An Intoduction to Ruffa

[guydesavoy]

(Ruffa @ Aug. 16 2009,22:47) I have tried to be frank and full in my explanations, and I hope I have answered the questions and comments that were raised.

Except about the weather in Amsterdam  

With a bit of judicious editing, this last post could become a very good Miss Universe pre-sentation.

Hold on to it !

[lemontree26]

(guydesavoy @ Aug. 17 2009,01:03) Except about the weather in Amsterdam  

My guess is that Bumpa STIKKA is the new owner of this forum.  Maybe the same person or group who a few months ago bought ATS.  He's is Dutch and his name reads in Dutch as "bumper sticker".  

He is now in Bangkok and was only joking about the weather in Amsterdam.

Am I right?

Do I become now VIP member?    

[gart4571]

(lemontree26 @ Aug. 17 2009,03:44)

(guydesavoy @ Aug. 17 2009,01:03) Except about the weather in Amsterdam  

My guess is that Bumpa STIKKA is the new owner of this forum.  Maybe the same person or group who a few months ago bought ATS.  He's is Dutch and his name reads in Dutch as "bumper sticker".  

He is now in Bangkok and was only joking about the weather in Amsterdam.

Am I right?

Do I become now VIP member?    

I'm not a techy but it was my thought that he could tell by her "ISP address" that she was posting from Amsterdam and not the PI.

[Fonseca1]

I'm that serious, career-minded, single, mature gentleman, who wants spend all his money for that trustful and nice-looking Ladyboy.

[alan1chef]

(blonde_havoc @ Aug. 16 2009,08:54)

(Ruffa @ Aug. 16 2009,22:47) Maybe I should not have posted on here and if one of the Forum Adjudicators or Moderators wants to delete this whole Section (i.e. the whole of my Posts from the beginning) then that is OK with me.

The intention was to give you the outline of my history and what I am in words and (un-retouched) photos.

.....etc.....etc...[Edited for brevity by moderator]

I do not think that I will post again.

I have tried to be frank and full in my explanations, and I hope I have answered the questions and comments that were raised.

I hope that that which Mr. Alan1chef wrote will be proved correct.

Translation: "I've come here with the intent to milk some poor sod of his retirement savings while dating and fucking others because I think I can pull the wool over his eyes. But I've been caught, so I'm leaving with my tail tucked between my legs."

Another typical Filipino. Nothing to see here. Move along.

"Milking some poor sod of his retirement savings" is what happens to all the guys who go to Thailand and P4P.  Nice girl; wrong venue.  

[rxpharm]

lemontree26 you are wrong and gart4571 is correct.

Ruffa, welcome to the forum, but it is curious that your IP address does not originate from where you say you come from.

alan1chef, scammers are all over the world, and not only LOS.

[pacman]

(Ruffa @ Aug. 16 2009,22:47) The intention was to give you the outline of my history and what I am in words and (un-retouched) photos.

What a nice surprise to read such a full & frank disclosure.

Welcome Ruffa, you have stood up very well to your baptism of fire. Now relax, the worst is behind you.

I don't blame the level of cynicism displayed by some here, we all  have our radar on full alert whenever a new TS posts of her desire to meet someone for a LTR (long term relationship).

But as you discovered, not everyone is bitter & twisted & if you can do it once, you can do it again.

Your last companion sounds like a saint but kindness & generosity are not unknown traits here on the forum.

My advice is to ignore the negative comments & wait to receive a PM from a decent guy eager to make your acquaintance.

Sorting out frogs from princes is up to you. BTW, I for one was not expecting to read such a well written response from you. Is there any chance you had help in writing that? Perhaps a friend based in Amsterdam?

[El_hefe]

Well.... this is a tough room!

Welcome Ruffa, we've actually chatted briefly once or twice over the years & the first was when you were in Switzerland with your friend.

I actually could use a good accountant but my tax situation won't wait a couple of years.
Good luck to you.

[kahuna]

(alan1chef @ Aug. 17 2009,08:22) "Milking some poor sod of his retirement savings" is what happens to all the guys who go to Thailand and P4P.  

Interesting words from someone who has never been to Thailand...

[rossco]

Ruffa - nice to see you posting here and I wish you luck in your quest to find a good partner.

A relationship is like a Balance Sheet - weigh up the assets and liabilities before investing.

I did meet your partner, and corresponded with him, some while before he died, and he spoke of you and your ambitions
It sounds like your studies have progressed well and I hope you manage to complete them all and qualify as an accountant.

Our mutual friend was a good guy and a real gentleman and I am sure he would be proud of your achievements. I know, from what he told me, that you are a sincere and beautiful person - in fact he nearly tempted me to visit the Philippines!

I did not know his family but knew that he had shared his feelings, for you, with his daughter. I am pleased that you are still receiving her support.
Good luck in your future plans.

[lemontree26]

(rxpharm @ Aug. 17 2009,09:22) Ruffa, welcome to the forum, but it is curious that your IP address does not originate from where you say you come from.

IP addresses never lie .................  

[manarak]

they do sometimes

[kahuna]

Perhaps...But ladyboys NEVER lie...

[t-rocks69]

i actually know this girl in the photos. i dont believe she is in the p4p scene at least she wasnt when i knew her and she was with a english man. i have not heard from her in over a year or so. not sure what happened to her but the person i knew was a nice one. she was from mindano but i dont remeber what city.
ruffa if its you contact me on yahoo or msn which ever we used to talk on. or here by pm.

[Ruffa]

As to whether or not I am in Amsterdam (a European City which I have heard of but, obviously, never visited) I assume that it is possible to check the ISP of this post, and, unless the Internet Service Provider that I am using is in Amsterdam, you will find that I am posting this from Mindanao.