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It is a subjective question as I've been with girls bareback in Thailand now for over 13 years, not all the time but things happen when you're pissed and not thinking straight.
Whether I would go bareback with a ladyboy, her arse or mine again is a question it is difficult to answer as things can happen in a split second and then it's too late.
So my answer would be no I wouldn't do it without a condom but with a 'but' on the end, an honest answer from me.
Personally, I think that a condom is a minor inconvenience in return for major peace of mind. To get drunk and not use a condom would lead, for me, to major stress, the next morning. (and perhaps for the rest of the trip). Not worth it.
Luckilyfor me I handle alcohol pretty well and have never been drunk enough to forget to 'suit up' or be tempted not to. The alcohol thing is not a boast - just big build and lucky genetics.
I got shit up here once from Fiona, our Balinese model, and rightly so, because i said that i was screwing Indo ladies bareback but would never do it with a ladyboy. her attitude was that it was even MORE dangerous to screw a lady hooker without one and how dare i say otherwise? kind of a valid point actually, considering that in Indonesia the ladies probably have more activity than the ladyboys.
'mutually exclusive' like stogie is the way to go, and i actually screwed 2 very close friends of mine like this in January, after we all 3 got HIV tests. yes, i know there is an incubation period, but i was pretty secure seeing those 'negative' signs on their hospital slips and they on mine, so I had my fun with a post-op and pre-op that i know, both models on this site. of course that was 6 weeks ago now and if I see them next week i will have to 'suit up' again; Lord knows none of us have been exactly faithful in that time LOL. man, did it feel good not to wear one of those raincoats and blowing a load in someone for the first time in a year felt great.
this past week there was no excuse; no drunkiness, no hospital slip, just my raging testosterone in the middle of the day and an amazingly beautiful ladyboy guiding my dick into her sphincter with only so much as her spit for lube and no rubber. as tonio said, at the spur of the moment who knows what you will do, and i just foolishly went with it, saying to myself 'i can't believe this honey isn't making me put one on'. sometimes we just can't help it and now i am wondering if it was the cool thing to do. also.....this girl doesn't know me from shit, but she knows i travel around these asian countries having sex with everything that moves, so what the hell was SHE thinking? or, perhaps like me, she wasn't? felt good at the time but kinda regretting it now.
thanks for the input......thinking with the 'other' head isn't always the best thing, eh?
Too dangerous not to use one ! I do recall one incident when somehow my condon got dislodged and I did not realise until after I had cum. Was worried about it for weeks afterward !.
Jon I do think you are a bit nuts not using one. Although you both had Neg HIV tests you are correct about the incubation period. I think its somewhere between 6 weeks and a few months but I am not certain. I wonder if the so called "experts" really know. I doubt it as always....BE CAREFUL OUT THERE!!
Of course we're all trying to wear one, but as Tonio said, sometimes....it can happen. The question is more who actually has the bare back? Because that's the one with the real risk!
that's the truth......the ladyboy has much more risk than the guy.....but still stupid nonetheless. and naturally, I will say that i will never do it again, but who knows until the moment of truth arrives?
I remember that i did the same thing with a cute canadian lady 14 years ago and slipped one past the goalie; we produced a strapping young lad, and a fine speciman he is, but still unplanned nevertheless. this, however, can mean death, and should be avoided whenever possible, no excuses.
by the way.....my recent conquest was not a bar girl; still no consolation but a bit of an excuse for me LOL.
The risk of AIDS isn't something that I would realistically consider. It's actually harder than you think for guys to get aids. But there are some other nasty persistant ailments that are more easily exchanged and those are the ones that make me shy away from having extra sex on the side.
It's also another reason why I never (used to) drink and fuck. I have pretty piss-poor will power and after a few Changs I reckon I could do something pretty stupid! Best I don't lead myself into temptation!
I have to admit to a couple of indescretions with over active bar girls and my drunken self caught up in the heat of the moment, but not with a ladyboy to date,I definetly do not pursue unsafe sex as an acceptable option.
In December last year, I was asked on two sepparate occasions if I wanted to go bare back from two different girls in Cascades, one of whom was a stunner/star which really surprised me, I didnt as I had my senses with me at the time , but who knows what the future holds in a different situation.
At the considerable risk of sounding facetitious, cute, sarcastic and/or cynical: here are my thoughts:
Not only can you contract HIV without condom use, you can also contract gonorrhea and/or NSU - two infections ABSOLUTELY RAMPANT among all sexual persuasions in Thailand.
If you contract HIV, okay, no problem, you die.
If you contract clap or NSU, kiss a portion of your vacation goodbye....
Hey, death is kind......
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