Setting myself up for heartache

[buttafly]

I think this guy would have no problems at all if he is prepared to settle down with some ladyboy in her 30's who is also ready to settle down and not wander or want to hang out with young Thai boys and ladyboys all the time.

If he wants one of the young-20-something ladyboys similar to the ones featured here his odds and chances are pretty slim IMO. Stogie hit the lottery his first time out, plain and simple and while I love the guy like a brother I think the fact he hasn't had another girl like that since they broke up speaks volumes, there just are not a lot out there willing to hang out with guys twice their age and not want anything in return except love.

Think about it.....50's guy hanging with a 21 or 23 year old college student.....'nice' girl, not working in a bar, but who still would like to go to RCA on weekends or hanging out with her college buddies, not spending time every night with someone her father's age.....seems the most likely scenario not the lottery-type situation described by SB which happens once in a lifetime for older guys like us.

sorry, that's just reality.....if you really want a solid relationship with a ladyboy look for the older ones who are say between 26 and 35 and not hookers, have real jobs and really want a western boyfriend to hang out with and have put their party days behind them; looking for 21 year old Uber-babes who are too good to be true are just that.

[liisawinkler]

(Tomcat @ Jan. 08 2007,07:48) Before the Long term i think you should try a short term and think no longer than that for starters. Just take someone you like away on a trip for a few days and then contemplate ...can i handle another year of her or can she handle me.....just dip your toe in the water...

for the longer term.....
If shes under 21 i doubt if she will like laying in bed at 11pm while you read the memoirs of H.P Lovecraft .More like she will want to be at some hip hop joint freaking out till 4 am.

wow this is probably one of the best scenarios if you wanna know if it works out between a guy and a ladyboy....

so "Pretty Woman" as it seems although that movie was pretty farfetched but not by any means impossible in terms of the circumstances...

maybe the long term scene would be better too if your girl was not in the bar scene...

[buttafly]

I am planning on trying to start a whirlwind, heart-stopping, mind -bending love affair with the super-babe named Lisa Winkler, AKA Salma, AKA the Jennifer Lopez lookalike from the Philippines who posts here sometimes.....you guys think I have a shot?

[liisawinkler]

we do we do!!! is this the photo on your acting portfolio?

when can you possibly start?

   

[buttafly]

February, 2007!

thanks for this awesome chance, I will endevour to fulfill my duties as fluffer for the hottest ladyboy in the PI chain!

[liisawinkler]

hmmmmm...we will have to see your physical qualifications....

how close do you look to the guy on the above photo????


hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[buttafly]

Not even close, sorry...... check my avatar, I have changed a LOT since we last met!! sorry.....

Those Thai doctors really know what they are doing, what else can I say?

Jenny

[liisawinkler]

you mean you have ceased looking like a bloke in a wig and have become a true butterfly breaking the hearts of ladyboys all around the cesspit called Asia?

[buttafly]

(liisawinkler @ Jan. 08 2007,21:11) you mean you have ceased looking like a bloke in a wig

yups, or as the Ozzie's would say I am more Sheila than bloke now!!

[divertwo]

......since Lisa is one of the few LB's that regularly reads and contributes here, we need her opinion on this often told story or question of love with an Asian LB.

So Lisa, could you settle down with a Western man at this stage of your life? Buy the house in the suburbs, have a pet dog and cat, and live the life of a happy couple maybe working part time for fun or $$ at the local office.....or tending to your hobbies of gardening, shopping, tennis and traveling?

[PigDogg]

(mirimark @ Jan. 06 2007,23:00) I'm courious to see if anyone catches the Moral to my story.            

A Zen koan from the master!

[kahuna]

Well that certainly makes mm's post clear...

[dummy_plug]

(divertwo @ Jan. 10 2007,09:34) ......since Lisa is one of the few LB's that regularly reads and contributes here, we need her opinion on this often told story or question of love with an Asian LB.

So Lisa, could you settle down with a Western man at this stage of your life? Buy the house in the suburbs, have a pet dog and cat, and live the life of a happy couple maybe working part time for fun or $$ at the local office.....or tending to your hobbies of gardening, shopping, tennis and traveling?

Lisa is a paid escort...I'm not sure how much stock, if any, I would put into her response. I'm sure she has hobbies...but gardening and tennis? Please...

[divertwo]

.......well my point was just that, would an escort give up "professionally" doing the horizontal hula for a chance at life in suburbia? Aloha

[buttafly]

Maybe......AFTER they have made their cash