Ladyboys versus GGs...

[cancer12]

yes fiona, yes!!!


that's what i was wondering also... what if one day, i meet my mr.right, and we'll love each other like there's no one else in this world but him and i, and start building our relationship... and one day he'll wake up and realized that he's tired of this kind of relationship... i mean this obviously happens with ggs, gay guys and guys... but it is kind of harder to accept that he fall out of love and get tired of the relationship because he's missing what he was used to want, and he feels going back to where he started...

i mean most gay guys are certain about their sexuality, their preference...
men who are into ggs would wanna live with ggs and ggs would wanna live with men...

but those men who are into both ggs and ladyboys.......... ughhhh

i have this clear picture in my mind of what i want to say but i can not pick the right words!

somebody help me!!!


fiona thought about it, because i know she feels, she understands and she knows what jai dee said was true... and i feel the same...

[robbo]

i really wouldnt worry too much about it hun, lifes a lottery, ive been through a great deal of grief in my relationships,its part and parcel of getting involved with someone,i choose not to as ive had enough crap.i just want it simple, so i go p4p and go to LOS when i can,its my fun and my payoff for being single.
you want a LTR then you have to take on the possible downsides to it as well as the ups..........go into it optimistc but be realistic.

[azza33]

(JaiDee @ Jan. 05 2010,22:43) Don't forget there are a lot of guys who have gone full circle as well; started with girls, switched to ladyboys, and now back to girls;  I am one of them.  Although *some* ladyboys interest me in photos or from posting up here [hint to Alyssa!!] I'd much prefer a tall blonde swedish or icelandic girl than anything Nana plaza is producing these days.

You really should see someone about this - sounds very serious

[f0xxee]

(fionasexyangel @ Jan. 07 2010,23:46) your post makes me think deep..

i'm living with my bf in west now.. i have no doubt that he love me, as i love him too... meet his parents and other families too...

but reading your post makes me wonder, what if one day he wake up and didn't love me anymore? or one day he fall in love with someone else?

ahh, nevermind... i don't want to think so far...

And everyone who ever loved anyone thinks that too... Every guy who moves to Thailand a buys a house for him and the wife, every girl or ladyboy who moves in with a guy at 20 worries about whether it will last until old age....

So you are not alone Fiona. Its why relationships have jealous moments and moments of insecurity.

Its the risk you take when you fall in love.

[fionasexyangel]

(f0xxee @ Jan. 07 2010,17:53)

(fionasexyangel @ Jan. 07 2010,23:46) your post makes me think deep..

i'm living with my bf in west now.. i have no doubt that he love me, as i love him too... meet his parents and other families too...

but reading your post makes me wonder, what if one day he wake up and didn't love me anymore? or one day he fall in love with someone else?

ahh, nevermind... i don't want to think so far...

And everyone who ever loved anyone thinks that too... Every guy who moves to Thailand a buys a house for him and the wife, every girl or ladyboy who moves in with a guy at 20 worries about whether it will last until old age....

So you are not alone Fiona. Its why relationships have jealous moments and moments of insecurity.

Its the risk you take when you fall in love.

now it makes me feel i'm old hehehe...

i never think like this before, on my past relationships..

always think that everything is fine until it's over...

i guess people develop different mindset when they get older?

OMG... i'm old now...

thanx anyway for your words foxxee...

[jimslim]

(cancer12 @ Jan. 08 2010,00:00) but those men who are into both ggs and ladyboys.......... ughhhh

i have this clear picture in my mind of what i want to say but i can not pick the right words!

somebody help me!!!

What you are saying is you are afraid if you fall in love with a guy that he might leave you to go with a GG again ?

It is a possibility of course , but I would venture to say if a guy is prepared to come out in the open and fall in love with a transsexual and is prepared to accept all the hurdles that might throw up then he has made quite a committment and will be the sticking around type , why else would he take the plunge ?

Of course relationships end and people fall out of love all the time , these things happen .

Don't be so serious and don't worry , let cupid take his course and have fun

[anicon]

 ...hmmm, yes don't worry what might happen bcuz those possibilities are endless; i.e. some married women today might not only worry about infidelity but fear their husband might be gay or turn CD or both!     I've never met or known of women that feared losing their "man" to a transsexual tho, & u don't even read or hear much about that subject on those reality talk shows either..  

..personally it would be nice if I could have 10 of each, that is if I had the means to support all 20 (TS/GG)!    

[tally65]

(cancer12 @ Jan. 05 2010,13:13) i agree 27 is young...

but how about 44, 40, 49, 36, 45........ old enough to make make decisions if they want apple or orange.

Cancer12,

quite honestly I think that age is irrelevant. Some of us like both apples and oranges.... well, I know I do!
As they say, variety is the spice of life

[perth_couple]

(cancer12 @ Jan. 05 2010,13:13) i agree 27 is young...

but how about 44, 40, 49, 36, 45........ old enough to make make decisions if they want apple or orange.

Some people like apples, some people like oranges.

Some people like fruit salad

Not in anyway a definitive answer, but may explain how it is for some people out there!

[perth_couple]

(fionasexyangel @ Jan. 07 2010,23:46) what if one day he wake up and didn't love me anymore? or one day he fall in love with someone else?

Isn't that a universal fear felt by almost everyone who has ever been in love?

That the love they experience now may one day end?

The only way to avoid this fear is to never fall in love at all!

[cancer12]

last nyt... i felt so weary... there are just too many stuff going on.. and in the middle of the night when i was not supposed to go home, when it is least safe for me to travel, i chose to go... on the way, i looked at the window, looking too far away outside... and i had this realization...

why did i become like this? why did chose to be a hooker?

i answered and just thought, because they are very strong... they are very smart enough to take for granted their emotional needs.. to set aside their feelings... to live with their goals to earn enough money for themselves and for their family.

[i]The only way to avoid this fear is to never fall in love at all!

and i wished to be as strong as them. i fear everything that is associated to love and i could not just stop falling in love.

[guydesavoy]

Becoming a hooker isn't the only way to get strong. Especially when you have so many other options

[f0xxee]

Steroids?

[guydesavoy]

That's just the kind of facile, juvenile and quite frankly   kind or remark we have come to expect of you young foxxee !

Please don't stop  

[laputanegra]

i dont really see gg as a competition unless she is doutzen kroes