How To Treat a Ladyboy - Hints and Tips

[f0xxee]

RE: my comemment, "you're all gay"....

When I decided that it was Ladyboys all the way and came flying out of the closet I realised several things.
I needed to get divorced.
I like cock.
I like cock on ladyboys only
I like ass better than pussy.
Pitch or catch, its the same game.
I needed to live with myself
I was essentially straight (I love beauty... anyone who has seen my photos knows I love beautiful women/ladyboys)
but I am essentially gay also. I LIKE COCK
I dont give a fuck what anyone thinks
And I look the world straight in the eye.

In the time I have bounced out of the darkness and misery of self denial I have had a few moments of angst, but on the whole (no pun intended) life has improved dramatically.
I have lived an intensely masculine lifestyle and continue to do so. Occupationally I have no choice.
I bring my ladyboys with me where ever I travel, book into hotels, air travel, go shopping go to the beach etc... in other words I forget what they are and concentrate on who they are.
What would have been career limiting had I tried to hide my preferences, has not been career neutral but in a small way career enhancing. When you take a ladyboy to a senior management fucntion people realise you dont give a fuck what they think of your private life, and sort of grudgingly admire your honesty. And if you are good enough to pull a ladyboy that is drop dead gorgeous, men will always be men... they will have a little bit of envy too. It indicates one thing above all else... you are honest. Respect.
But best of all your ladyboy knows you are a good man... imagine how they feel if you look like Maxwell Smart doding Kaos everytime you leave the hotel with them? And only leave the hotel with them under pressure? Not good for their egos presumably. And not a good indicator of your committment either.

Lastly, I am now at a time of life where my skin has toughened and not much hurts me. My friends take the piss about my preferences, but in the way friends do: no malice attached. And that to me is a sure sign of acceptance.

Gents, unless you are married or have children that wont understand (most would) . Get out of your closets.
Denial will suck the life out of you.

[deepthroat]

Many of you may agree with Foxee's comments, but I strongly disagree with both the sweeping generalizations and the arrogant/patronizing tone.  



Foxee, glad that you finally got up the courage to get out of the closet.   Hooray for you. Some of my best friends are gay. But I've never been tempted to engage in any sort of sexual activity with them, and at 47 I'm pretty certain I know what I like. Saying that everyone else is gay because you are is patently ridiculous.  

Postulating BS is one thing; professing to know the heart of another, especially a whole BUNCH of others that you've never even f'ing met, is a whole 'nother thing.

'nuff said.

[daveduke007]

(ericeric @ Jan. 09 2009,21:25) Looks like Am(Aum) from Didi bar

Nearly, shes called Aem

I can vouch thats shes great in the sack

[jb8]

Deepthroat well said! People see yourselves in any manner that makes you happy and quit worrying about how everyone else see's themselves.

[laputanegra]

(f0xxee @ Jan. 10 2009,04:35) RE: my comemment, "you're all gay"....

When I decided that it was Ladyboys all the way and came flying out of the closet I realised several things.
I needed to get divorced.
I like cock.
I like cock on ladyboys only
I like ass better than pussy.
Pitch or catch, its the same game.
I needed to live with myself
I was essentially straight (I love beauty... anyone who has seen my photos knows I love beautiful women/ladyboys)
but I am essentially gay also. I LIKE COCK
I dont give a fuck what anyone thinks
And I look the world straight in the eye.

I Get out of your closets.
Denial will suck the life out of you.

Very Well Said  

[paultain]

I could have sworn this thread was about "How to treat a Ladyboy". But now its just bickering about what sexual label you like to be called

[kahuna]

(deepthroat @ Jan. 10 2009,06:06) Foxee, glad that you finally got up the courage to get out of the closet.   Hooray for you. Some of my best friends are gay. But I've never been tempted to engage in any sort of sexual activity with them,
  Posted on: Mar. 15 2008,17:05        
I searched and read and finally determined that this (hopefully) is the right spot for this question. I hope I don't offend anyone, but I am a straight guy who is a fanatical about getting a great BJ, and the best I've gotten have mostly come from gay men.

Time out...You tell us now that you have never had sexual activity with a man...

So blow jobs aren't really sex?

You and Clinton go to different schools together?

I'll wager some of your best friends are black too...

Talk about patronizing...

[deepthroat]

Kahuna, I'm flattered that you're so focused and concerned with my sexuality. Things must be awfully boring at your house... you might think about getting a pet, or having one of the neighbors look in on you from time to time. Isn't there a pinochle game you could be joining?

