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(gizmo @ Aug. 18 2009,06:23) How do you know shes lookin for a quick buck?
Because her posts have the stink of "scam" all over them.
I agree to. If it isn't policed by us and treated lightly, they will come in droves. Sure they will have a few gullible guys falling all over themselves to pursue an internet love. So if a few BM here speak the harsh truth maybe it could save these guys from finding out the hard way. Why does anyone want to see this turn into a lb dating site?
(Ruffa @ Aug. 17 2009,20:25) Mr El_hefe in Post 53 you must be mistaken. The only country outside of the Philippines that I have travelled to is Thailand. I have never been to Switzerland €“ and I have never seen snow!
I always wish to accept someone at face value when I meet them, but I have been around the block enough times to smile & keep my hand on my wallet while doing so.
So then Ruffa, someone using your very distinct name, your photo, & claiming to live in Mindanao had this online exchange with me over a 2 1/2 week period starting December 29, 2008:
El_hefe, United States 29 Dec 2008
Well it sounds like you have some interesting story.... I hope you are doing ok? I think you're very brave & honest. Cheers,
ruffa_deligne, Philippines 29 Dec 2008
Thanks for your kind words.
How are you? I am now for Holidays and its very very cold in here.
Are you looking for ladyboys?
El_hefe, United States 29 Dec 2008
Very cold... in Davao? I am very well thank you... & yes, I guess I'm always looking for a ladyboy
ruffa_deligne, Philippines 29 Dec 2008
Thanks I am here now in Switzerland for holidays and I only have few days 'till my last day here.
Care to chat?
El_hefe, United States 29 Dec 2008
Wow,very nice .... & cold! Lucky you to have holidays there...
Sure I can chat for a few minutes.. but it's really late here & I got to go to sleep soon.......
ruffa_deligne, Philippines 29 Dec 2008
Ah OK,
I think its better for you to have a sleep now and, anyway, I still have some things
to fix here. I hope we can chat soon. Please give me your yahoo chat account and I'll add you later.
Thanks and I wish you sweetdreams.
Kisses
xxx
El_hefe, United States 29 Dec 2008
Ok sweetie, I know I sound boring.... but it's after 4am & I'm up early tomorrow. I hope you got to ski? My ym is xxxxx
I'm thinking of visiting the PI again next year & was wondering about Davao, never been there.... any way I hope to chat with you later.... whats your ym chat id?
Take care dear,
.............
El_hefe, United States 10 Jan 2009
Are you still in Switzerland?
ruffa_deligne, 21, Philippines 16 Jan 2009
No, I am now back in Philippines specifically in Davao city.
How are you? I am sure it is very cold in your country now.
I hope you will never catch a cold.
Take care and God bless.
Ruffa xxx
So there it is.... I'm a pretty boring guy.
Oh, .....& someone isn't telling the truth around here.
Hi Ruffa, there are a lot of doubters on the forum, unfortunately we have also had some scammers post too. Perhaps you could explain how you are accessing the internet and it will give us some clues as to the discrepancies in the IP address for your first few posts.
As for El_hefe's chat - maybe it was another Ruffa or someone who was impersonating you - which does happen in cyber-space.
OK, I think I may have the answer to all you "Doubting Thomas's" about the ISP comments.
Since I first posted on 15th August and 17th August I used 2 different Internet Cafes and the College Computer Room to post, because the broadband connection at my apartment was down €“ It came on again on the 17th August.
Maybe one of the Cafe's uses a server that's routed through Amsterdam or wherever else you think I posted from.
And to answer another query €“ yes, I did MSN-Yahoo Messenger with my sponsor (who is on vacation in Florida with her husband and children) and she did advise me on what to say and some of the phraseology to use €“ She helps me with big words! €“ But I still make typos which she tells me off about.
For the guys who have sent me PMs €“ I will reply to each of you (where the PMs are nice and respectful) and for the cynics €“ Please could you find someone else to pick on? or preferably stop picking on Ladyboys generally.
My name is Guy, so I guess I'd be called a 'doubting Guy'. I've never met Tom.
There are still a few things that don't ring true here.
You have, again, avoided the pressing question. What happened in Switzerland ?
As for needing help with the 'big words'...all your posts, including the last, are written in a very polished and, dare i say, erudite fashion. Unless your 'sponsor' (prescient choice of word ?) is ghosting every post, it seems you don't need much help
Good luck anyway
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