Ohm

[mazoun]

(vito @ Jun. 24 2007,08:18)

(ozzie @ Jun. 24 2007,06:41) So some girl did not click with you and you decide to tell thewhole world about it? Why not take it up with her or Jay? Then if that does not solve your issue then maybe tell us about it.

This is the forum to lay out the good or the bad about any girl or bar. Just because it is Mardhi's place doesn't make it sacred. There is plenty of bandwidth for those who had a good experience with Ohm to tell us about it. These kind of posts will keep the girls on their toes, not the threat to talk to the mamasan.

I agree, we do not have to tell Mardhi, or ask Jay's permissiion. This is a forum, where we can tall/vent our feelings. I thought of picking up Ohm, but now I will think twice.

[Guest]

Yes this is a forum and you can vent your feelings but I do not see the point in maligning the girl because your time spent with a girl did not live up to expectations.

I mean if she stole something from you then I can understand letting others know but otherwise why bother you are not really helping others as everyone can and will have a different experience with each girl.

Ones man trash is another mans treasure so to speak.

[mardhi]

Jay will talk with Ohm about this situation and ask her for her side of events, but on face value she is concerned - I was just talking to her about it a few minutes ago. her reaction was that if Ohm was not comfortable with the size of the guy, she should not have accepted the barfine in the first place which I suspect is the view of the original poster. Unfortunately Ohm is probably the most 'naive' girl in the bar - some guys like that innocence but it can also prove difficult for some other guys expecting a full on experience as basically thats not her style.

As to the debate about price - well that could go on forever - suffice to say, had it been me and the girl said she wanted 2000 and the guy did not want to pay it - I would have moved on - 'negotiating' a discount in Thailand in my experience at least = a reduced level of service. Would be interesting to see how it was handled with Cindy, a fact the OP did not mention.

But as I say, Jay will talk to Ohm about it this afternoon when she see's her.

Cheers
Mardhi

[donnnnnny]

(vito @ Jun. 24 2007,08:18)

(ozzie @ Jun. 24 2007,06:41) So some girl did not click with you and you decide to tell thewhole world about it? Why not take it up with her or Jay? Then if that does not solve your issue then maybe tell us about it.

   

This is the forum to lay out the good or the bad about any girl or bar.  Just because it is Mardhi's place doesn't make it sacred.  There is plenty of bandwidth for those who had a good experience with Ohm to tell us about it.  These kind of posts will keep the girls on their toes, not the threat to talk to the mamasan.

quite rght and well said sir
just a scam like the girls used to do jeb jeb jeb fuck off she knew what you wanted and knew the price. if she didnt want 1000 she could have just walked away there ad then. after all you bought the drink for her and she pulled your cock out.
i would have just walked out.

[divertwo]

(mardhi @ Jun. 24 2007,22:00) - 'negotiating' a discount in Thailand in my experience at least = a reduced level of service.

...yup....having to negotiate already starts the experience as negative........taking a lead from Ozzie that I see in a number of posts......."she asked for XXXXX, I laughed".........and no doubt he walked on. This is from a guy(Ozzie) that lives and breaths in BKK..does that tell you something?

[filoubidou]

(mardhi @ Jun. 25 2007,16:00) As to the debate about price - well that could go on forever - suffice to say, had it been me and the girl said she wanted 2000 and the guy did not want to pay it - I would have moved on - 'negotiating' a discount in Thailand in my experience at least = a reduced level of service. Would be interesting to see how it was handled with Cindy, a fact the OP did not mention.

Actually, I did not bag her, I just say I only have 2000 to pay all I have to pay, I did not insist in any manner, I just let her do want she wanted with my cock and that's it! i never try to push her to come up with me, she did all the moves, i just waited and see...
May be she thought I was negociating but I was not, it was the true....
about Cindy as you want to know, yes she ask for more but I just said, I will pay only for that, take it or live it.
She took it and she was great!

[Guest]

Interesting tactics , budgeting only 2000 for a girl , so after a drink , and bar fine and short time room , she will be left with about 1000 .

Seems like if you approach a girl like this and go through the drink buying process and then the negotiations , if she says no and lets say this happens 3 or 4 times then you are up for an expensive night , when if you had of offered the first girl say 500 more you would of got your first choice and saved some money overall .

Or am i missing something ?

[newwriter]

(kahuna @ Jun. 25 2007,01:15) I have no idea what you are reading, but obviously not the posts in this thread...

No one has attacked him or maligned him for his opinion...just disagreed with him in part...and I'm the only one who has given Tom/Ohm a thumbs up...

Maybe I better reread the posts to find the "stick."

By the way, what does "stick" mean?

