An Intoduction to Ruffa

[seamus]

(laputanegra @ Aug. 15 2009,23:00) welcome girl... hey 7 i dont dig gold, just platinum  

Your one of the honest ones girl & we love you for it

[fleeing]

(seamus @ Aug. 16 2009,08:36)

(laputanegra @ Aug. 15 2009,23:00) welcome girl... hey 7 i dont dig gold, just platinum  

Your one of the honest ones girl & we love you for it  

I thought Tan was the honest ONE.

[manarak]

I am traditionally religious, and go weekly to my Catholic Church.

damn... what a turn off

[blonde_havoc]

(fleeing @ Aug. 16 2009,13:38) I thought Tan was the honest ONE.  

Yeah Tan doesn't backstab... she stabs you from the front (and then backstabs you in a err... well, quite a different way ).

[blonde_havoc]

(Juri @ Aug. 16 2009,12:52) ...Hi Ruffa, forget what they speak about the way you earn money......

..spend me a ticket to the phills for i come to see you and tell the rest of the world what as good girl you are......aren't you ?...  

take it easy.........and btw...........welcome, i wait to see more from you...


....Juri*

Don't let Mrs. Juri find out!

[manarak]

I was shocked (but grateful) when the youngest daughter of my gentleman-friend made contact with me after his passing.

err... didn't we have a boardmember here with the same story, i.e. his daughters having the best relations with his LB crush?
Has this boardmember passed way?

Ruffa: was your late boyfriend a member of this board?

[gart4571]

(Bumpa STIKKA @ Aug. 16 2009,02:33) How is the weather in Amsterdam by the way?  

Anyone else find it strange that "Ruffa" suddenly stopped posting when she was asked about the weather in Amsterdam? Could it be that she is actually in Amsterdam and not in the PI as she states? I smell a rat?

[Juri]

(blonde_havoc @ Aug. 16 2009,10:11)

(Juri @ Aug. 16 2009,12:52) ...Hi Ruffa, forget what they speak about the way you earn money......

..spend me a ticket to the phills for i come to see you and tell the rest of the world what as good girl you are......aren't you ?...  

take it easy.........and btw...........welcome, i wait to see more from you...


....Juri*

Don't let Mrs. Juri find out!

....she is only my national darling.....but out of LOS i feel free..........

[sev7en]

(gart4571 @ Aug. 16 2009,20:34)

(Bumpa STIKKA @ Aug. 16 2009,02:33) How is the weather in Amsterdam by the way?  

Anyone else find it strange that "Ruffa" suddenly stopped posting when she was asked about the weather in Amsterdam? Could it be that she is actually in Amsterdam and not in the PI as she states? I smell a rat?

10 points, sherlock

[Ruffa]

Maybe I should not have posted on here and if one of the Forum Adjudicators or Moderators wants to delete this whole Section (i.e. the whole of my Posts from the beginning) then that is OK with me.

The intention was to give you the outline of my history and what I am in words and (un-retouched) photos.

I had to mention my religion because,  in many places, people associate Mindanao with the terrorist Abu Sayyaf Group, and the Autonomous Region in Muslim Mindanao is the region of the Philippines which has all of the predominantly Muslim Provinces.

My city has many Muslims in the local government but the Christians and Muslims live in harmony together and there is no violence and no problems between the two communities.

But, talking of problems, the Filipinos, whilst a happy people, do have problems caused by corrupt political practices and poverty.

The poverty causes our people (particularly our women) to have to work all over the world, leaving husbands to bring up children, which causes problems generation after generation.

And yes, as a transgendered person I have been subjected to humiliation and harassment, but I have learned to live with it.

Filipino boys see Filipino €œShe-Males€ as €œGays€ and want oral sex from them, but very rarely give any tenderness or anything in return. And, if one will not participate one gets verbally abused (at the very least!) €“ So, I am used to verbal abuse and humiliation.

I originally started in college, studying accountancy, after high-school, but had to leave because my father became ill and I had to go and work in his small (and unprofitable) business.

I went onto various internet dating sites and had letters from all sorts of people €“ and most letters were weird.

Occasionally I got a nice guy, or someone who seemed like a nice guy, but then they wanted web-cam sex or nude photos or asked questions of a very intimate personal and sexual nature.

When I started correspondence with my late friend he was just polite and when we web-chatted he never asked or said anything that could be considered improper.

We finally met and, yes, for me, it was like a girl€™s romance novel.

But I never asked for money or presents €“ Yes, he paid my air-fare and yes he encouraged me to return to college and he  paid for the tuition.

As I said, my tuition etc is still being paid for by his family €“ but it is dependent on my grades being achieved and the reports from the college.

They offered me a TV, but instead I chose to have extra lessons in English on a Saturday. So I have no TV, but I have music and I have the movies and friends with whom to chat.

Yes, of course I see a Western guy as my ticket out of the Philippines but I also see my Degree in Accountancy and my ability to speak English as my ticket out too.

