Ex's engagement stands FIRM

[kempthorn]

this is for all the self proclaimed hip cynics, gunslinger, stogie et al. in secret everyone of you would love to meet an
l.b. who you believed really loved you and wanted to
establish a long term one to one realtionship with you.
i doen't know mark. have been with ex a couple of
times. she's a nice girl. will it work and for how long?
thats their business. for the rest of you. face up
to your own disappointment.

[gunslinger]

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[Guest]

When the cat is away the mouse will play, you can be sure of that.

Especially when the fella involved is old and the boy is young..............

[dummy_plug]

(video850 @ Jul. 22 2006,14:31) Its a bit depressing to hear all the doubters on the site. I guess maybe they are right for 90+% of the time.

90+%? That's a little on the low side. For the most part, I'd say the 'doubters' (or shall we call them realists) have been pretty honest and respectful about their comments. This guy has posted up something on a public forum, so not he or anyone else should be the least bit surprised people are going to come out with their thoughts on the topic.

Hey - if I found an LB that I truly loved and felt she truly loved me then I'd be all up for giving it a chance. So in that regard, I respect this guy for going down that road. But fuck, I'd also keep my eyes wide open and would accept the genuine possibility things might not work out. Disregarding the fact that she's an ex-bargirl, a normal Thai-farang relationship is difficult to manage and even many of those end up in heartbreak.

[dummy_plug]

(PogueMahone @ Jul. 22 2006,10:35) Oh and finally to the jackass who pondered if I was a LB, maybe if you eat a mile of my shit I will let you lick my asshole.

I just got your sweetheart on MSN and she said she'd do it for me - only a thousand baht too! And for another thousand more she'd lick mine (among other things) as well!

[video850]

(katoeylover @ Jul. 22 2006,17:38)

(video850 @ Jul. 22 2006,08:31) I have been with a LB for over a year now and we are thinking of a 'local marriage'.

Hi Video,

are you actually living in Thailand, or has your gf joined you where you live.

My only problem is the distance factor - when the cats away....and all that...

Good luck with your relationship

*

Hi !

In fact, she lives there and I am abroad - but I try and visit about every 6 weeks.

I also have many "pains" about whats happening/going on, but if I can SMS or call anytime and get a reply .......................... at least thats reassuring!!

But I don't want to "sound cocky" here - of course - they can go out when they say they are going to bed - but some element of trust has to be there.

Its a hell of a hill to climb, but then when I think of all the hassles I've had with GGs in the west ................ its not too much different.

Does that make any sense?!??!?!?? At all ?

I guess speaking and contacting every day should help .......... not least for us ................. but for them aswell.

I think it has been pointed out on this site many times before that LBs are very insecure ...................... guess its the after effects of the hormones they take .................. and probably some bad experiences in the past???

Oh - before I forget - just like to point out - I did not meet her in a bar, and she does not work in a bar. As far as I know - no-one has shagged her yet ............... at least from this site. No photos of her that I've seen. Bloody hope so anyway!!!

[ziggystardust]

I don't know what most of you assholes are thinking.

I have lived with May for 1 year almost exactly now.

I see nothing different, AT ALL, in our relationship, and my trust of her, than I did in my previous 2 ex-wives. Those ex-wives were non-working, 'proper' girls. May I met at a bar, and she was a working girl for a short-time.

There is zero, zero doubt in my mind May is far, far more trustworthy than my previous 2 ex-wives, and frankly it's looking like I may stay with her longer than my 2 ex's combined.

So it baffles me that you put down some girl and guy starting out, claiming her a whore once, a whore all the time, and <10% chance, blah, blah. I think that is pretty much true of every relationship these days, including the pathetic ones most of us on this forum have...because you are almost all jacking off to cock pics while your girlfriend or wife are not around.

I guess my point is, did y'all look in the mirror today at what you personally do and your personal morals in the area or LBs and how you are so superior that you can judge EX to be far lower than you or your girlfriend/wife sleeping in the next room?

[jellybean]

(ziggystardust @ Jul. 26 2006,17:30) ...because you are almost all jacking off to cock pics while your girlfriend or wife are not around.....

I exclude myself from that comment - I am jacking off to pictures of my girlfriend on this site because she's not around

[olekunde]

@ziggy, what impress me the most is that you can stay in thailand for a year without fuck around.
it's very sweet and such that you have found love, but as being far from a newbie i also a little bit surprised that you have let your guard down. one thing that i would never do is trust a thai gg/lb. i mean, if they screw around that is not the worst thing that could happen. they fucked before, and eventually they will fuck someone else later. but trusting them with money and heart is a dangerous game. farangs loose almost every time.

regarding ex, i have only spoken to her a few times, but i think it will take alot of money to keep her out of circulation. i guess her fiance can afford it, so good luck for him/them...

[stogie bear]

in secret everyone of you would love to meet an
l.b. who you believed really loved you and wanted to
establish a long term one to one realtionship with you.

It's happened to me on more than one occasion. I'm surprised my name has been mentioned!

There is a difference between cynicism and realism, however I am both a cynic and a realist!

[sangabriel]

(ziggystardust @ Jul. 26 2006,23:30) I don't know what most of you assholes are thinking.

I have lived with May for 1 year almost exactly now.

I see nothing different, AT ALL, in our relationship, and my trust of her, than I did in my previous 2 ex-wives. Those ex-wives were non-working, 'proper' girls. May I met at a bar, and she was a working girl for a short-time.

There is zero, zero doubt in my mind May is far, far more trustworthy than my previous 2 ex-wives, and frankly it's looking like I may stay with her longer than my 2 ex's combined.

So it baffles me that you put down some girl and guy starting out, claiming her a whore once, a whore all the time, and <10% chance, blah, blah. I think that is pretty much true of every relationship these days, including the pathetic ones most of us on this forum have...because you are almost all jacking off to cock pics while your girlfriend or wife are not around.

I guess my point is, did y'all look in the mirror today at what you personally do and your personal morals in the area or LBs and how you are so superior that you can judge EX to be far lower than you or your girlfriend/wife sleeping in the next room?

Well if your standard is you, and if you read your posts from less than a year ago about fucking the twins and how you are now converted to LB and no more ladies, ostensibly while living with May, its no wonder that you are UNABLE to criticize Ex or May for possibly sleeping around.

But that does not mean that ex-prostitutes are not sleeping with other guys.

Best advice yet is to avoid the prostitutes when establishing serious long term relationships. And I'm surprised this farce of a thread is still alive.

[dummy_plug]

(sangabriel @ Jul. 27 2006,09:50) Well if your standard is you, and if you read your posts from less than a year ago about fucking the twins and how you are now converted to LB and no more ladies, ostensibly while living with May, its no wonder that you are UNABLE to criticize Ex or May for possibly sleeping around.

Well said.

Hey Pogue? You're awfully mum mate. Hope all's well for ya.

[stogie bear]

I'm surprised this farce of a thread is still alive...

Me too!

[Randyman]

(stogie bear @ Jul. 28 2006,07:26)

I'm surprised this farce of a thread is still alive...

Me too!  

....Well, it has been up now for 28 days...it's probably over by now anyway

randyman
(lame joke ziggy, lame joke)

[olekunde]

just keeping it alive ...