My GG J-GF saw my SMSs to my LOS LB GF!

[geosight]

(sukhumvitpoler @ Jan. 23 2009,16:48) Be prepared! think like a cunning fox!

I am living in BKK now. I have a brit girlfriend that thinks im working in india.
I live with a thai bird that thinks im gonna marry her.
I have numbers of whores living in my condo building.
I have the number of the local 7/11 hottie.
I fuck ladyboys whenever my thai gf is not here.
I go gogo' gg bars and fuck some gg's
And!!! I also whack it to porn.

The trick is to think of every small detail, never dismiss a thing, assume fuck all. If i screw up i will lose my dick to a pair of scissors - makes me think twice and twice again

shit that sounds like me .

[jadeite]

If you aren't serious about your marriage then why are you still in it? Seems like being stuck in the worst of both worlds to me.

[eclipse]

This thread is fun,

I used to shuffle many girls in the same time while hanging out with the local lbs. Some tips from my experiences:

- Password protect everything. No one can see my sms messages and emails on my phone. Store sensitive photos encrypted on external drives, or on the net compressed and password protected
- Use separate email addresses for short term girls than your regular emails
- Always get a local SMS when you are in an other country, never give your regular phone numbers to working girls. If necessary give away your "other" email address.
- When you are paying for sex you are a "customer". Being a "customer" and having relationship with the same girl does not go together. When the money exchanges hands all interaction should end right then and there. I know I will get some flames on this one
- Either be open about your relationships from the start or deny everything

Have fun and enjoy your experiences,

-eclipse

[deepthroat]

I LOVE the idea that telling her it was a ladyboy would make things better - that just cracks me up. Instead of thinking I'm cheating, maybe if she thinks I'm GAY and cheating that will make her so crazy she'll forget about the cheating part??? ROFL

[abba]

  Anyway i dont agree with cheating

He never had sexual relationships with that person.
And he never inhaled.

Therefore this is not cheating.

Signed,

the manager,
Alibis-R-us, (the Bangkok office)  

[SamplerDoc]

Your gg j-gf saw the sms to los lb gf?
Well LOL

[Guest]

There is no such thing as "cheating" in LOS!!

[farangbah]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 23 2009,14:53) Anyway i dont agree with cheating so i hope god makes you impotent for six months.

I'll take it that you're taking the piss (otherwise, put some bite in your hex!) "don't agree with cheating"  That's rich.  Who does?  It's not like anyone's out there subscribing to the Church of Cheating.  What does your god say about sodomy? He give you a pass on that one?

In case it wasn't clear, I wasn't looking for relationship advice -- this isn't exactly the first place I go for that.  I was simply putting out a reminder.  But now it seems I should address some things:

Yes, yes, I have the Thai phone, and I password protect, doodle doodle do.  But the phone didn't work at home and I GOT LAZY and bought into being untouchable.  Wanted to remind everyone not to do the same.

Next, I already paid your penance, Naang Faa.  It had been six months since my girlfriend and I had had sex when I went to LOS. Now, before everyone says the obvious thing, it's like this -- the relationship has lost it's passion and sexual excitement, BUT is wholly fulfilling in most all other ways.  But no sex should equal no relationship.  But neither of us has been able to tear ourselves away from the other, the bond runs that deep.  

I've never been married/divorced, had children (that I know of), and still want to try to tinker with the outside shot of having love with a GG, and ladyboys. [fill in requisite negative response here]

A few months into Naang Faa's penance, I asked her "if we don't have sex anymore, would you still want to stay together?"  She said yes.  So, that got me to thinking -- could I pull off the un-pull-off-able?  Live with a girlfriend, and the benefits that come with that, yet have an *open* agreement of an alternative sexual experience.  Make certain concessions -- i.e. stay permanently in Japan as opposed to uprooting her, etc.  I'm a good man, honey, but I have this one vice.  Allow me this, and I'll give you everything else you want.  Could I have my cake and eat it too?  

Kahuna assumed I didn't care about her.  I care the world for her, that's the problem (yes, yes, but not enough not to cheat -- "why risk fucking up the relationship?" Easy: Because I'm obsessed with ladyboys, ffs!).  

She's the most easygoing and giving person imaginable -- and deserving of better than me -- but might she possibly agree???  In traditional Japanese culture, the marriage was a business arrangement -- the woman ran the household as a business manager, and the man openly had his consort/geisha.  Before finally throwing everything away, I was going to give it one last chance at the modern-day equivalent.  "Be single. And fuck ladyboys."  That's not a long-term plan that keeps me warm at night.

The complexities of my relationship, on a cultural, social, and interpersonal level are many.  Without being in the situation (or at least knowing all parties involved), it's impertinent to assume you know what's best, or what's right and wrong.  Please refrain from trite advice and opinions.

I guess I opened myself up for it, when I was just trying to give an example of the most unlikely of situations and people coming together to show that anything can happen: never assume.  Which is just what some went and did in this thread.

There's the tip of the iceberg.  Fire away.

[Naang Faa]

What does your god say about sodomy? He give you a pass on that one?

I'm a lady,i don't get involved in such primitive filth
Anyhoo,stop moaning or i'll hex you with baldness too
x

[batman4ever]

had the same problem with my camera.... forgot that i took some pics of Jenny before heading to phuket to meet Oh...

one of the nights in cocktail and dreams, she asked me if she could borrow the camera to take some pics,and i stupid man forgot the pics of a naked jenny in my bed...

lets just say....she wasnt happy with me for the next couple of hours...

i guess we both learned a lesson....her not to look into my things....and me to hide some things better...

[farangbah]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 24 2009,15:58)

What does your god say about sodomy? He give you a pass on that one?

 I'm a lady,i don't get involved in such primitive filth

Last time I checked, ladies have assholes too.  (I being one of them)

[Looker]

I have started saying what I like and what I do to all GGs attempting to jump in my bed.
And even when I tell them I date LBs they still say: " Never mind, as long as when I come to your home they are not there"  
This starts making me worried  

[farangbah]

Is this in LOS or elsewhere?

[kahuna]

(farangbah @ Jan. 24 2009,15:37) Please refrain from trite advice and opinions.

Opinions are the bread and butter of this and most all forums mate...

Even when you post something innocuous you're gonna get an opinion that differs from yours...That's the very nature of this forum...

I didn't offer and advice...simply and opinion...and it remains...To me it seems patently unfair to your partner and to yourself to cheat...

[farangbah]

(kahuna @ Jan. 24 2009,17:08)

(farangbah @ Jan. 24 2009,15:37) Please refrain from trite advice and opinions.

Opinions are the bread and butter of this and most all forums mate...

The operative word was "trite."