The large International Companies do recruit in The Philippines and once I have my degree I will apply for jobs  to the large International Accountancy Firms and also to International Corporations.

That was why I don€™t like the €œGold Digger€ label €“ I have taken financial help from a lady who has become my friend and who has encouraged me to try and seek a fresh romance with Western Guy.

I do not need financial assistance from anyone else! I am most definitely not €œA material girl€!

I hope, in time, when I have my degree that my sponsor/friend will use her connections to help me find an accounting position abroad in an English Speaking Country.

I am appreciative of all the support and friendship she has given me and I want to thank her by achieving that which she wants for me.

She has told me that initially she thought about trying to get me a visa to be a Nanny for her children but after discussion with her husband she knew the best way to secure my future was through education in a recognized and well paid profession.

Of course I know that economically, in the short term,  there is money to be made in web-sex, in escort work,  (actually very little in the Philippines) and one can go to Singapore, China, possibly even Japan and do Escort work disguised as €œCabaret Entertainment€ €“ but that just isn€™t for me. I could never get my head round €œsex €œwithout€ love€.

Logically, looking at the long-term, an Accountancy Degree and fluency in English will prove more lucrative than anything in the €œsex-industry€. I can still be an accountant at 55 years old €“ but I could not earn a living offering web-cam sex at 55!!

So, I am sorry if my story is unoriginal (Mr. Lemontree26 in Post #14), but I cannot change the past nor the present. I have told it like it was and as it is.

I do not expect a Knight in Shining Amour riding a white horse to come and carry me off, but I also do not expect to kiss a lot of frogs in the hope one will turn into a prince.

Mr. Blonde_havoc in Post #21 €“ I do not need a code for "I want an older man because they have more money and I need someone to sponsor me while I 'study' accounting." €“ I already have a lady sponsoring me.

As for €œOlder men€ €“ in my (very) limited experience, an older man who has been with ladyboys and is comfortable with ladyboys will be more comfortable with someone like me and I will be more comfortable with him.

My guy took pleasure in teaching me things €“ he gave me Shaw€™s Pygmalion to read and told me to see the movie €œMy Fair Lady€ He considered me his €œEliza Doolittle€ project.

Mr. Kahuna in Post #22 €“ I appreciate that there are some people in this Forum who only want sex but I was told that there are people seeking knowledge about Ladyboys and there must be some guys who would be interested in someone who is a (reasonably well) educated Ladyboy who is interested in pursuing a serious career but wanting to meet a guy who will take her away from the bleak-future that could lie ahead.

I owe it to myself (and to the lady who sponsors me) to get my Accountancy Degree €“ that is my main goal and I will not let anything deflect me from that path.

Mr. Manarak to answer Post #36, I do not know if my late friend used your Forum; I met him through the dating site, €˜Dragoncastle.net€™; his daughter only told me about this Forum site last week.

I do thank Mr. Katoeylover, Mr. Gizmo, and Mr.  Seanbeag7, Miss Laputanegra, Mr. Alan1chef, Mr. Bumpa STIKKA and Mr. Seamus for your kind words of support.

I do not think that I will post again.

I have tried to be frank and full in my explanations, and I hope I have answered the questions and comments that were raised.

I hope that that which Mr. Alan1chef wrote will be proved correct.

[Bicycle Pump]

(Ruffa @ Aug. 16 2009,22:47) Maybe I should not have posted on here and if one of the Forum Adjudicators or Moderators wants to delete this whole Section...

No fucking way!

[gart4571]

Post # 40: Why no answer to the Amsterdam question?

[fleeing]

(gart4571 @ Aug. 16 2009,18:26) Post # 40: Why no answer to the Amsterdam question?

Who should be answering that?

'Ruffa' or Bumpa STIKKA ?

[manarak]

Maybe I should not have posted on here and if one of the Forum Adjudicators or Moderators wants to delete this whole Section (i.e. the whole of my Posts from the beginning) then that is OK with me.
...
I do not think that I will post again.

Hmm... maybe you would have had more success if you just had posted the pics and commented with "look how I'm sexy !!!" + your phone number

[blonde_havoc]

(Ruffa @ Aug. 16 2009,22:47) Maybe I should not have posted on here and if one of the Forum Adjudicators or Moderators wants to delete this whole Section (i.e. the whole of my Posts from the beginning) then that is OK with me.

The intention was to give you the outline of my history and what I am in words and (un-retouched) photos.

etc.....etc....etc....[Edited by Moderator in the interests of brevity]

I have tried to be frank and full in my explanations, and I hope I have answered the questions and comments that were raised.

I hope that that which Mr. Alan1chef wrote will be proved correct.

Translation: "I've come here with the intent to milk some poor sod of his retirement savings while dating and fucking others because I think I can pull the wool over his eyes. But I've been caught, so I'm leaving with my tail tucked between my legs."

Another typical Filipino. Nothing to see here. Move along.