The cash cow

[sukhumvitpoler]

Ok fellow chums, got abit of a problem despite my new found love for Sev7en.......

I have been going out with a thai gg for nearly a year. non-hoe, met in a restaurant...... blah blah she has a small income from this...

now im supposed to be moving to bkk in jan..... and she has asked me for some cash to help the family and crap like that.........now this pissed me off big time as im not rich and i told her before that if it becomes about money then its not love.

just wondering if thai guys would be expected to cough up for their thai girls mum and dad back home?

im thinking about chucking her over it. this will mean calling los off because i dont wanna go their thinking what if.
Then again staying will mean staying in a job i hate.

SPONSOR ME PLEASE SEV7EN!!!!! I WILL LOVE YOU LONGTIME

[sukhumvitpoler]

If i do pay up im gonna need smoking 10 times a day, all my washing, ironing and cooking done and my condo cleaned to a high standard.... hope this isnt unreasonable

Im gonna run this over in my mind a final time at work tonight....... i would be interested in hearing some of your experiences............ im only gonna be in bkk six months so im wondering if its worth doing for that amount of time

to me her arse is worth a million dollars......but i dont wanna pay that for it.

[Stogie]

Erm... you're being conned.

No nice girl would dream of asking you for money especially if you don't even live there yet.

I mean - if she works and her family works then what does she (and they) need money for?

Gambling? Drinking? Buffalo condoms? Limo to the Western Union office?

Wake up, mate and just go over there and nail her ass. She's playing you the same way it sounds like you intend to play her.

You want what she's got - she wants what you've got... sounds like true love to me!

Frankly you deserve each other!

[robbo]

cynical bastard stogie............but perhaps a correct one
and SUKHUMVIT i love the line " to me her ass is worth a million,but i aint gonna pay it".........if you wont pay do you think 2000 baht would do the trick?.............its all the baht ive got left over from last trip
seriously tho,if you not hooking up with this girl full time then why even consider her demands? sounds to me mate like its love................and youll pay one way or other..........do as stogie says.....get over there and nail her ass........and plenty others to that should cure the love in the air.

[sukhumvitpoler]

cheers lads, i know i deserve a smacked ass  

guess im just gonna have to think some more while working the graveyard shift tonight..........

please keep the comments coming but i dont want a red ass by the morning guys  

I think she gets all this shit off her friend who has a scottish bf - the guy is sending her shit loads a month - im talking 100k baht, paid for a brand new car and all sorts, this is a girl i wouldnt pay 200 baht to fuck

damn you scottish!!!!!!!! why dont you live up to your sterotype and be tight!!!

[robbo]

a fool and his money................ guess youve heard that one.
btw your no fool for going sweet on a thai girl, i have before its easy done,just be sure about what it is your looking for,ST and longterm.

[Anthony_Mustang]

Congratulations on hitting the great conumbrum.
Do I trust her or not?

If she was a bar girl then the answer would definately be a big NO.

However if (and that's a big IF) you have to remember that you are entering a relationship with someone who see's the world and family from a different cultural view than you. If you are going to be part of a Thai family of course you will be asked to help out with helpiing support mum and dad if they are poor.

The only suggestion I can make is  don't give more than you are willing to loose.

[sev7en]

You guys just wait til Naang Faa see this thread, you cynical bastards

How dare you question thaitruelove???

Poler, screw her, just move in with me. Imagine all the fun we´ll have

[si geena]

(Anthony_Mustang @ Nov. 29 2008,23:24) Congratulations on hitting the great conumbrum.
Do I trust her or not?

If she was a bar girl then the answer would definately be a big NO.

That's a bit quick.

People everywhere are the same. There's some good and some nasty ones. A bargirl may sound the least capable of making morally correct decisions, but there are honest ones.

Go in with eyes wide open.

sukhumvitpoler you should know her better than anyone else here. You interact with her on a regular basis. If you're not socially inept, you'll figure her out for what she is.

If she's not from the barscene, I think you've got a good leg up already.

[Stewart]

I have been going out with a thai gg for nearly a year. non-hoe, met in a restaurant...... blah blah she has a small income from this...

"Going out with"?.....and you live where? Not in Thailand, correct?

How can you possibly go out with someone from thousands of miles away?

now im supposed to be moving to bkk in jan..... and she has asked me for some cash to help the family and crap like that.........now this pissed me off big time as im not rich and i told her before that if it becomes about money then its not love.

She asked you BEFORE you moved there. That seems a good thing to me. Would you have preferred she waited until you got there?

And it IS about love. It is about her love for her family - what is wrong with that? That will always be 100 times stronger that you can even imagine she feels about you.