Guess Bar - March 2009

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(halla @ Mar. 24 2009,18:19)

(TTChang @ Mar. 24 2009,09:49) The girls (with a few notable exceptions ... Tam and Jasmine particularly) seem totally disinterested in greeting the regulars. I presume because we are not often barfining we are like wallpaper to them.

You hit the nail on that one. I've only been in there 2 of 3 times and the girls were bored and complained about no customers. When I said that I can see many guys in here, they all replied that it was just some cunts who hang out there and would never give them any business. *
They said some guys even bring outside ladyboys into Guess. Not so popular *

I'm simply sharing an experience with bringing an outside ladyboy to Guess Bar. It doesn't appear that the recent experience I had was so isolated.

Perhaps by identifying this attitute that does exist, brings a positive change for those who want to bring an outside ladyboy.

Its the only "ladyboy bar" that I brought my girlfriend and because she got offended by the boss of all people, I won't be taking another because of that, which is my choice.

[Guest]

I took my girl into Guess bar way back in may last year, arranged to meet the deno there,
the only girl in the place to talk with myself and my girl was jenny,
jenny and my girl were getting along fine and i played pool with jenny ( wishing i could of got jenny back to room with my girl )
no other girl in there said hello, the deno turned up, we had one more drink and left, had more girls wanting to talk with my girl in cascade

steviep

[TRANSLOVER]

Was at guess bar yesterday night around 11:00 pm
It has changed since my last visit two years ago may 2007 at the previous location.
General aspect not clean, few girls not pushy at all
bad overal impression Jay's management missing.........

[Naang Faa]

(Boarhog @ Apr. 07 2009,17:57) "You look like girl, but not beautiful" Later she made a comment about Tomcats little honey he brought over from Cascades (pictured) My girlfriend hears Jay tell a couple of the staff: "She's cute, hair not real thats a wig"

This is standard ladyboy talk,there isn't any malice in them remarks (in LOS).

Boarhog,Nalin is going through a tough time and making
something ordinary by their standards a problem by ours..

The only time i left the company i was with (Pacman)
to get some air outside,Jay & her sister come out to
talk for an hour or so..
part of the conversation goes like this..

Jane-Erica Andrews,she is doing a show tomorrow,we
should go..
Jay- Yes,she looks like you a little,she is fat now too
me-really,she's a dancer she can't be fat.me i have choice
chocolate be fat= no boyfriend no chocolate thin=
boyfriend,so it's chocolate every time!
together-hahahahaha
me-oh Jay,Khun Kai says hello yada yada yada gab gab
i found them both very funny.

it wasn't said as an insult,just descriptive..
Same goes in LBT,when a ladyboy wants to be bitchy they
are far more creative than this i can assure you of this..

Apart from getting the attention of wait staff for a drink
i can't recall talking to any girl in the bar and as an "outside
ladyboy" i'm sure i am of little interest to them and they are not there to entertain me..

x

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This is standard ladyboy talk,there isn't any malice in them remarks (in LOS).

If this is such standard ladyboy talk then why was she so offended? Nalin has been around ladyboys for years, and she specifically mentioned that if Jay said this comment to a ladyboy in Patpong she wouldn't make it out unscathed.

Nalin may have felt a bit threatened by some of the Guess girls beauty which would make her more sensitive to a comment like this, but I don't think any ladyboy would discount being called "not beautiful"

The fact that Jay made this comment to Nalins face, and Nalin hearing the comment about Shuey wearing a wig reflected poorly on Jay. She's not some catty talking p4p girl making these comments, she is the boss making one of the comments to a patrons girlfriends face, and the other about a patrons lb to some of her staff. That was the context no matter how much you try to sugar coat its not cool to speak down to people like that.

[Naang Faa]

If this is such standard ladyboy talk then why was she so offended

Same reason she stops you looking over the balcony...insecure and over sensitive..
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Right, and if Nalin said this same comment to a Guess girl she would get a drink in the face or worse. If she said it to Jay she would most likely get kicked out and/or banned.

So outside ladyboys should accept a comment like this as ladyboy talk? If they don't they must be over sensitive or insecure. Well at least forum guys can bring outside ladyboys in if they know they are hardoned and not sensitive about their beauty.

I won't be testing that though.

[Naang Faa]

If she said it to Jay she would most likely get kicked out and/or banned.

Yes,because this would be a fib..

Nalin seems crushed..you must be very proud man today.
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[thaibound]

while i have no "documentation" , as far as my personal history with guess bar, the two best times i ever had there were the two times i brought a ladyboy with me. once it was the then-new-to-stringfellows anny, who jenny looked upon as a little sister and kept her wide-eyed and laughing throughout our visit. the second time i arrived with nancy (then from didi's in pattaya) and we hung out with KL and anna when not shooting pool with donny and mint. another excellent evening out. until our taxi got rear-ended trying to get us back to the hotel.

but come to think of it, those two visits were at the old location. maybe things have changed. i don't know.

[katoeylover]

Just had 3 great nights @ Guess.

No problem at all for me.

Love it!!

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(katoeylover @ Apr. 15 2009,05:13) Just had 3 great nights @ Guess.

No problem at all for me.

Love it!! * *

It shouldn't be a problem for you when your barfining the same lb everyboy every night. You are their ideal customer by drinking there and taking one of their finest every night.

Its a whole different story when you take an outside ladyboy to GB. *

The guys who just go there and meet up and have a drink don't sound to happy with the treatment they have witnessed as of late. *

Its like Stogie says just don't bring and outside lb or don't go. So I won't unless its specifically to meet up with some forum guys, then its off to NEP (quickly) *and after that Guess Bar II or Guess Bar III. *I can't have sex in the toilet there, because they don't have a toilet.

Perhaps you can take an outside lb on your next trip KL and then at the end of the night or next day ask her what she thought, and how comfortable she was. *She may not care at all as long as she is getting paid, but a gf type is going let you know her true feelings. *As long as she isnt stuck in the corner some where just listening to her ipod, Im sure she will be subjected to some form of catty behavior, called madame, or looked down to by some staff.

[katoeylover]

BH, In the past I have taken many outside LB's there, Vee and Sonya to name 2 and never had a problem even then, also this was in both locations, Soi 1 and the new place on soi 4.

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(katoeylover @ Apr. 15 2009,13:55) BH, In the past I have taken many outside LB's there, Vee and Sonya to name 2 and never had a problem even then, also this was in both locations, Soi 1 and the new place on soi 4.

I hope you would get affored th respect you deserve as a long time loyal customer. As people are pointing out lately seems to e a decline in attitude towards bm. I just shedding light on my personal expience with bringing in an outside lb. Not suggeting it will happen to everyone but it happened to me.

[Naang Faa]

(Boarhog @ Apr. 15 2009,08:41) Not suggeting it will happen to everyone but it happened to me.

But you're Eternal friend of ladyboys, how can this be?
x

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Yes, and I'm being a friend to her by speaking up for her Fang! So try to start making sense.

Your the self proclaimed great defender of ladyboys, and used to go on about how you had to "protect your girls" I guess thats until they asked you to leave.


Who was protecting them from you? If this was someone else posting what I have on this thread, we wouldn't even see your mug here. Keep your personal issues with me in the chatroom instead of having nothing to say here.