hmmm, was wondering...

[Guest]

..You guys that go to thailand that often and meet LB, are you all like paying for escorts or what??...Is it a rare thing, go to a bar buy a girl a drink and then take her home? Or they all want money???

[rob69in]

"Money Number 1"

You are going to pay one way or another, try taking a western women out & getting her to pay for something.

Then after you coffed up for the taxi's, food, drinks, night club entry, & so it goes on. All you get is that patronized peck on the cheek, "thanks for a lovely evening". Lets not get confused here.

You are going to pay, its just the method, media & how its handed over that varies

[Guest]

Yeah i know what you mean, but still
It must be possible to find LB that arent escorts in bkk?
I hardly believe all LB do escort!?...

And being 21 and looking good should make things better i guess

AS i have understood most Lb bars are in same area in bkk, that NANA and Obssesion right?...So id guess most there are escorts, but how about other bars, do the Lb go to any other regular bars??

[rob69in]

The smaller percentage of LB's are in the P4P industry,alot more have reasonbly normal jobs, but P4P just makes them more money.

The P4P bars are not just confined to NaNa, & there are a few more than just Obsessions, the vast majority have been reported on at sometime or other on this forum.

If you read thru' reports on this forum you will see that there are quite a few places to meet non working LB's. Walk around some of the major department stores & shopping Malls & you will see them working almost everywhere, but i would say a good starting point is costmetics, hairdresser / beauty salons & the like. You might need a bit more experience than you appear to have to spot them tho'.

Your age will assist you without a doubt, but not as much as you might think, western values don't always work in the LOS.

I wish you luck in trying to "pick - up" a non working LB, relationships rarely work unless you live in the LOS, or you are there for an extended period, if you are seeking just one night stands I doubt you will be very successful. I have found even LB's just out socially & having sex just for fun would like to see a tip for there time. RCA complex in BKK could be a good place to look I have seen many LB's there at the bars & disco's. The ones i have taken back tomy hotel room just for fun have not really been there for the money but expect a tip all the same. Some have not directly asked, but have not refused either.

Remember "Money Number 1" you are a walking ATM to them, as westerners are perceived to have loads of money.

Good luck, you will need it.

[stogie bear]

What are you on about? Meeting a 'nice girl' in a bar happens to every tourist that comes here!

[Guest]

Thanks for the long answer rob69in.
But i am no familiar with the P4P ?

Well i dont know how diffrent Thai LB are from philipino LB, but i chat daily with few (many) Lb from philipines mostly, and some do escort, but still they all say that they would like too meet if I would come, and i doubt they see me as some out to buy them!?...

Actually i have one Lb from bkk that i have talked to sometime, she does webcam shows and sometime escort, and she even incvited me to stay at her place if i would come, so through internet i could defenatly establish contact and then meet the girls for some free action when i visit, that i know for sure.

But then im just curios about how it is when you meet them in bars and so on, when your unknown, just a tourist. Maybe they see you as a walking atm.

[stogie bear]

But then im just curios about how it is when you meet them in bars and so on, when your unknown, just a tourist. Maybe they see you as a walking atm.

You reckon? Hmmm... I'll bear that in mind. The sneaky wenches... a walking ATM indeed. I'm special. I really AM 'hansum!'

Come on edoo20. Nobody works in the bar scene looking for a nice farang to have a long distance girl friend experience (GFE) with!

Of course the girls on the internet say they like you and want to just meet you for a drink. But if you really think about it - would you say the same things to a girl you had never met and just seen on either webcam or picpost.com!

We all start our journey to the dark side chatting to girls (lbs) on the net. We all fall in love with the ones who wait up for our chat and who talk dirty to us! We are all invariably disappointed when the girl we meet in real life has a moustache and thighs like trees!

The nice girls have Thai boyfriends and the sexy ones are busy. That's the way it is!

Good luck!

[Guest]

haha, well i dont really agree with you, i doubt that just say what id like to hear.

And you know i can imagine if i was an escort sleeping with old fat women in their 30-40-50's id love to spend some time with a girl at my own age 20-23.

So i don't know, but i have hopes, i guess ill have to get my ass down tehre soon and find out.

