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Utter speculation in that website ... outrageous slurs on someone who is a lovely lady. Probably ... beneath the tough exterior!
Advice to noobs: READ & INWARDLY DIGEST that website. Even if 90% is fabricated, it is worth assuming it is true. ACT with your head, not wallet + dick.
Her last sms to me 'Who give you my number?' .... so looks like I'm off the hook
Got to feel for the guy, and to be honest I tend to believe every word of it: it seems there are guys out there whom in the grips of a midlife crisis, ditch it all for the 100% whore with a heart of dirt and end up hanging from a bedsheet in a short time room.
It is usually their first time in LOS and first time with a LB and they throw the lot away. AND HE STILL LOVES HER!!!!!!!!!!!
ARRRRGH O FUCK ME! WAKE UP!
The modus operandi of Chompoo sounds familiar. I wonder if she runs a school?
f0xxee
"Spelling - the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit."
(f0xxee @ Oct. 29 2009,15:45) Got to feel for the guy
Not me, if a guy gets taken it's HIS fault, not hers.
Like any good working girl she is just doing her job; websites like this could be made about hundreds or even thousands of girls from BKK who do their job well, it's crazy to think she's the only one who get cars and houses after working for a few years.
Ummmm, Natalie anyone?
Hell, I have known her since 2002 myself and been together tons of times- including a trip to Hong Kong with NO shopping allowed - and I never did any of the crazy shit mentioned on that crappily-made website or handed over large sums of cash, just paid for her time same as with all working girls. If he or anyone else did this crazy shit then it's their own problem and he should be embarassed and ashamed; not spouting off on message boards about how badly he was taken when HE made the mistake of falling in love and giving in to the demands of a working girl.
May I assume if you accidently fall over on the floor getting out of the shower when you are pissed after a big night out and break you wrist you would expect zero sympathy? (Your fault after all)
How about if you are riding a motorbike in thongs (flip flops, jandals, slippers) and you get hit by another bike and lose a toe wearing open footwear... No sympathy again? after all it was your fault!
How about every poor cunt who has been scammed by a Madoff, or scammed by a huckster or shyster of a different nature? No sympathy?
You are a hard hard man.
You speak from years of experience JD. The point I am making is that girls of Chompoos ilk prey on the newbies, middle-aged and new to the LB scene, probably sucking thier first dick after years of fantasizing, and probably insecure about their sexuality, thier family and thier whole sense of self. IDEAL SUCKERS!
I think you are too harsh.
I know what caveat emptor means. I also know that not every ladyboy is a wicked scamster (although plenty are).
I can only assume your cynicism comes from personal experience of being played like a trout on light line. I for one can put my hand up and say that I've had it happen to me, so no I'm not having a dig at you, but a little more empathy would be welcome.
Cheers,
f0xxee
"Spelling - the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit."
(f0xxee @ Oct. 30 2009,09:07) I think you are too harsh.
OK, I will buy that foxxee..... probably too harsh, but yes I have seen this type of activity play out for years and the madness never stops to amaze me. Guy falls in love; guy hands over everything including his heart and lots of cash; girl has many doing the same thing and first chance she gets [and once the money has been bled dry from victim A] she moves on to victim B and so on, down the line.
To be honest I'm amazed it still happens these days, but it probably will for years to come so I better get used to it.
Imagine all the cases we DON'T hear about??
Full disclosure; yes, I have been burned ONE time by a ladyboy, but the damage was minimal and nothing like these stories, only 40K baht. My friend {?} Ponlien from Chiang Mai played on my heart strings once by telling me she was getting the cheapest possible post-op job {40K baht} from some intern at a BKK hospital, because it was all she could afford. After talking to many other ladyboys about that deal they told me ''don't let her do it, her life will be ruined forever' so I offered Pon 40K more to get a better post-op job. She did, never paid me back as promised, and trust me, nothing like that has or ever will happen again.
The only other cash I have ever given LB's or any hooker besides that is for sexual services rendered; no gold, no expensive gifts, never any ''sponsorship'' to ANYONE and certainly no big cash, cars or houses! Anyone who can prove otherwise, I'd like to hear about it.
Sorry, I have little sympathy for these kind of stories and have seen/heard them for years now. I know another ladyboy who took some guy for about 200K US who fell in love with her after just one week....she promptly dumped him after the 200K, found another guy from Australia and took 200K MORE from him [plus got an Aussie passport after a farcical wedding], dumped him and now lives in London,working as a wealthy escort. Of course I have many other stories I could share, but this message board has only so much space!!
And yes, I agree with you that many of these poor souls are older gents who are lonely, want companionship, like the attention, etc; but if nothing else their wisdom and amount of years on this planet should keep them from being played.
This board is to PREVENT stuff like this happening man, if more people would read here less would get burned.
I have been scammed myself more than once as I am an optimist at heart, so I know you speak the truth.
I just feel the need to temper cynicism with a little optimism: there are some mighty fine ladyboys out there too.
Look there was one bit of advise given to me very early (10 years ago) as far as having relationships with Thais of all sexes, and I believe anyone intending to settle into a LTR should follow it:
Before you fall in love, meet the family.
Thais are incredibly family oriented, so if the family is tight and together still as a unit your girl is probably a good catch.
If mother and father are divorced, if mother is a serious gambler (beyond her means) and dad has taken off, if the LB in question has nothing to do with her parents and wont see them (the very worst case scenario, as ALL thais feel a huge burden of debt to thier mothers) then she most likely is a wrong 'un, shunned in her home villiage, without the stability and guidance of the family unit.
And a second bit of advice: (especially to the "chompoo" website author) ACCEPT that in the grand scheme of all things Thai, the order of importance (and debt) goes:
Mother
Younger Siblings
Older Siblings
Father
You.
And that is as it is, and if you dont like it dont go out with a Thai.
Lastly: If you live overseas forget falling in love. You are asking to be used. If you can't work it so you live in Thailand dont fall in love with a thai. Dont sponsor a girl to see her one month a year. Dont expect her to want to move to Manchester or Amsterdam or Sydey either. For the family reasons listed above.
Open your eyes punters, and remember not to let Hope triumph over Experience.
See you in the gene pool!
f0xxee
"Spelling - the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit."
(f0xxee @ Oct. 30 2009,09:53) there are some mighty fine ladyboys out there too.
Of course! I'd say the majority are....or at least 50/50 LOL
I know one right now who I have come to know lately and she seems to be a true keeper with a heart of gold; so I am sure they are out there.
Most indeed are very nice people who have no intention of burning a guy, but there are many who do; remember that these stories get around quickly in the LB circuit, and once a few girls hear that there are riches to be made by tugging on an older gents heart strings and making him feel good and in love for probably the first time in 20 or 30 years it's really not all that hard. When a cute, 20 year old LB with a firm body and who is an athlete in bed looks up at someone with those doe-eyed glances a few times a day and says "I Love you'' to someone who has had only skanky, fat western chicks all his life it's easy to see why they would fall so easily.
''Lastly: If you live overseas forget falling in love''.
goes without saying ...... and yet still happens man!! Literally every day.....
And remember folks, we still haven't gotten Chom's version of all this.
Ok you guys, don't think this is just related to lbs - how quickly you forget Heather Mills who took Paul McCartney for 24.3 million pounds. She was very unhappy with that settlement and wanted even more. At the beginning of the divorce she wanted 125 million pounds!
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