What do ladyboys say about YOU...

[daveduke007]

 Just realised    sorry peep's just having a "rant"

[Guest]

Meant to say the nicest girl i ever met was Eye and never felt like i was being taken for a fool. She is nice and a bag of fun Got 2 months left back in the UK (Refresher course on new engines we make) then back to what i call home.

[jimslim]

One of the annoying traits of ladyboys is that some can out gossip GGs , and when you think of it thats no mean feat .
If your a decent guy theres not really much they can say anyway , and all that "hes a butterfly he go with xxx " is really just something to gossip about

Much more worrying for me is some of the things they say about each other , I mean these people are their so called friends , and Ive heard some real nasty comments , for me thats much worse .

[dummy_plug]

(stogie bear @ Sep. 30 2007,21:48)

I'm speechless... Spot on post and the best thing I've read on here for a long time...

Exactly what I was thinking...one of the best posts I've read...ever

[dummy_plug]

Well...I think its obvious what they say about me...

"Damn...I want to make babies with that hansum man"

Haha, right. Seriously, I agree with Kahuna and others who have said that they probably don't think or talk about us after the leave our room. It'd be kind of egotistical to think otherwise. I'm sure they have other things going on in their lives of slightly higher importance than the falang that just fucked their ass raw. At least you would hope so!

[Guest]

so far ive only been with gg on my previous trips, and hardly any of them have ever asked me any question other than where you from, i certainly dont think any of them have ever read Carnegies 'how to make friends and influence people'
In 3 trips the only lady ive had any significant emotional tie with is a massage lady who works at the bamboo massage near ws, ive seen her twice now and we email occasionally, but she is about as far away from the gogo/bargirl type you could get, as she is 37 and has an unfortunately stunted leg
i dread to think what any thai let alone lb thinks for us in general!
omg
ps could it be a 'Twat' of ladyboys??

[D33]

(doug @ Sep. 30 2007,21:16) I speak Thai very well, so I understand 80% to 90% of what's being said about me.

Thing is, most of the time, I just don't bother to listen.

One of the reasons I find the bar scene so boring is that many of the girls flitting about are cookie-cutter-copies of each other with the same petty concerns, trivial self-inflicted "problems", mundane interests, and inane "opinions" based entirely on superstitions and stereotypes.

bla-blah-bla-blah-"you butterfly"-bla-blah-blaah-"all farang like black girls"-blah-blah-zzzzzzz...

* yawn *

There are times when I just want to shout "Yah! Guess what? I'm NOT Prince-fucking-Charming! No shit! You met me in a fucking GO-GO BAR, remember!?!?"

But really, what's the point.

Most Thai kids entering uni these days have what would pass for a 9th grade level education back home, and since they still live with mommy and daddy (and they've had a nanny wipe their ass every day since they were a babe), they've got a maturity level of the average 5th grader back home. And that's the top tier group.

Many ladyboys (like many poor Thais) don't finish high school (they're lucky to finish 8th grade, and the average 4th grader back home would be the top of the class in a Thai 8th grade classroom).

Anyone who's ever given an extra baht to a cashier at 7-11 to make even change AFTER she's rung up the sale (watch her brain literally implode as she tries to add 259+1 and then subtract that from 300 in her head) , knows exactly what I'm talking about.

So quite frankly, why should I give two shits what they think??

Give me someone of average intelligence, with a decent awareness of the world around them, some common sense, and a valid, original thought or two and I might put some value on what they say about me.

But if someone is just going to make a bunch of stupid assumptions about me based on out-dated stereotypes and gossip, then really, why should I bother to listen or respond to that crap. If the sex is good, then I'll spend some time with her, but have a conversation? Fuck no, I'd rather keep my sanity, please.

Not to sound too harsh, but there are times when it's hard to look at the bargirls as "people". I mean with non-p4p girls it's a whole different crate of pineapples, but some of these go-go girls,...... yeeeeesh! Could they get any dumber, lazier or less motivated? If you want a chuckle, ask one of them what her "goals" are in life.

Pretty much none of the girls in the bar scene know I speak Thai. I've never made a show of it, and not many girls have managed to bring up a topic that I'd actually want to talk about, so I get by on English mostly and throw in a few words of Thai here and there just to keep things rolling.

This usually means that when they're hanging out with their friends, they chatter on about their lives as if I'm not even there. They assume I can't understand them so they don't guard their words at all. That's the reason that I said most guys who "fall in love" with ladyboys from the bars are "naive idiots". If they only knew what was really going on, they'd be a little bit more cynical about any protestations of love from a bargirl/ladyboy.

Like someone else said, you're probably just better off not knowing. Why spoil your fun with reality?

I've got a bunch of Thai ladyboy "friends", but all we do when we get together is fuck or eat. That's pretty much it. I'm not stupid enough to get them to con me into shopping or going to the discos (both of those equal "hey Mr. Wallet, pay for me and all of my friends"), which would be the only other activities they'd be interested in doing.

