Long term '1 on 1' with the ideal ladyboy?

[Guest]

(Stewart @ Nov. 12 2007,23:35) Mr NHScotsman

If I have got you mixed up with someone else, then I apologise in advance.

But didn't you start a long thread 6 months ago about moving to Thailand to teach English to be near your Thai GF and little boy?

If that was you, then what happened to all that?

Am I missing something?

Yeah,
That was me...I came and had a falling out with her 2 weeks after getting here. She got into a huge financial mess (large amount of baht) and when I wouldn't bail her out, she took off for some factory where she still works 120 hours a week. I hear from her about every 2 weeks. I asked her for a period time to work things out but she refuses to do things my way. Shame too, I adored this girl and the little boy is a wonderful kid. It was then that I met my current girlfriend and she has been wonderful and knows all about my ex and her problems.
As for the rest, I do live in Bangkok and do teach school here at an International school and life is very good.
Nhscotsman

[gizmo]

(69billy @ Nov. 12 2007,19:44)

(gizmo @ Nov. 12 2007,21:32) I voted for option 3, GG or LB, it alway's happens after
a few month's   I cant help it, I guess I'm a slut!  

I guess Thats makes me a biger slut...

Your the king of the slut's!

[moe666]

Billy is not a slut, he just has a hard on that will not go away.

[blonde_havoc]

I voted top option.

I've tried to have serious relationships with ladyboys here in America for the past 3 years. The first lasted about 6 months and the second lasted about 2 months.

It just really doesn't work. Ladyboys are different from GG's in this respect.

[Looker]

I have FORCED myself to vote the first option..because it's about time I start doing something with my life

[kahuna]

I am at the end of, or middle of, or someplace in a kinda-sorta long-term thing of sorts I think...

And thankfully there have been many "I hate you times." to allow me to enjoy the other
girls I can't seem to keep my eyes and other parts from exploring...

I voted the third selection...

[PigDogg]

You really are quite the wordsmith Mr Stogie Bear!

[stogie bear]

Just wait till the book comes out...

I was very nervous when I went inside the building. I learned fast that the arcade machines took tokens not quarters. I shuffled up to the high counter and presented some dollar bills to a lanky middle aged and disinterested Texan. He had long dank hair and rotting teeth. I wandered through the magazine and video racks for a few minutes and eventually slinked off behind a tatty curtain into the darkness of the arcade cubicles.

There were about twenty cubicles in total and each one was numbered. There were about seven on each side of the corridor then about five or six more against the wall in a row at the end.

The overpowering stench of discharged spunk hung pungent in the air. Not all the doors closed properly and some of the wooden walls inside the booths had circular holes in them for what I couldn't even imagine. Didn't everyone value privacy in here of all places?

The small color monitor rotated quickly between scenes just long enough to give me a glimpse of the action but not long enough to get me worked up! There must have been about thirty different video players all whirring at the same time as everything from hard core straight sex to lesbians and gays flicked on to the screen for a few brief seconds.

I put in a token and pressed the button till it stopped at an Asian girl who was quickly disrobing...

[PigDogg]

(stogie bear @ Nov. 12 2007,22:50) The overpowering stench of discharged spunk hung pungent in the air.

[Guest]

First of all I would like the thank thegame925 for sharing those memoirs, an interesting read.

Although there are a number of ladyboys whom I regard as friends and I absolutely have no problem at all in being seen in public, be it in a restaurant, bar or disco. I have no desire to set up home or become an ''item'' with one.
Call me shallow if you like but my only interest in these fascinating creatures is of a sexual nature whether I find them in the bar, department store, airport check in desk (air asia) or walking the streets of Pattaya, Phuket and Bangkok.

I voted....Maybe with a GG but not a LB; however, not for a few more years just yet

[jimslim]

(PigDogg @ Nov. 13 2007,14:06)

(stogie bear @ Nov. 12 2007,22:50) The overpowering stench of discharged spunk hung pungent in the air.

                   

Truely a poet for the new millenium

[donnnnnny]

(thegame925 @ Nov. 13 2007,00:47) This is a subject that comes up regularly, the difference this time is that it has started with a Poll...