Kahuna, I rarely find myself disagreeing with your posts but this is plain wrong. filoubidou definitely took some stick for posting a basically negative report on a girl here.

It often seems to me that Guess Bar is untouchable at times amongst forum members. Now, before I am flamed I want to say I loved the place, the girls, Mardhi and everything about it but a single bad experience doesn't reflect personally on Jay or the set up. It just means something less than perfect happened to a customer with one of the girls - hardly surprising, but censoring the story doesn't help.

Already I see Mardhi has indicated Jay wants answers as to what went on so we all receive improved service in some small way as a result.

DP has the right take on this - it's a mini trip report and is thus entirely valid. If the guys negotiating tactics don't gel with everybody else's it's hardly a surprise - we are from all over the world and all sorts of different financial situations.

One final comment. brocklanders, you are bloody good company and post lots of stuff worth reading but you are a tight arse. And I mean that in the Australian sense of penny-pinching not as some reference to where you fit on the gay continuum.

Flying half way around the world to fuck prostitutes and you bitch about $10-$15? Get a grip.

[katoeylover]

There will always be problems when hookers and customers dont click, and i reckon a lot that has heppened here is just that- wrong girl, wrong time.

Yes Ohm handled it badly, but that can be addressed.

And Guess bar is open to criticism, as are all the other Bars

[kaos]

well im sorry i dont see any relation with what Ohm did and the Guess bar.
you shouldnt address her behaviour as bar responsability, i mean you cant be surprised if these girls behave like bitches
and about customer #1 well i think its true for everything related to the exchange of any material or intellectual goods but when your talking about the sex market well in that case it doesnt work.
so she wanted 2K baht and you were able to give her only 1K...well the result was that she only gave you a tight ass she wasnt wrong on my opinion

[nam]

Thats the second time I've read about her pulling that 'too big' load of shit. Check out Eclipse trip report dated may 18th.
IMO she should be shown the fucking door.

[filoubidou]

(monkeyman @ Jun. 25 2007,20:01) Interesting tactics , budgeting only 2000 for a girl , so after a drink , and bar fine and short time room , she will be left with about 1000 .

Seems like if you approach a girl like this and go through the drink buying process and then the negotiations , if she says no and lets say this happens 3 or 4 times then you are up for an expensive night , when if you had of offered the first girl say 500 more you would of got your first choice and saved some money overall .

Or am i missing something ?

yes you miss something, but it is not your fault as i did not mention it in my earlier reports, I was coming back from some shopping at Pantip plaza and I decided to stop on my way to my hotel in Soi3. I had about 2000 in my pocket and I thought I could kill an hour by having a little fun with a girl, it was about 4h30pm and Guess bar was the only option.

One more thing, to all the readers, I post this thread not to make some shade to Guess bar, it is just a report of what really happened with all the sincerity I can have, I do not try to make a story from nothing, just add to this forum my (sad) experience with a girl, to avoid this happen again with another customer, or if this happen again (and apparently I am not the first one), just be warned about the girl. this forum is also to inform people, and i think by writing this, I was informing people, if you took it the wrong way, I am sorry...

[jhcal26]

Please do not be shy and post your uncensored experiences good or bad. On a side note, I wish I had your problem....filoubidou

[Guest]

(vito @ Jun. 24 2007,08:18) "Just because it is Mardhi's place doesn't make it sacred."

OK LA!!! Now i realise why Mardhi is so fucking defensive when I reported the girl I was with being punched, kicked, bit and hair pulled.... why Mardhi is so quick to suggest there is more to it and in the next sentence rant about unreasoanble customers... but of course Mardhi was not there and has not fronted up what it is that i did that was so unreasonable....

Buy a drink for ME? unreasonable?
Buy a drink for Ohm? unreasonable?
Sit on the sofa chat to ohm? unreasonable?
Let ohm rub me... and stop her every now and again? what YOU have not done that in a bangkok bar?

It is all clear I have seen the light.

[stogie bear]

Filoubidou with his apparently western thinking thought he had agreed an enforceable agreement. Ohm with her Thai thinking saw it differently...

Good point... lost in translation!

Yes this is a forum and you can vent your feelings but I do not see the point in maligning the girl because...

Well - actually I do. If I'm wrong then there are plenty of people who will jump to her defence and if I'm right then some one reading this has saved a couple of bucks...

Would be interesting to see how it was handled with Cindy, a fact the OP did not mention...

Well - that's easy - Cindy is very up front and transparent about her fees and obligations. They may be a tad on the high side and/or they may be just what you want to pay... but one thing is for sure... she ain't cheap but she IS worth every dime!