him on the phone.