Getting a ladyboy you don't want in a bar

[Eager Beaver]

I am posting this in the Pattaya section because this has happened to me in several bars there.

Sometimes when I go into a ladyboy bar a ladyboy I never would have chosen comes and sits with me. I still buy them a drink or two and talk to them but have no intention of going with them. Then after a couple drinks they see I have no interest and go back to dancing or whatever they were doing before. Then after that none of the other ladyboys come to sit with me and I have have trouble flagging down ones I like. Whereas in other ladyboy bars many ladyboys may come and sit with me for a drink and there does not seem to be any animosity towards me or the other ladyboys that sit with me.

Has anyone else experienced this? What do you do about it? I hate to be rude and tell the ladyboy I don't like her and assume like most ladyboy bars that other ladyboys will come along. At least this ladyboy makes a bit from lady drinks then I move on to the next. Some even seem to be really angry when I don't offer to bar fine them, where in other bars they just act like it's regular business. Any tips on how to deal with a ladyboy you don't want coming to sit with you?

[Rockheart]

I've had this happen from time to time and it does seem to happen in Pattaya more often.
In Bangkok if I go to Why Not bar or Check In bar this never seems to happen as all the ladyboy seem quite good to switch it up or will still approach your table even if you are with another ladyboy or were previously courting one.
Sometimes it can be hard to get rid of one you don't like much, but this is a good reason not to end up taking them home either. Then they may never want to leave.

This has happened to me at the old Pook bar on Soi 6 and the old Stingfellows bar in Pattaya and some other but not so much.

The one thing I do when going to bars is do a quick scan of the ladyboys and which ones you like and go straight for one of them.
As I say, some bars I'm not worried about it so much. Also you can leave and come back later and start fresh with a better ladyboy you like.
I know sometimes you see a ladyboy you like standing outside attracting customers so you go into the bar but then that ladyboy never comes in and get stuck with another.
If you see the one you really like, grab her immediately.