My words are self explanatory, and only contradictory if you chose to ignore their context. Like, um... where did I say I've never gotten sucked off by a gay man? I believe the quote says quite clearly that I have gay friends but I've never been interested in having sex with them. I'm not attracted to gay men. That hasn't stopped me from getting sucked off by some (but none of my friends) while I watched porn in the "peep booths". I've never made that a secret and in fact I've discussed that at great length here so you can quite acting like you've somehow "outed" me. Attraction to anonymous sex isn't only the realm of gay men. I'm also not attracted to ugly women, but if she can deepthroat like a demon I'll gladly sign up. I don't like the bullshit game of "soccer" that you guys call "football" but I've watched some games and actually enjoyed it because of the specific situation (great bar, fun friends, etc.) but that doesn't make me a "football/soccer fan" and because I enjoyed a game, do you get to decide that I am a fan? No - ultimately, it's my choice whether I consider myself a fan.  I don't consider it gay to get my willy sucked through a gloryhole while watching a porno and that's the heart of this recent mutation of the thread, that gay is, after all, what YOU decide it is. And ultimately who really gives a fuck if I AM gay and just living in denial? I'm having the time of my life because I feel very clear about my life. I'm not conflicted and struggling, unlike Foxee described. But I do take umbrage to dimestore psychiatrists and 1-900 astrologers who claim to be able to work up the a picture of a persons psyche which they then insist the other person needs to "fess up" to.

As PaulTain rightly points out, it would be nice to see the thread returned to it's title "How To Treat A Ladyboy" - and off the bandwagon of straightening out all of our conflicted sexuality and codifying what is or is not the litmus test for being gay. This is an argument that can never be won or settled, and a waste of precious bandwidth.

[kahuna]

I am neither focused on nor concerned about your sexuality...Nor would I ever, unlike yourself,
attempt to personalize my comments or try to play armchair psychoanalyst...
Something that you tell us you take umbrage against, yet you practice yourself...

My only focus is on the words that you type here...nothing more, nothing less...Often you appear to me to be a bit naive...
Often you appear to me to sound a bit arrogant and condescending...And often you contradict yourself...That's my only focus...

I don't much care what you do with your cock or your mouth...

In my opinion, the plain truth is, straight folks don't have to keep proclaiming to the world that they are not gay...

BTW...My home for the past 3 months has been a small apartment in Pattaya...I can assure you that I am not the least bit bored...
Sorry no card games or pets...But I do get visits from a few of my Pattaya neighbors now and again...

PS. How many times are you gonna edit your damn post?

[Stogie]

Some of my best friends are...

You've lost me. This is one of those comments that is wedged into an argument/opinion to augment it's case.

[deepthroat]

And now we return you to our previously scheduled topic.....

[bigmick22]

(Stogie @ Jan. 10 2009,08:31)

Some of my best friends are...

You've lost me. This is one of those comments that is wedged into an argument/opinion to augment it's case.

I shudder when I see these words and the poster loses all credibility in my mind

Kahuna may be an angry old fucker, but he speaks a lot of wise words


I'm not gay but etc. etc. etc. blah blah blah

In case anyone is wondering, the beaches in Hua Hin are great right now and the blonde pixie is as she ever was (woooohoooo!!!!)

[daveduke007]

(kahuna @ Jan. 10 2009,07:48) BTW...My home for the past 3 months has been a small apartment in Pattaya...I can assure you that I am not the least bit bored...
Sorry no card games or pets...But I do get visits from a few of my Pattaya neighbors now and again...

I knew that was coming

[f0xxee]

Have I rattled your cage Deepthroat?

Over the last three weeks you have clained to be so excited about ladyboys and we all have to endure your mindless countdown in every post you submit...

You want a ladyboy, but won't suck their cock and wont let them fuck you... but you have stated the best BJ's you have had off gay men.

I leave it to others to educate you... No. With you I can see it will have to happen the hard way. As one who has never visited the fair shores of Thailand, or sucked a dick etc you sure are hitting the high level alarm on opinion, and seem to feel you are the epitome of humour and all things worldly...

And I say the following as a man one year younger than you, and feel free to percieve it as arrongantly and as condecendingly as it is intended:

"You crazy mixed up kid you......"

[sev7en]

(f0xxee @ Jan. 10 2009,19:36) Over the last three weeks you have clained to be so excited about ladyboys and we all have to endure your mindless countdown in every post you submit...