Buying gifts for your beau!

[Guest]

since this was brought up in tt changs excellent adventure as a good topic for discussion. i will bring it up here. hope its the right place.

when your girl be in a gg/lb takes you to the mall and wants to go shoping. you of course being the atm machine she is using.

how do you react to them when the spring a huge purchase on you that they expect you to pay for??
if this is a working girl why are you taking them shopping??


i never have gone shopping with a working girl so this might be different for me. i have had this done several times with some women in the states and abroad. i dont mind paying for decently priced items now but most of the time i just dont pay. i have even gone so far as to start laughing and walk out the store..hell i am not buy some girl 500 usd for a pair of boots because they say donald p. on them. i didn't even like her that much.

hell aren't they all just working girls in one way or another?

[stogie bear]

how do you react to them when the spring a huge purchase on you that they expect you to pay for??

How do you let this happen to you in the first place?

[PigDogg]

(trocks69 @ Jul. 29 2007,10:21) how do you react to them when the spring a huge purchase on you that they expect you to pay for??

Teerak had a cheap gold chain which broke while she was giving me head. She was not happy so I said I'd buy her a new one.

Next day we're at a gold shop and she wants an expensive gold chain. If that's what she really wants I'll buy but I'm not going to waste money and not get the best price.

So we go to 2 shops and get 2 similar prices. I drag her back to the hotel and give her the cash. She comes back a few hours later with a chain and a phone.

[daveduke007]

(PigDogg @ Jul. 29 2007,17:59) Teerak had a cheap gold chain which broke while she was giving me head.  She was not happy so I said I'd buy her a new one.

 Just fell on the floor with that one PD          

You just made my day  

BTW Im buying the "teerak" a TV on tuesday

[mcqueen]

"BTW Im buying the "teerak" a TV on tuesday"

Why? Did her TV implode, while she was giving you head?

[mcqueen]

"So we go to 2 shops and get 2 similar prices. I drag her back to the hotel and give her the cash. She comes back a few hours later with a chain and a phone."

It's probably a good idea, to send the LB shopping alone anyway. As soon as the shopkeeper/sales person sees the Thai LB together with a farang, the price for the goods will go up.

[Guest]

thanks for fixing my misspellings on the title sb. i wa kind of hung over when i wrote this....

any way i got my self into the shopping because the girls asked me to go. i needed some stuff. i did not realize that they thought i was the atm for the day...

[PigDogg]

Two different ladyboys like to eat at places in Big C.

OK, i suppose perhaps they like being in a shopping venue with a farang and his money.

But I think they also think malls are great and assume farangs like them too and will like the ood there.

I associate malls with suburban wasteland and hate them with a passion.

[Tomcat]

Gentlemen have bestowed gifts upon mistresses and ladys of the night since time began. Many Hong Kong Businessman have secret hooker girlfriends over the border in Shenzen and are always buying gifts.

If you can afford it, are financially stable and have no family , why not, its keeping the economy turning over and someone employed and someone happy. There is a pleasure in giving and im not talking about sending money every month..thats another topic..

(You pay 3K for a long time and what has it produced, nothing but a shed load of useless spunk.. but you feel better afterwards, )

On the other hand if you cant afford it then thats another story...

[daveduke007]

(mcqueen @ Jul. 29 2007,19:54) "BTW Im buying the "teerak" a TV on tuesday"

Why? Did her TV implode, while she was giving you head?  

Believe it or not SHE actually turns OFF the TV when we get down to buisiness

[buttafly]

(PigDogg @ Jul. 30 2007,05:44) I associate malls with suburban wasteland and hate them with a passion.  

PD, your  quotes and take on life are awesome,  who says guys our age still can't dress like bums and hate malls and any type of fashionista  BS?

     OK....I have to admit something.... I DID take someone shopping this winter and hated every moment of the experience.  It is literally the first time I did it in like 3 years and felt like a fool the whole time and will never do it again.

      we go to Siam Paragon, for sure a hellhole of pandemic proportions designed  solely to seperate men from their cash in order to keep some whore sucking on their cocks.  A pair of Guess Jeans, not bad at about 2000 baht.  A handbag, same price....OK.    Then.....to some cosmetic counter.... for, of course,  'whitening' cream; this is big in the P.I. also and does, of course, absolutely nothing.  I tell her,  "you know that this stuff won't do a thing for your......." ahhh, forget it.   Then a couple tank tops and we are out of there, me feeling used and taken and the screw that night no better than the night before.

          Shopping is a very bad idea unless you live with that person, have been together a very long time and have disposable income. going shopping with some bar skank is the worst thing you can do, these girls have no respect for suckers and actually will look down on you if you do this crap too many times, they see you as an easy mark and as usual will go straight back to the Thai boys who treat 'em like shit. Like real female's ladyboys have a masochistic streak which is subconscious but there nonetheless, they willl never admit it but they WANT to be treated badly, who can explain that? remember the old adage that nice guys finish last, it's so true.

shopping with LB's is for nice guys, don't do it

[TTChang]

(buttafly @ Jul. 30 2007,20:47) .......  going shopping with some bar skank is the worst thing you can do, these girls have no respect for suckers and actually will look down on you if you do this crap too many times,    ....................don't do it

Errr............ quite correct, in my 'limited'  experience .......................... 

[buttafly]

remember, we as westerners have western versions  of what we think are right and wrong;  taking someone you like to a mall in  America or the UK is easy and done frequently and somewhat expected, perhaps from both parties.

     These Thai people view it as a sign of weakness; as in "I can't believe I actually got this guy who is twice my age to take me to the Emporium, I am going to take him for all he's got and then call Ton once  he is back in his home country".

        5 years ago I was seeing a ladyboy who I liked a lot......she dumped me when she found a fool who would throw his money at her, whereas I was just a poor pauper living in a 6K-a-month shithole with no cable TV; even SHE had that!  The guy takes her to Emporium and buys a 45K baht Louis Vuitton handbag for her on their 2nd date;  when she told me this, I said  "cool, did he put his balls inside the bag also?  'cause  he won't be needing those now!"

2 or 3 months and 50K US later [no joke], the guy was tagged and bagged, sobbing into his beer and unable to reach his obsession, mainly because she was back with me and on Phi Phi for a week; yups, the poor guy who gave no gifts, was not a sucker and was better in the sack won out over the fool who threw his money around and couldn't fuck worth beans, and it didn't cost me shit except for a plane ticket to Phuket.

It's the Bizarro world in Thailand man, the opposite sometimes works better than what you think would work well.

[Road Runner]

(buttafly @ Jul. 30 2007,13:27) It's the Bizarro world in Thailand man, the opposite sometimes works better than what you think would work well.

I'd say that applies equally as well in the west.

About the only difference in Thailand is that the 'goods' are cheaper.

RR.

[kahuna]

I buy them gifts...usually just slut clothes for a few hundred bht a go...and I get to enjoy the slut clothes...Makes them happy and makes me happy...

As one of the now famous Guess Girls likes to say...walk walk, look look, buy buy....

The few times I have bought expensive gifts...e.g., a phone...I have made it clear prior to the purchase that it is not a gift but rather payment for services to be rendered...and they always seem to agree...