My GG J-GF saw my SMSs to my LOS LB GF!

[farangbah]

So, over the holidays, whilst I am balls deep in ladyboy love, my Japanese girlfriend, keeping the home fires burning in Nippon, meets up with an old friend who happens to be getting a divorce.  Why?  He cheated.  How did she find out?  She looked at his mobile.

So, my erstwhile unassuming, innocent and pure girlfriend, that I've lived with now for three years, after fending off some doubts that had crept into her mind, couldn't resist... and while I was in the shower had a peek at my phone, and saw my litany of SMSs -- mushy, over-the-top SMSs -- to my Thai LB girlfriend.  And now I'm in a world of shit...

Lied at first, hearing BMs the world over in my ear, chanting, "Deny it to the end... Deny it to the end..."  But I was caught red-handed.  Had to give up something.

I actually told her it was a ladyboy, preferring to have her think of me as disturbed than a straight cheater.  And, interestingly, it didn't seem to phase her in the least.  But hey, she is, after all, Japanese.  

The outcome is still uncertain.  But one thing is not: COVER YOUR TRACKS!  Or as we say in the backcountry, "leave no trace."  Don't get lazy, as I did.  Because if this girl could do what she did, anything's possible.

Good luck.

[Stogie]

That's good advice...

My second wife got nosy and looked where she shouldn't have and that's how we (thankfully) split up.

I told her.. "If you look for trouble, you'll find it!"

She didn't listen and looked anyway. Now she's a fat, dirt poor 35 year old Mexican has been who threw it all away. Ha ha!

If your gal knows which side her bread is buttered on then she'll just leave well enough alone.

[Naang Faa]

Would it not be easier to just buy a second phone,keep to pet names,
and if she finds it tell her you found the phone on the train/bus add your
own lie here ?
Anyway i dont agree with cheating so i hope god makes you impotent for
six months..
x

[Master Bator]

A second sim card (which I am considering) makes more sense -easier to hide away somewhere in the car with the Viagra's.
And you won't have the problem of them calling and sms-ing you on your regular phone.

[Guest]

Ironically farangbah, I had a similar thing happen to me. Aum who went to the beach with us text me about getting photos of her in her first bikini. My gf heard these incoming and wanted to see. I objected stating privacy and the fact I never check her phone or even inquire about the number of calls she gets from her regulars and other scmucks.

The next morning my lb not only found my phone but text Aum twice, with the 2nd message telling her not to text or call my number again. She slammed the phone on the bed next to my sleeping head. "who the fuck is this? some lb you fuck in Phuket?" She had already found out I had went to Phuket on the first day in BKK. We had weathered that storm pretty well. she never brought up how many lb's I was with and was willing to forgive for the next 3 months together. Then the texts came. She left to get some stuff from her old place and I thought she might not come back. She sent me a text saying she wasn't and was to afraid I hurt her again. In meantime I text Aum back from her number I had written down when I originally deleted her number from phone. Aum called me straight back apoligising for causing problems with my lb. I was upfront when I spent 5 days with her in Patong about me having lb girlfriend in bkk.

Anyway I told Aum it wasnt her fault, it was all mine and would try to send her photos soon. I sent them later that day with gf awol. Aum emailed me back a couple days later thanking me for photos and telling me to take care of myself and my lb. I could tell she was sincerely sorry about me having problem with her text, which I explained it was not her fault.

After being gone for 9 hours my lb phoned me and said she was coming back. I got the message and she was happy to be back, and told me she couldnt leave me but not to hurt her. I have told her I wont do anything to intentially hurt her and now were back to happier times.

As long as my Patong contacts are out of site then they out of my lb's mind. So emailing is the safest avenue from me, but I wont have anymore phone censorship from gf in bkk.

faranbah you have it all, understanding asian gf and hot Thai ladyboy.

[kahuna]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 23 2009,14:53) Anyway i dont agree with cheating so i hope god makes you impotent for six months..  

If we get a vote...I cast my vote with NF...

If you actually care for your Japanese GF, why
risk fucking up the relationship...If, on the
other hand, you don't really care for her,
which apparently you don't...Then why worry
about how to hide the messages...

As you sow so shall you reap...

[sukhumvitpoler]

Be prepared! think like a cunning fox!

I am living in BKK now. I have a brit girlfriend that thinks im working in india.
I live with a thai bird that thinks im gonna marry her.
I have numbers of whores living in my condo building.
I have the number of the local 7/11 hottie.
I fuck ladyboys whenever my thai gf is not here.
I go gogo' gg bars and fuck some gg's
And!!! I also whack it to porn.

The trick is to think of every small detail, never dismiss a thing, assume fuck all. If i screw up i will lose my dick to a pair of scissors - makes me think twice and twice again

[sukhumvitpoler]

Im glad i posted, i just remembered to hide my other sim card

[jimslim]

Learn from the Thai's my friend , lie with a big smile on your face , if that doesn't work tell half a lie with a big smile on your face .

Interesting why you thought it would soften the blow if you told her you cheated with a ladyboy ,I'd imagine that would only make a girl more insecure .

Hide your phone well in future

[manarak]

amazingly, I had the same experience.

it seems a ladyboy is less scary for GF than another girl...

until they meet LBs for real of course, then they realize it is serious competition.

[geezer]

I'm not going to get into the morality of cheating but I just know if I do something wrong, I'm going to get caught.

Maybe it's the Catholic upbringing but I just always assume if I'm going to play up, I'll get busted. As the old saying goes "You can fool some of the people some of the time but never all the people all the time."

If you get caught cheating with a LB try introducing that to your GF. Most will tell you to fuck off but the one who says yes just may be a keeper.

[petesie]

How did you manage to get the phone out of yer arse?



My ex left me claiming it was of course all my fault then I seen an sms come in when she was out the room from her new beau.............she had the audacity to throw it back in my face saying I'd no right to read her message........all I did was glance down on the table and all was revealed........

Cheating will always come back to bite you on the bum.....end of story........

[sev7en]

(farangbah @ Jan. 23 2009,14:10)  But one thing is not: COVER YOUR TRACKS!

How about not cheating at all? Go fuck lbs as a single is better.

[paulj92]

sev7en you got it right

[dummy_plug]

Or just use a smartphone with encryption and password protection. Duh!