Relationships with ladyboys...

[doitrong]

Great report Kahuna....i think you got these sweet little ladyboys worked out....

Last week one night i had a few reds at home called a few old ladyboy friends from Thailand...and behold the next day i 4 ladyboys wanting me to send them money....

hahhah... i still must be handsome man... ...one i had n't heard from in 2 years asked for money in th efirst 10 seconds of the conversation...i led her on a little and asked her how mutt she want...she say 500 US...i say what??? 500 ?? yessssss she says ..ok i say 500 ...no problem 500 Kip....i send you 500 Kip....500 kip is Laos money and worth about 2 baht...i told her i would send 500 kip or 1 million US ...which one she want?

I could n't believe she knocked me back when i offered her 1 million US....

Sometimes when i come home i like to keep in touch with a few favorites ...BUT the rule after they ask for money..they are CUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!CUT!!!!!!!!CUT!!!!!!!!!!! good bye duckling

[liisawinkler]

very very nicely put kahuna

in my experience sometimes i have been inclined to get a bit too attached to someone especially if the chemistry is there and I stay with them for a couple of days...the attachment or nagging feeling sometimes stays with me even when im home or he's not here with me anymore but I would say I have been more or less good at shaking off the feeling after a coupla days...kinda like forgetting about a certain place esp. after a spectacular vacation there that you have loved the place so much that it feels like you can't leave it...

i eventually stop myself from thinking too much about the connection mostly because I am able to divert my attention to friends, everyday activities, reading stuff on the net, inventing evil schemes LOL,  maybe some shopping LOL or redecorating my room....and also sometimes in very rare cases because the guy tries to shake me off like a wretched pet which DOES help a lot too! in short he cuts communication totally..

sometimes the minute daily activities build up to make me forget the attachment until I come to a point where when i remember the experience with him it doesn't tug me that much anymore and I can add it to the chapters in my Experience book...

[daveduke007]

Respect to you Lisa    

Nice to hear you too can get "attached" to a guy , considering your buisness ( no offence meant hun)

[Guest]

Buzzcocks, circa 1979, we used to play that in my car in high school all the time

cheers buttafly - nice one for spotting the buzzcocks
thought most of the board were old boys into the likes of genesis , yes and peter frampton

[patrick]

Peter Frampton, didn't he once have a Greatest Hit album?
I have to admit to being old enough to like Yes. Still occasionally listen after a tsunami of shiraz.

[TTChang]

(kahuna @ Jul. 29 2007,07:17) Some of them want to play you, but perhaps they just haven't had enough music lessons yet or perhaps the instrument they are trying to play is just a bit out of tune...       In any event, I get up early, pack for my trip home and she says she wants to go to the airport with me...I20 hours or so later when I get home...I reply...big mistake guys...she now has my USA cell number... ....

Great stuff kahuna - please think again about your reluctance to do a Trip Report!

Maybe I did something right - I've never been sent any LBs bank details....  and I havent a clue where the Western Union agency is.

I agree with foggy though - if youre feeling good & being played it don't matter .............. as long as your bullshit radar is still turned on.

[Guest]

(liisawinkler @ Jul. 29 2007,09:09) very very nicely put kahuna

in my experience sometimes i have been inclined to get a bit too attached to someone especially if the chemistry is there and I stay with them for a couple of days...the attachment or nagging feeling sometimes stays with me even when im home or he's not here with me anymore but I would say I have been more or less good at shaking off the feeling after a coupla days...kinda like forgetting about a certain place esp. after a spectacular vacation there that you have loved the place so much that it feels like you can't leave it...

i eventually stop myself from thinking too much about the connection mostly because I am able to divert my attention to friends, everyday activities, reading stuff on the net, inventing evil schemes LOL,  maybe some shopping LOL or redecorating my room....and also sometimes in very rare cases because the guy tries to shake me off like a wretched pet which DOES help a lot too! in short he cuts communication totally..

sometimes the minute daily activities build up to make me forget the attachment until I come to a point where when i remember the experience with him it doesn't tug me that much anymore and I can add it to the chapters in my Experience book...

Hi Lisa !!

You are spot on there !! I think we had some pretty intense communications before we first met - in Cebu. Was getting seriously worried about finally meeting you too ......... ....... after the build up!!

All I can say is - you have real class and are so smart - that I don't think anyone will steal your heart ........... unless ............. you want that to happen!??!!!

Anyway, the way you globetrot around the world - would be surprised if you get finally hooked

As I think - the best way to forget about some-one "special" is to shop around (hey - forget your shopping habits Lisa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) ......... I mean to try others. Lets face it - there is nothing more exciting than to have a new partner .......... one u really fancy I mean. I think that applies to almost everyone.

Thats probably the reason why most of us stay "single" and cruise around - dabbling here and there.

As for Thailand - the best lb of course - is one that does not work "the scene" and has a job already .......... but thhen that takes a lot of hard work to find them.

