Not just the walk of shame

[mirimark]

Who cares how they dress. When their with me they won't be dressed for Long anyhow. And as for the walking, there will be none of that either, only a Lot of Kicking and Screaming when I insert my exxon valdize into their Ass.

Seriously, I don't care how they dress. Its Love'm & and Leave'm for me and then I shout;
" NEXT ! "

[Guest]

Don't care about who sees me, if the LB is attractive and has personality, then I should feel proud to walk/be with her.

There has been one time though... when I went for dinner with Marsha dressed in an SM-Outfit (we met in front of the restaurant and I had no idea she would wear something like that!). As soon as we entered... all eyes on us: a Body-Builder in lycra shirt coupled with a SM-Diva in a latex-dress that barely covered her nipples.
I said to myself "hey, I'm cool with it"... and that was until a few minutes later a family of 5 sat to the table next to us. The 3 kids were constantly looking and asking momy tons of questions... OK, that was slightly embarrassing (for me and also for the 2 parents).


Good reason for not having children!

[daveduke007]

You would have looked good in the "gay" village in Manchester

Dave...

[PigDogg]

The Off Topic brawling Has Been Moved Here


       so if you want to brawl or watch it go there!

And if you want to talk about the Walk of Shame stay here.

This Forum has a little something for everyone!

Hey Stewart, bet you a beer you click the link?

[andre459]

Thanks PD that was starting to get out of hand and has spread across a few different threads.

I agree with Mardhi, Nana has never worried me but it made me feel a bit nervous going back to the hotel, I used to use the short time rooms upstairs at Nana (that's a waste of cash).

It's like getting off the skytrain at Nana - single male farang at Nana we all know where he's going. It was more the 'sex tourist' tag that worried me more than the fact I was with a ladyboy.
Coming back to Australia yesterday I was sitting next to young backpackers who had travelled throughout South East Asia having an enlightening experience. They told me how they didn't like Phuket because there were too many old men with prostitutes, 5 minutes later they are talking to another guy about going to sex shows in Patpong. How they laughed watching the girls shoot things out of their pussies and the sex shows  

[stogie bear]

Thanks PigDogg...

I always assumed that the phrase "walk of shame" applied to the hotel scenario. I don't see how it can be applied to bars and bar areas that specifically cater to men walking in and out with prostitutes.

[PigDogg]

When I first heard the term it was refering to bringing a prostitute into a nice hotel such as the DisneyWorld Hilton. It's certainly used that way on the str8 boards.

But then some guys started using it re how some guys want to walk out of NEP alone a few minutes ahead of the ladyboy they just barfined.

Language is dynamic not static.

[Guest]

(ozzie @ Jan. 03 2007,15:20)

(mardhi @ Jan. 03 2007,16:45) As I say, its never really been about that specific walkway through Nana Plaza.

Well I have never read nanaplaza.com and I only ever heard people talk about the walk of shame in regards to walking out of Nana with a ladyboy so I would say the origin of term might be debatable . Given there are probably a lot more people around in and outside Nana seeing what you are doing than in the lobby of your hotel it made sense to me that this is what it meant.

Others may think about it differently but it seems many think the same as me when they hear term to make it equally as probable that this is the meaning. Nevertheless I no longer feel awkward when walking arm in arm with a stunning ladyboy either walking out of Nana or into my hotel.

I'm with you on this topic amigo. I guess it boils down to how we first heard the term used. I also don't read the forums mardhi referred to and the first few times I heard it, the person saying it was directly and specifically referring to exiting Nana Plaza.

Billy also makes an excellent point. When I am there, I am with a ladyboy close to 24/7, so if there is a walk of shame it is perpetual when I am there. I think it more as a walk of pride, because I am always proud to be in the company of a classy beautiful ladyboy.

As for going around town to malls, restuarants, etc, I've never been with a ladyboy who didn't show some discretion in how she dressed in those types of venues.
They dress the same, in my experience, as the stylish trendy GGs of a similar age.

[katoeylover]

Being in Hua Hin with Anna and Cindy 24/7 there is no shame, actually they get appreciative stares from farang and thai, and as billy says I am on holiday and don't give a flying fuck!!!

[divertwo]

...can't say I would be proud to be hiring a hooker or walking with a hooker. It doesn't bother me since that's the "norm" in most BKK places. I would be proud if it was a non-hooker, good looking LB....but the public doesn't know she is not a hooker, they assume the opposite. I know, I know....assuming makes an "ass" of "u" and "me" In fact, when I'm with my LB pharmacist friend, she says she is concerned/bothered about people's thoughts as "they all assume I'm a hooker with you, and I hate to be thought of like that"...........it's the old perception versus reality situation with the public. Given enough time, perception becomes reality in the minds of people It does bother me though when my friends(LB's) feel bad when walking with me. though I see no way to really change that

[rob69in]

Stand in ASDA's or TESCO's in the UK & look at the fat poorly made up abusive Hippo's with there screaming ferrel brats wondering up & down the ilse there. That would be a walk of shame if they were your bride. I just don't see that having a lovely on your arm is a shame deal, hooker or not. Being a hooker also does not make you sub human, ( Once again hang out in ASDA/TESCO to see sub humans ) too many people consider themselves above all this P4P, & most fail to recognise the real cost of there non "hooker" partener. Get married, you just lost 50%+ of your entire estate, & thats not paying for it?

Sorry folks the shame thing doesn't wash with me.

[Socrates999]

I have no shame, but the fact that I am a professional, working in BKK, in an industry that would highly frown on a LB relationship and that I see both my clients and co-workers EVERYWHERE requires me to be somewhat circumspect. A bit easier in PTY than BKK, but, even there, I am frequently surprised by co-workers (co-wankers?).

[Stewart]

Hey Stewart, bet you a beer you click the link?

Didn't need to.....my inbuilt bunfight detector sensed there was something interesting in the Fish Box today, so that was the first forum I looked at!

Even better than Smuttley and Lefty's political punch up with the rest of the world a couple of years back!

Sigh ...those were the days!

[dommy6]

Thanks for all the replies gents. Perhaps I should have given it a different titlle. I didnt want this thread to be about the walk of shame. But rather about the way LBs dress. Perhaps name some LBs who are smart dressers. And how you guys feel about them when dressed slutty. I suppose that is just a relation to the "walk of......whatever".

For the record I have no problems with escorting an working LB or GG. (there is I didnt say it). However I would feel uncomfortable escorting a girl with the slutty look. So it would be straight to the hotel.

This is another point I was trying to get at. If you barfined a girl would you wait till after she is dressed and to suggest going somewhere or suggest before she goes away and gets dressed and then be surprised with the slutty look.

i know a few of you are seasoned pros and expats and justy dont give a fuck. Thats fine. But Im still a semi newbie just finished treading water and on to the breath stroke rather than freestyle swimmers like some of you.

Im sure you some of you who dont give a fuck would be dissapointed if you organized afternoon tea at the oriental with a girl only to turn up in her S&M gear.

Thanks again guys.

[divertwo]

(rob69in @ Jan. 10 2007,04:08) Get married, you just lost 50%+ of your entire estate, & thats not paying for it?

Sorry folks the shame thing doesn't wash with me.

Och...sounds like the UK is a community property country ......like some of our states here in the USA.....fortunately it is a state by state law...not a national law..........I agree 100% though.....one pays one way or another ........symantics.....ALOHA