EDITED OUT FOR BREVITY

an enjoyable read sir
I admire your honesty,  and i agree with so much you say. and little you say i disagree with.
i  have  had a rerlationship of sorts  with mint for the last year and a half,she is young beautifull and famous, i am old  51   and not as atractive as i once was, similar to your self  i would imagine.
when im with  mint we do get along great and have alot of  fun together, i doubt she  could fake  this  kind of behavior  for a  year and a half so i believe she actually likes being with me, reguardless of the  money i pay her.She can be  moody  as all shemales are(show me one that is not moody?).I doubt i would ever be with her perminatly  but i do enjoy being with her when we are together.One  must know whent he spark  has been put out.
All relationships are difficult  , for  many reasons, jelousy being one of the  big killers especially in asia(face)there are other reason too, as most of  the western guys will know having been taken in a devorce(yikes fucking expensive).There is also the peer  pressure groups  of  friends who they listen too, another  reason  relationships  fail.
Many guys  on here will  tell you that you  cant have a relationshipwith a girl from the p4p sceen, i would  despute that as there are  so many factors that decide weather it will work or not.Most  guys can see through a bar girl scam in an instant, some of the better ones (scams)  take more time to see through, but in some cases   a relationship can work.the  girl lb must be new to   thye sceen and not indoctorined with bar  bull shit, this often makes a huge difference.
Ive heard many blokes on here say they (thais) hate us, they hate stupid  people who throw  money around like  confette, if you are sensible and prudent  you will be m far more  respected in  thailand  than a person who is  frivilant  and  a show off(with money).Just as we  hate  big spending wankers in the west who try to impress  girls whith there wallet.
 When all else is  said and  done, as we get older we want different  things, some are looking for love again others  for trophy  brides, some want acceptance, some want to  jsut fit in,and what do i want??? i  want to fuck  as  many hot shemales and girls as i can before i die, and i dont really care if they love me or  not,
THERE IS  NOTHING MORE SEXUALLY EXCITING AS  WHEN A SHEMALE LADYBOY IN A BAR SITS NEXT TO YOU AND TOUCHES YOUR LEG AND SAYS SHE WANTS TO SUCK YOUR COCK.SOMETHING NEW  MMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
love is  for  fools  its a  past trait that  just  don't seem to cut it in the modern world
yeah i guess i am heading down the same track" yesterdays man"
donnnnnny
as my mom  once said everyone is beautifull in there own way
the  missionary would be  prowd of me  

[donnnnnny]

i wonder how  much she charges

[Guest]

Spot on Donny. The relationship thing is very difficult at best. There are only three types: Type 1) You are superior to your mate. 2) You are inferior to your mate. 3) You are equal to your mate. And that is all folks...take it from there and enjoy the relationships you have and remember never, ever get married as that immediately ends all the fun.

[stogie bear]

The success of any relationship depends on what your expectations are...

Sure - you can have a 'relationship' with a pretty ladyboy strumpet from Obsessions so long as she can continue working and keep seeing her friends!

Sure - you can have a relationship with an office working ladyboy so long as you don't mind cheating on her after she gets too boring to fuck any more...

Sure - you can have a relationship with a girl over the internet on the other side of the world so long as you don't mind wanking every night and you are stupid enough to think she's doing the same!

I contiue to hear these stories about fellas who insist that they "Have no secrets" and "Trust each other" when in reality this is simply not happening.

If you are in a relationship with a ladyboy 'P4P player', based on honesty and trust then it won't last and you are a fool for thinking that it will.

If you want a serious long lasting (5+ years) relationship with a young Thai ladyboy then here is the checklist you must follow.

The first is easy...

Does she smoke?

OK... strike her off your list. This should weed out most of the P4P players or the liars wh say they are not P4P players.

Does she drink? Strike two...

NO NICE THAI GIRL (ladyboy) DRINKS ALCOHOL PERIOD!

Right... now that you've dumped the smokers and drinkers... what does she do for a living?

If she has ever worked in a bar or dresses like she should be working in a bar then it won't work PERIOD!

There are so many 'nice' ladyboys with normal hopes and dreams and aspirations who would truly love to meat a franag man to settle down with but...

...NONE OF THEM HAVE EVER WORKED IN NANA PLAZA!

By the way - there are NO exceptions and you aren't special... NONE of you. So please spare me the saddo stories about how you are making it with a ladyboy who you've saved from a fate worse than farm work!

Frankly it's fucking pathetic and it gets very frustrating to hear this crap from people I know and who should know better.

Rant over barely just beginning!