Relationships with ladyboys...

[Looker]

(rick @ Jan. 16 2008,17:37)

(donnnnnny @ Jul. 31 2007,18:34) The reality of thailand is  that  thais  dont really know what love is

So true!!

Well - it's a bit easy to say that Thais, or Asians in general, are not capable of expressing love.
For sure there are profound differences between the western world and the asian world but lack of love feelings can be common anywhere.
I don't really have any, and don't remember my father having ever expressed anything of what we the romantics would describe as love. As a complex definition love is in itself.
Having said that I'm sure not a chunk of ice

Back to the topic - Falling in the illusion of being in love with a person who makes of love a job it's probably not a good idea.

[vangough05]

(kahuna @ Jul. 30 2007,03:14)

(PigDogg @ Jul. 30 2007,02:17) I'm not sure if it really matters if a girl speaks good English.  You just find other ways to communicate and I'm not just talking about sex here.

TTChang's date is right...many of the girls I pick can't speak but a few words of English...But we don't seem to have any problems communicating...I'm not the most talkative of guys any way...so it all seems to work for a few days and then it's time to move on to another girl...

I find it's much better than having a girl who can speak English and won't shut the fuck up...

Same, same.

I bought a mate over here about 4 years ago. He was an accountant who actually had a personalty. Any way he used to spend hundreds and hundreds of dollers on lunch at strip joints in Brisbane and if he was lucky get a lap dance with no happy ending.

I chucked him and me on a plane to Los and fuck he was like a kid in a lolly shop.

One thing he told me that made his life more comfortable besides not spending a fortune was that he could be him self and didn't have to talk a lot of waddle or listen to a load of crap just to get his rocks off.

What pissed me when i was married besides having to pay a fucking fortune in household bills and maybe get a fuck every couple of months was that i also had to communicate with someone who i didnt really have much time for.

In Los, i pick of the top shelf, have a good time, pretend for a hour or so that she loves me, pay for what service i receive, have a chat if i so wish, kiss her good night and then move on.

[JustSumGai]

(kahuna @ Jul. 29 2007,23:17)

(hank @ Jul. 29 2007,23:07) Let's do a reality-check here, gentlemen.

YES! It IS possible to fall in love and to have a relationship whith a transsexual girl.

I'm not saying that YOU can't and don't fall in love with them...I do almost every time...

But I don't believe that THEY can or are able or are willing to fall in love with a farang...

And listening to someone in a 2 or 10 year relationship with a LB still wouldn't convince me that the LB is really in love...

Ten years would kinda make me think she was in love. Or maybe his income stays good.

In my recent experience I came to the conclusion that evvironmental factors made love into a theorhetical concept to mine, or maybe a luxury that she had once had but when it failed so did her belief in it. She DOES believe in "survival". That gets tiring I'm sure, so her happiness comes from dreaming about a time when she can toss money around (even if it's to buy the kids sweets) and make not too smart choices like renting a place she knows she can't pay for next month. And someone will keep it from going critical. More I think about it the more I think of "love" as a western notion. At least this silly heroin high romance love. I think she would see it as love if I took a second job to "help" her. Thankfully mine is not a bargirl. The lure of that kind of money does not sing to her. The word pragmatic occurs to me.

[JustSumGai]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 16 2008,21:26)

  I have spent many nights consoling girls who lost boyfriends-
  They've never needed my shoulder when they lost a"just customer"..

   A few,but not many,girls i know are in a long time loving relationship.
   We do talk about this stuff quite often..
                                                           Naang Faa
                                                                          x

I'm new to the forum and I hope I see many more posters such as you. I may be nuts to some here but I would like to know more about the girls feelings, etc. Too often generalities take over a thread. Thanks for adding your experience.

[statuesque]

 Welcome to the forum, JustSumGai! Happy posting!  


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[Guest]

(orgasmaddict @ Jul. 27 2007,19:37) after reading tt changs trip report i just wanted to know  how many fellas have actually been taken for a ride and how many fellas(if any) have a had a successful relationship.

I am having a long term relationship as I write this he/she is a wonderful person very loving and passionate

[daveduke007]

I love her and she love's me

[statuesque]

(gtx4bbl @ Feb. 04 2008,08:31) I am having a long term relationship as I write this he/she is a wonderful person very loving and passionate

Youve got to be kidding me!!!   "he/she"?!? Seriously??  


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[mirimark]

I've been played so many times I just can't help myself.

No matter, I know when I'm being played. I actually Like the game. IT's fun.

[seamus]

I know a guy in the UK getting married to a girl From Manila in April.He met her on a cam site.I have been invited to the wedding ! I wish them all the luck in the world !

[statuesque]

 Heartwarming  


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[Naang Faa]

I'm new to the forum and I hope I see many more posters such as you. I may be nuts to some here but I would like to know more about the girls feelings, etc. Too often generalities take over a thread. Thanks for adding your experience.

Hi JustSumGai,
Firstly welcome to the forum...
Secondly,thank you so much,i try to put our side to the story as much as i can...they are
good girls really...they just do bad things sometimes
x

[Naang Faa]

I am having a long term relationship as I write this he/she is a wonderful person very loving and passionate

Can't see it lasting if she reads this!!!!
Have some respect! I don't think anything is more hurtful than being referred to as "he"....
x

[jtatis]

Theoretically a healthy relationship is possible, but it requires 2 healthy adults to participate. Sadly, this is frequently not the case, with either or both being emotionally underdeveloped. Some of the challenges is that some men are attracted to TS because they are TS and not because of who the other person is. They are in essence TS obsessed. Once the 'magic' of being with this TS wears off, the guy strays. On the other side, in some cases, TS sometimes suffer a certain degree of trauma growing up as a child, which, in some cases can result in issues later on. However, with a loving and caring family, the chances of a mature well balanced TS are good, but who knows if the TS obsessed man can ever come around to appreciating the person for being a person.

[Guest]

WTF? Could someone please help to interpret this?