[Stewart]

ha, well i dont really agree with you, i doubt that just say what id like to hear.

And you know i can imagine if i was an escort sleeping with old fat women in their 30-40-50's id love to spend some time with a girl at my own age 20-23.

So i don't know, but i have hopes, i guess ill have to get my ass down tehre soon and find out.

And everyone, believe me EVERYONE, will be looking forward to your trip report!

[stogie bear]

And everyone, believe me EVERYONE, will be looking forward to your trip report!

He's already written it. Here it is...

How a dreamer started getting nightmares!

Read from the first (bottom) one up!

By the way - if you think Thai girls in their early 20s are looking for young guys the same age you really HAVE got a lot of research to do!

I wish you luck, mate. You'll need it!

[stogie bear]

And being 21 and looking good should make things better i guess...

...i guess ill have to get my ass down tehre soon and find out...

Well, you probably never will but if you do this is what is gonna happen...

You'll meet up with the girl/lb you met online and she'll be cool for a few days while you spend your money on her at the beach etc. Then she'll turn cold for no reason and you'll not figure out why. Eventually she'll start picking fights with you and you'll get confused and start thinking that she's mad.

Eventually you'll split up and then you'll meet a girl/lb in a bar who is 18 (23) and has only been working in Bangkok for 3 weeks (4 years) and you'll fall in love so hard your heart will turn purple each time her name is mentioned.


By this time you'll know the best mobile phone shops in town and she'll start going on about visiting her family and buying gold etc.

When she knows you are out of money she'll disappear.

You'll be left confused, hurt and angry and you'll blame Thailand for all your problems and start hating the peope and everything they do. You'll fly home bitter and tell everyone that Thailand sucks!

I'll bet a years wages that this (or something similar) happens. Kids in their 20s simply can't handle the emotional overload and girls can sense new blood like a fly can find a poo. Mate - you don't stand a chance.

Your first mistake is thinking that they will find you more attractive than their Thai boyfriends simply because your are younger than the fat Germqn drunk that she was fucking the day before she met YOU!

Like I say - good luck...

[stogie bear]

but i chat daily with few (many) Lb from philipines mostly, and some do escort, but still they all say that they would like too meet if I would come, and i doubt they see me as some out to buy them!?... Actually i have one Lb from bkk that i have talked to sometime, she does webcam shows and sometime escort, and she even incvited me to stay at her place if i would come, so through internet i could defenatly establish contact and then meet the girls for some free action when i visit, that i know for sure.

She'll be coming round the mountain when she comes... she'll be coming round the mountain when she comes... she'll be coming round the mountain... coming round the mountain... coming round the mountain when she comes...

Sing with me, now...

She'll be coming round the mountain when she comes... she'll be coming round the mountain when she comes... she'll be coming round the mountain... coming round the mountain... coming round the mountain when she comes...

 

Hey, edooo20... If you really do ever make it over here I'll PAY you for your trip report!

[jellybean]

(edooo20 @ Apr. 26 2006,12:30) ...... And being 21 and looking good should make things better i guess .....

"dreams are my reality"

Some advice for you .......don't put money on it.

There's only 2 things that will differentiate you from the 49 year balding fat bastard next to you and they are the size of you wallet and you're ability to talk Thai.

And what will hurt you more is the fact that  the fat bastard will be able to take your girl away from you in 30 seconds flat just by waving a few Kbaht under her nose

Regardless of whether or not she is a working girl she will have responsiblities for her family and you will be expected to contribute. $$$$$$

[Guest]

I have been told that learning from other's mistake is way less painful and/or less expensive, but the lesson we learn on our own are everlasting!!

I've made a few of those, and will make more in the future.

Ronin

[rob69in]

(jellybean @ Apr. 27 2006,01:55) There's only 2 things that will differentiate you from the 49 year balding fat bastard next to you and they are the size of you wallet and you're ability to talk Thai.

And what will hurt you more is the fact that  the fat bastard will be able to take your girl away from you in 30 seconds flat just by waving a few Kbaht under her nose

Jellybean,

Thats no way to talk about me!!    

You've been looking at my pictures!!