Now, on the other hand, I've got a couple of Filippina ladyboy friends and holy shit is it a world of difference. We have actual conversations about movies, books, politics, life, goals, dreams, etc... If they have an opinion, you bet I listen to it, because they've actually THOUGHT about their opinion (rather than just parroted it).

And, of course, I'm generalizing so there are plenty of exceptions to what I'm saying. I'm sure a few guys who are dating those exceptions are going to get pissed at me, but really guys, you're the lucky few. And you know damn well that you managed to find a diamond in a shit pit. The rest of us poor sods have to muck about with vacant, airheaded girls whose main goals in life are: 1) to Eat, 2) to Gossip, 3) to Shop, 4) to Eat, 5) to Sleep, 6) to Create Chaos for the sake of it, 7) to Eat, 8) to Pose in front of a Mirror, 9) to Get High/Drunk, and 10) to Find some clueless fuckwit to pay for it all.

Like I said, you're just better off not knowing.

That is the best post ever made on a message board. 110% spot-fucking-on.

[buttafly]

(doug @ Sep. 30 2007,21:16) Now, on the other hand, I've got a couple of Filippina ladyboy friends and holy shit is it a world of difference.  

sheesh, I have been saying this for years and no one seemed to care or believe me;  please see my signature  if you want the truth guys,  these people just do NOT like us, OK?  {"us" being as people, not as just dollar signs and a means to an end}. What do they say about us? Nothing! Nothing good, anyway.

  And yet we  still  get the usual protestations from 'academia' types  {a-hem} who insist that "no, Ae and Lek and all the others really DO like me, why do you think I have so many dates and they are always coming over to my pad", and all the while the girls look like they are making a hostage video when out on dates with falang guys, it's pathetic-looking really.

  PI girls may be no better in the 'do they really like us?' department, but at least they can converse and are fun to chat with.   I am surprised Stogie would bring up and encourage posts on a topic like this, I thought it was *my* job to bring the usual dosage of reality to the dreamer crowd, but this thread is refeshingly honest and doesn't even need my cynicism to make it real.  And yes, Kahuna is STILL the man; he 'gets it' more than anyone I have ever read up on this forum.

  Signature written by a very popular 22-year old Thai ladyboy;  wouldn't SHE know the truth?

[stogie bear]

wouldn't SHE know the truth?

What they know and what they say.... er, you know the rest!

[Dieter]

I am not interested what anybody talk about me...so what interest it me what Lb's talking about me...

Dieter

[daveduke007]

What was that Dieter

[D33]

(buttafly @ Oct. 01 2007,22:19)

(doug @ Sep. 30 2007,21:16) Now, on the other hand, I've got a couple of Filippina ladyboy friends and holy shit is it a world of difference.

sheesh, I have been saying this for years and no one seemed to care or believe me; please see my signature if you want the truth guys, these people just do NOT like us, OK? {"us" being as people, not as just dollar signs and a means to an end}. What do they say about us? Nothing! Nothing good, anyway.

And yet we still get the usual protestations from 'academia' types {a-hem} who insist that "no, Ae and Lek and all the others really DO like me, why do you think I have so many dates and they are always coming over to my pad", and all the while the girls look like they are making a hostage video when out on dates with falang guys, it's pathetic-looking really.

PI girls may be no better in the 'do they really like us?' department, but at least they can converse and are fun to chat with. I am surprised Stogie would bring up and encourage posts on a topic like this, I thought it was *my* job to bring the usual dosage of reality to the dreamer crowd, but this thread is refeshingly honest and doesn't even need my cynicism to make it real. And yes, Kahuna is STILL the man; he 'gets it' more than anyone I have ever read up on this forum.

Signature written by a very popular 22-year old Thai ladyboy; wouldn't SHE know the truth?

Keep that info to yourself or you will send the hordes there and screw up the PI like they did Thailand.

Anyone who thinks they are someone in Thailand is... well, funny. They don't like us. Many of them even think western men smell bad.

What I do know is LBs tell me some funny stories about their "customers" and how they use them because they are "stupid falang." And the irony is, THEY are calling falang stupid. Kind of puts things into perspective if you ask me.

[vangough05]

I'm with the who gives a fuck crowd. I go there on business, then i have a holiday. I don't go with LBs to start a converstaion about World peace, i just go with LBs the same reason Billy 69 does for the sex.

[TTChang]

(vangough05 @ Oct. 02 2007,14:28) .....I don't go with LBs to start a converstaion about World peace,

No, but somehow we usually get round to the subject of World Wealth redistribution          >>>>>>

[69billy]

(dummy_plug @ Sep. 30 2007,19:44) Well...I think its obvious what they say about me...

"Damn...I want to make babies with that hansum man"

No.. When they see you, what they say is...
Damn..I need a new Air con....