Ladyboys versus GGs...

[cancer12]

we just had a thread about thai lb versus pi lb,

in my previous relationship, i have been competing( if that is the right term) to a gg, as my ex still think of gg when we are together meet gg when we are not, i met some guys after him, and they told me they are still into pussy, i have dated a guy who was actually not into lb but i was his first encounter, despite his affection for his gf( or ex gf) he still showed some care for me to the point where i am actually falling for him and eager to let him know what my feeling was for him, but i let it pass, but i let it go, because i didn't know if he is meeting me for some "extraordinary""unusual" sexual encounter... but then i moved on...

and just recently, i encountered similar scenario, when i find myself competing again against gg, and it lead me to a question, where should i put my self in this situation? i always wanted to believe that i can compete against gg to win the man's heart.... i always make myself believe (jokingly)  that i am better than i woman....

but is this just an ambitious thought, an illusion that i need to wake my self from, that gg will always be the winner and that only few actually like lb, purely, entirely, wholeheartedly.

a serious insight please...

[guydesavoy]

(cancer12 @ Jan. 05 2010,12:42) .... only few actually like lb, purely, entirely, wholeheartedly.

Hi cancer 12

I think this is quite true. Then there are those who only like lbs for an adventure or on holiday...and would never come out to their friends and family about their 'hobby', even the ones who carry on a long distance relationship....

There are guys out there looking for something real and genuine. One of my ex lb gfs just got married and moved to Germany..so it can happen You just need to sort out the wheat from the chaff.

Keeptrying and you will find. I think you look quite gorgeous so i hope it won't be long

[cancer12]

nope... i dont like to be assumed that i am looking , i am just wondering and the situations make me wonder... the real sense of being a ladyboy to you ladyboylovers? up to what extent you can show the world your love for ladyboys?

[cancer12]

as i have said, i have met some guys i made connection with, but at the back of my head lives the doubt... in my heart lives the fear that one day, he will leave me for a real woman, or he might be sneaking out to find some pussies....


hahaha... i don't know but unbelievably most of the men i met, they are either committed, or just had a relationship with a gg before me.. and the insecurity kills me!!!

[guydesavoy]

Perhaps they are just young butterflies

[cancer12]

i agree 27 is young...

but how about 44, 40, 49, 36, 45........ old enough to make make decisions if they want apple or orange.

[cancer12]

i met a guy he was 30, and among all the men i met, he was the only one who clearly knows what he wants.. and now he is happily committed to an lb, and living together in an island...

[f0xxee]

In 50 words or less:

Its hard to go backward in life. Once the bug bites it bites for good.
I haven't had much interest in women now for 15 years...
And I wouldn't change it for the world.

[Torurot]

(cancer12 @ Jan. 05 2010,13:13) old enough to make make decisions if they want apple or orange.

or like Apples and Orange in more or less equal amounts, or are indifferent to which flavour is on the menu for today or tomorrow. You can't compete with that.

[cancer12]

i agree... the scenario you are saying is when a guy is equally attracted and preferred both... that whether she is a ladyboy or gg, what matters is her individuality...her personality

and probably the situation that i wanted to point out is when you know you like ladyboys even more than ggs but u can't choose ladyboys over ggs... or when you know you like gg but you are hooked to a ladyboy but you just cant choose the latter..

for me, both situations seem to be unfair to us ladyboys...

[anicon]

..for me it's a no-brainer, i will always prefer women to LBs becuz women have a real pussy that is made for sex, babies & are ez'r to get along with, for me at least... LB's.. u never know what they really feel or think so LBs to me are a just a curiosity & not a permanent relationship.. sorry if that sounds insensitive but thats how i feel about the LBs I've met so far, which isn't a very large number compared to the women I've known..  

..now shemales here in the U.S. & Latin America I might be willing to try a long term relationship with a few I've seen on video, but for LBs I'm not there yet..  

[cancer12]

thanks anicon, thats a real insight... one perfect example of what im trying to point out and there are more... and it is not insensitive, i just wish u also know how to make ladyboys u meet to feel that you are just playing our of curiosity...

nice one...

[JaiDee]

Don't forget there are a lot of guys who have gone full circle as well; started with girls, switched to ladyboys, and now back to girls;  I am one of them.  Although *some* ladyboys interest me in photos or from posting up here [hint to Alyssa!!] I'd much prefer a tall blonde swedish or icelandic girl than anything Nana plaza is producing these days.

   That thought process would have been unheard of about 4 or 5 years ago when I was really INTO the whole ladyboy thing and had sworn off real ladies forever, especially keeping in mind a horrible marriage from the early 90's. But as the immortal, gone-but-never-forgotten Stogie Bear said as he headed into retirment; "things change!".

          It may happen to some of you guys as well, there are a lot of screen names which have dissapeared from this forum  over the years as many punters have probably moved on from chasing ladyboys and gone back to munchin' on the carpet once again.  I know a few myself personally, but that doesn't mean we won't be back!!

[cancer12]

hehehe... its true jai dee, and it scares me...


men are supposed to chase women, though a percentage of men in the world chases ladyboys,
it is a scary fact that ladyboylovers would retire from the ladyboy scene and come back to women...

one thing is for sure women will never meet scarcity of men...

ladyboys might someday...

[guydesavoy]

I echoe your sentiments and observations entirely JaiDee