But if you try hard enough ---------- there are good chances to get the reward.

........... but for how long will it stay that way ?!??!?!?!? Well - we just have to wait and see. But compared with most western women ........... it well worth the effort!!!

Where are u now Lisa? Can never keep up with you -or even work out which country you are in - with that upwardly international mobile life style of yours !!!

You have a great approach and deserve all the benefits toooooooooo.

[Guest]

Now I don't know whether just to ignore or delete her entirely from my phone...but while I'm pondering that question, I continue to get the sms...where RU why u no talk me...etc., etc...

Finally this morning I give in and reply...and very nicely I might add...telling her that I do enjoy spending time with her but I will not send her any money for any reason whatsoever...and I will see her when I return to Thai...In short, I gave her the western version of "Up to You."

kahuna you're a wealth of information my friend,
i am going through the exact same ordeal- getting sms plus phone calls before and after work everyday- told her i'm not a sucker falang whos gonna be roped into to sending cash for sick cows, mothers etc .

shes said with an angry tone' i not want money- why u think i pay bar fine myself' its about the feeling- when u come back to thailand you will see.u miss me ? how much?- i want u hear now.

they adapt to everything you say- cute whores- shes just figuring out another way to approach the cash topic and secure her potential investment.
My instinct tells me she a hooker and get a grip but the constant media bombardment and a strange masochistic curiosity is beginning to wear my resistance down. This isn't helped when you awake with a screaming hangover next to a fat english/american bird who looks like an umpaluma.

[buttafly]

(kahuna @ Jul. 29 2007,07:17) ...it is shorty followed by a message with her real name and all her banking information...

  excellent!!  

 these girls are  so funny...... and it seems like boards like this one are FINALLY starting  to put some smarts into once-stupid falangs;  punters are still falling for the  "I lub you too much" lines and other assorted  BS  of course, but certainly [and hopefully?] not the ones who read here.

*Footnote; see signature

[Tomcat]

(TTChang @ Jul. 29 2007,16:40) if youre feeling good & being played it don't matter .............. as long as your bullshit radar is still turned on.

Thats well said TT but my guess is that psychologically or physiologically for some this will be impossible IMO because love can be blind , the chemistry takes over and " WHAM" , one is sucked in ( or maybe suckerd)

Its just human nature and it dont matter how many warnings one gives some guys will always succumb. Its human nature . If homo sapiens didnt have any type of bonding emotions there wouldnt be any existing to talk about it. Some of us can switch the emotion meter on and off at will but not all..thats for sure...

So just before they leave the bedroom best remember to switch the BS Radar back on. or leave it set at intermediate...have fun, but not to much fun LOL...

[stogie bear]

Like I told a mate last week during his therapy lecture...

"Love her when she's there - don't when she ain't!"

It's the Thai bar girl way and it works great for me.

[buttafly]

(orgasmaddict @ Jul. 29 2007,21:35) a strange masochistic curiosity is beginning to wear my resistance down. This isn't helped when you awake with a screaming hangover next to a fat english/american bird who looks like an umpaluma.

funny line about the tubby limey/yank, but don't let the line above that happen!  'wearing your resistance down' is what they all talk about over late-night  pad thai at huay khwang, just how they can get their hooks deeper and deeper into the twice-their-age fools who pay them so much attention while they dream about going to sleep with their favorite Thai teenage boy.

  don't fall for it, please.....  this board is in full 'wake-up' mode right now and we need to continue on with that trend!

[Guest]

Peter Frampton has had many hits... one of them: Do you FEEEEEEEL like we do!

And do you/we?

We have very different approaches here at this forum.

As for the poll presented here it is SO NOT representative of the truth... no, I've never been taken "for a ride" by any of my transsexual girlfriends. They have been nice ppl all of them in spite of their profession. And yes, some of them have been hookers though they tried to keep it a secret from me.

Let's do a reality-check here, gentlemen.

YES! It IS possible to fall in love and to have a relationship whith a transsexual girl. I've done it over the last two years, and I'm doing it as of now... and this time it's gonna last! Or am I dreaming?

Don't be so cynical, lads...

Peace!

H

[kahuna]

(stogie bear @ Jul. 29 2007,22:44) Like I told a mate last week during his therapy lecture...

"Love her when she's there - don't when she ain't!"

Someone once wrote..."You know the moment you fall in love, but no one knows the moment you fall out of love."

Well that's not true...I do know when I fall out of love with one of these girls...

And that is the exact moment they leave my room...

[kahuna]

(hank @ Jul. 29 2007,23:07) Let's do a reality-check here, gentlemen.

YES! It IS possible to fall in love and to have a relationship whith a transsexual girl.

I'm not saying that YOU can't and don't fall in love with them...I do almost every time...

But I don't believe that THEY can or are able or are willing to fall in love with a farang...

And listening to someone in a 2 or 10 year relationship with a LB still wouldn't convince me that the LB is really in love...