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  • Life with an LB in the suburbs.

    Hello all, just when you think I have gone off to never-never land I arise from the ashes like the bird in Greek Mythology.
    Life with my "sweetie" in the great city of Surin has kept me away from a computer for the past three weeks. Still do not have one in the home even though I have a DSL line, just too many other things to take off and buy. To be honest I find it quite refreshing to take a long leave from checking in on this site or for that matter the internet in general.
    We made a trip to Bangkok to pick up our new pickup, a Toyota Vigo 4x4 with all the bells and whistles. Hell, I even enjoy the short amount of time that I had to drive around Bangkok. Having your own vechicle sure makes it easier to get about. With Surin and its surrounding area so damn big I wanted to be comfortable on my "driveabouts."
    Ended up going to Phanam Rung with her three sisters on Sunday. For those of you interested in ruins similar to Angor Wat this is worth a visit.
    Went to three weddings with my "sweetie" as she and her family are well known and of course the fact that a LB was married very publicly to a Farang has attracted much attention. She enjoys these weddings and I even admit to having a good time. Still all new to me the wedding day ceremony. So far I have been the only Farang at any of these and aside from the bride and groom I am the center of a lot of attention.
    For the most part my days are very relaxing. Up at 6:30 to go out and water the garden. Due to the size of my lot there is a lot to water and it takes about an hour to finsh up. A repeat of this in the early evening. God, I wish the rainy season would get here quick. A quick shower, breakfast and then off to Big C to pick up the Bangkok Post and the Nation newspapers. As it is very hot these days in Surin I try to take care of the outside stuff before it gets way to hot to do anything. Since I like to keep our home looking clean and tidy we both spend time doing the normal cleanup. Afternoon is nap time for my "sweetie"as she does not do outside when it's this hot. Time then for me to hop on the motorscooter and head into Surin to the Farang Connection or Nobbys for some food, drink and conversation. There are a large number of Expats here in the Surin area and a lot of people who come to vist. Nice to be able to catch up on the goings on in the outside world.
    Around 4 or so I will head back to the "casa" take a shower, wake up the wife and figure out the dinner plans. If her Mom is staying with us for a few days then no worry, she cooks all of our meals. That is a nice perk to have as her Mom is top shelf when it comes to preparing Thai cuisine. When her Mon is not there we will take a 5 minute walk to one of the little restaurants that people set up outside their homes. Great food, very low prices and it's nice to just sit and listen to my "sweetie" gossip with the neighbors. Back to the home and an evening of Thai TV or watch a DVD movie. If nothing tickles my fancy then I just read until it's time to hit the rack.
    See, I told you this was going to be boring for most all of you. For those who wonder if you can have the normal married life in the suburbs with a an amazing LB I am here to give proof to that. Find the right one, take your time, talk and talk more, move to Thailand and just maybe you will be as happy as I am.
    I am back in the States now for six weeks at my job. Gotta keep that payceck coming in for a short time longer. Any worrys while I am gone, sure but not the kind some of your sick minds will think of. If you cannot trust after three years then why bother in the first place?
    That's it, finished, no more, no photos and no personal details. This was written to let those of you who want to take a chance with an LB.

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    Sounds good Pogue thats what I have planned in about a year but probly living around Kanchaniburi. Sounds like you hit it spot on. Is your email posted and would you mind a email from another like minded soul.

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    • #3
      I wish you the best PM
      Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same. -- Oscar Wilde

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      • #4
        I love stories like this, keep us informed about what is going on if you have time.

        By the way, whose name is on the truck title
        brock landers

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        • #5
          PM, that sounds very good. The very best to you and your wife.

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          • #6
            Not boring at all... In fact it's a shame you can't post a kind of blog or online diary.

            This probably appeals (and relates) to more people than you realise and not just on forums like ours...

            Keep us updated every now and then, mate...

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            • #7
              I wish you all the luck in the world friend !!!

              You live a wonderful life that I assume most on hear would sell there kidney for !!!

              Enjoy and maybe while you have a cold one or two shed a tear for those that dream the dream but will probably never get it.........

              Good Luck and be lucky.

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              • #8
                    Bravo old boy really happy for you.

                Unfortunately the thought of retiring to LOS is still a good 15 - 20 years away for some of us
                Too old to die young!

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                • #9
                  well done,

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                  • #10
                    You live a wonderful life that I assume most on hear would sell there kidney for !!!
                    Hell no....I would be bored senseless in weeks, if not days!
                    Mister Arse

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                    • #11
                      Thanks guys, good to get positive feedback in something that is a work in progress on a daily basis. The pickup is her name, I had no problem with doing that, I could have payed cash and had it registered in my name. Should the worse case scenario happen I want her to have something that she can get good money for.
                      Yeah, I was worrried that I might get bored easily but now that I own a home I find myself wanting to keep it looking good. It's a big home with a large garden and that upkeep has me busy for a few hours everyday. Since I still have to put my time in my job and that job puts a lot of stress on me with the responsibilites I have it's just nice to get back home, relax around the house, read a lot and catch up with the local gossip at my favorite pubs. I am shipping my mountain bike next week as I love to ride and around my home there are a lot of country roads to go exploring on. Getting back into playing golf again is something that I am looking forward to.
                      A lot of the credit for where I am today goes to this website and the many members who shared their advice, their cares and concerns for LB relationships. As I have posted on other occassions, I must have committed every "newbie" mistake in the book. God, I was just sooo lame and gullable. When you do meet the "right" one I think you will know it, the first time I met my "sweetie" I felt something different and she bcame the focus of my attention. I took it real easy because I did not want to repeat the mistakes of the past. Time has proven that I did the right thing, she is my live, my love and my best friend. Sure, we have our misunderstandings, I am a Farang. and she is Thai and a LB to boot. We deal with these situations by just relaxing and not saying hurtful things. Eventually we sit and talk, apologize and move on. Her mother is amazing in these situations, she understands both of our points of view and will get right to heart of the matter. Makes things a lot easier.
                      I will continue to post here on a regular basis how everything is going, both the good and the not so good. If I am able to help someone who is contemplating a long term relationship with an LB then I have repayed in a small way AsianTS for my good luck. I think that my e-mail address is posted but if not just send me PM and I will let you know.
                      Take care guys, again thanks for the good wishes.
                      Be posting again soon.

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                      • #12
                        (stogie bear @ Mar. 08 2007,03:07) This probably appeals (and relates) to more people than you realise and not just on forums like ours...
                        Yup.

                        I often think about what it would be like nliving with a ladyboy in the LOS just hanging out and not working.
                        (i know you're working in the States).

                        PM, What do the farangs you hang with in Surin think about you being married to a ladyboy? Non-issue?

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                        • #13
                          could get a little boring having to water plants all the time,but overall bloody good show

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                          • #14
                            Thanks PM you have found a wonderful balance in your life together. With you in the Garden or up the street with the farang Connection while she sleeps or watches Thai Tv. How that is smart. But the biggest thing which you have alluded too is trust and sharing. Well done mate a true rural Thai experience.

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                            • #15
                              PogueMahone,

                              I have only just read this thread, just wanted to say you have achieved what many on this forum no doubt desire, but for whatever reason will never make it, me included.

                              While it may appear that i have an interesting life with lots of travel, inside I am very angry & discontent, i have no soul mate, & my sex life is none existant outside the P4P deal. But western women gold diggers can kiss my arse!

                              Well done, i hope your life continues in this positive vein.
                              Robin

                              You pays your money & takes your chance. This isn't a rehearsal do it now, it's no good looking back when it's a lover & wishing.... ITS TOO LATE.

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