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[69billy]

(Monkey @ Nov. 25 2007,13:42)

(stogie bear @ Nov. 25 2007,11:20)  Damn... how did that happen?

got chatting to a guy outside WayOut Club, turned out he is 'moody1779'

I brought up LBF in conversation and he said 'oh, I'm a member there'

Hey Monkey...
Have you ever been to Stunners...??

[69billy]

(Walkin'Dude @ Nov. 25 2007,12:03) Despite ten years of living in Thailand (with a lot of that time spent chasing LB's!) I have only just found this board. It looks like a real resource.
Looking forward to meeting you guys soon.

Wel come on board WD..
And if you have been chasing LBs for10 years ..You may have new info for as....

[Guest]

cheers once more for the warm welcome...soccer gay? well apparently so am I for having an LB fetish......so seems the gay shit is the most entertaining, all good then eh?

[post-op lover]

I just discovered this thread. No time right now to respond, but it is a challenging question.

There's a couple of sites for dating TS girls, and I think they have far more insightful comments, from others who have been through this.

POL

[post-op lover]

Hi Jaymee,

I found the site I was looking for. It has an article that may be very helpful for you:
http://www.tsgirlfriend.com/when-wh....al.html

If you're considering marriage, then you and he need to know you can trust each other. This is a big revelation, but you have to tell him. If he tells everyone else, for what it's worth you can see what a loser he is. If he understands and doesn't tell others, then you know that even if things don't work out, he is reliable and you made a good decision.

Trying as others suggest, and surprising him, shows no consideration for him, and means that he wouldn't be motivated to show any consideration for you.

Btw, now that we've gotten to know each other, any chance you'll be in the US sometime?

POL

[azza33]

Hiya Jaymee

not sure if its been brought up yet or not~~

But you should tell him~

simply becoz one day if he wants a family some real problems are gonna crop up~~

All the best ~~

[Naang Faa]

Hi Jaymee,i know how you must be feeling honey.Although i never had a boyfriend to tell,i felt so ashamed of what i was and scared of what people would think of me i ran away to Thailand to transition..i just kind of disappeared..after a couple of years i e-mailed the biggest gossip i knew-and let the hysteria die down a couple of months and returned to the UK...only to find that people didn't care what i was it was who i am is most important...i never lost a single friend or family and i'm far more popular now than i ever was as a guy.As for the dating pool,i get asked out by guys who knew me before,guys i played football with they just don't care...
I could live in stealth but choose not to because if there is one thing i learned from the girls in Bangkok it was to be proud of what i am and be proud of what i have achieved in the last few years..The ONLY thing i am ashamed of was my lack of faith i had in the people i love the most, my friends and family to understand why i did it..
If you do tell your boyfriend (and i personally think everybody should be honest in a SERIOUS relationship) and you don't get the response you hope for and he tells your workmates(very unlikely) you will find,like i found that people have jobs that stress them,wives/husbands they argue with constantly,mortgages,kids ect and really wont give much thought about it..ok you will be asked a lot of questions sure and why not we are special we are not"everyone's cup of tea"but we did nothing to be ashamed of...I don't know anything about Singapore or it's culture but i know there are more TS there than my city(i have only seen one other) so it's nothing they never seen before...
I hope and wish from the bottom of my heart that you get your wish and you and your beau live a long and happy life together..
Remember this honey:It was not what he is,It is who he is why you fell in love with him..
Naang Faa
xxxx
best of luck to you whatever you decide xxx

[jaymee]

(Naang Faa @ Nov. 30 2007,10:11) Hi Jaymee,i know how you must be feeling honey.Although i never had a boyfriend to tell,i felt so ashamed of what i was and scared of what people would think of me i ran away to Thailand to transition..i just kind of disappeared..after a couple of years i e-mailed the biggest gossip i knew-and let the hysteria die down a couple of months and returned to the UK...only to find that people didn't care what i was it was who i am is most important...i never lost a single friend or family and i'm far more popular now than i ever was as a guy.As for the dating pool,i get asked out by guys who knew me before,guys i played football with they just don't care...
I could live in stealth but choose not to because if there is one thing i learned from the girls in Bangkok it was to be proud of what i am and be proud of what i have achieved in the last few years..The ONLY thing i am ashamed of was my lack of faith i had in the people i love the most, my friends and family to understand why i did it..
If you do tell your boyfriend (and i personally think everybody should be honest in a SERIOUS relationship) and you don't get the response you hope for and he tells your workmates(very unlikely) you will find,like i found that people have jobs that stress them,wives/husbands they argue with constantly,mortgages,kids ect and really wont give much thought about it..ok you will be asked a lot of questions sure and why not we are special we are not"everyone's cup of tea"but we did nothing to be ashamed of...I don't know anything about Singapore or it's culture but i know there are more TS there than my city(i have only seen one other) so it's nothing they never seen before...
        I hope and wish from the bottom of my heart that you get your wish and you and your beau live a long and happy life together..
Remember this honey:It was not what he is,It is who he is why you fell in love with him..
                                                                                                           Naang Faa
                                                                                                                        xxxx
   best of luck to you whatever you decide  xxx

I somehow missed your post but thanks for replying. I'm wondering what you mean by "you never had a BF to tell?"

I haven't still told him anyways but oh wells maybe when I'm more comfy with it I might. I really relate as well to the fact about becoming more popular - it seems to be the case with me as well.

I'm not sure though if I'd feel better if there were more TS's here being out and proud about it since I'm pretty shy on that matter anways... its something I don't really discuss much with friends.

Anyways, thanks again for the lovely reply. You look fantastic as well on your avatar.

[Guest]

Hi I am Neil and live in Tenerife, I did visit thailand back in the 80,s but was with my then wife so behaved myself
I have never been out with a ladyboy in fact not certain I have never met one but I have to admit the idea excites me and I find some of the girls gorgeous to look at. I am thinking of going to Pattaya in the new year to play some golf and would welcome the chance to met someone. BTW my taste is small cocks would it be acceptable to ask the girl as the idea of a large cock scares me . Anyway nice forum abd u all seem like nice peeps .

[stogie bear]

Cock size is guesswork because they will tell you what they think you want to hear.

Enjoy your trip...

[qwerty]

have a little tact when you ask for sure...
often when asking if they have a cock or a pussy, they'll respond "what you like?" as if they can offer both.
so i imagine as stogie said you'll not get the answer you wanted.
but you can increase your odds by picking a physically smaller ladyboy... tho its no guarantee!

[Guest]

Being new to a board can ruffle some feathers. I apologize in advance if I ask a dumb question or if I seem ignorant of the etiquette here.

Thanks, Jim

[Ladyboy_Loser!]

There are no dumb questions here, just dumb answers at times. Read the posts, get a sense of how things operate and then post away to your hearts content.

[gizmo]

(TaqMan @ Dec. 25 2007,16:40) Being new to a board can ruffle some feathers. I apologize in advance if I ask a dumb question or if I seem ignorant of the etiquette here.

Thanks, Jim

Welcome, dont worry we dont bite..... well, not all of us!
[ Just watch out for Mr. grumpy!]

[katoeylover]

Hi, and welcome.