I am posting this in the Pattaya section because this has happened to me in several bars there.
Sometimes when I go into a ladyboy bar a ladyboy I never would have chosen comes and sits with me. I still buy them a drink or two and talk to them but have no intention of going with them. Then after a couple drinks they see I have no interest and go back to dancing or whatever they were doing before. Then after that none of the other ladyboys come to sit with me and I have have trouble flagging down ones I like. Whereas in other ladyboy bars many ladyboys may come and sit with me for a drink and there does not seem to be any animosity towards me or the other ladyboys that sit with me.
Has anyone else experienced this? What do you do about it? I hate to be rude and tell the ladyboy I don't like her and assume like most ladyboy bars that other ladyboys will come along. At least this ladyboy makes a bit from lady drinks then I move on to the next. Some even seem to be really angry when I don't offer to bar fine them, where in other bars they just act like it's regular business. Any tips on how to deal with a ladyboy you don't want coming to sit with you?
Sometimes when I go into a ladyboy bar a ladyboy I never would have chosen comes and sits with me. I still buy them a drink or two and talk to them but have no intention of going with them. Then after a couple drinks they see I have no interest and go back to dancing or whatever they were doing before. Then after that none of the other ladyboys come to sit with me and I have have trouble flagging down ones I like. Whereas in other ladyboy bars many ladyboys may come and sit with me for a drink and there does not seem to be any animosity towards me or the other ladyboys that sit with me.
Has anyone else experienced this? What do you do about it? I hate to be rude and tell the ladyboy I don't like her and assume like most ladyboy bars that other ladyboys will come along. At least this ladyboy makes a bit from lady drinks then I move on to the next. Some even seem to be really angry when I don't offer to bar fine them, where in other bars they just act like it's regular business. Any tips on how to deal with a ladyboy you don't want coming to sit with you?