Not just the walk of shame

[dommy6]

Stogie made this comment in another forum when referring to a particular girl.

Also - she goes to work dressed like she's already pole dancing so if you are shy at the hotel reception then forget her!!!  

This something that has been on my mind for a while. Some guys have a difficulty with the walk of shame. But what about the walk of shame with a girl who after you barfine her she dresses like "she's already pole dancing "?

As for me, I am the type of guy who thinks if a girl has "got it" there is no need to flaunt it. People will know it anyway. Whether it is with regular girl or working girl I prefer they dress stylish and leave it all to the imagination. Even if it is a nice top and good jeans. I dont expect them to dress to the 9s.

This holds a real fear for me. For example if I like a girl and there is some chemistry I may want to go LT. This may mean perhaps going to dinner or elsewhere before heading off to my hotel. But it would put me off suggesting this as I may not like that way she dresses. Read provocatively. I tend to stay away from girls like that even when I see them in clubs or bars. It's just not me. I'm not the showy type. I prefer girls I am with to be admired for their good dress sense and attractiveness rather than how slutty she looks.

I have had little experience barfining from GO GOs but all that I have barfined have been ok dressers. So how do you guys feel about this? And since we had a discussion on how we dress, how are LBs dressing these days?

Also this can apply to the other end of the spectrum where some may dress like raggady Anne.

And just another silly question. Is out of order to ask a girl how she will dress or make a suggestion how you would like her too?

Finally I do like a perv and would never rule out going with a provocatively dressed girl and I don't always do what I say.

Regards.

[daveduke007]

I used to bother me out walking with a ladyboy but now I dont care what other people are thinking "fuck em"
This girl in the pic is at least 6ft 2ins and even her friend told her she looked like a professional hooker in a short skirt
I spent a long time with her on my last trip and I kinda got a kick out of what people might be thinking about us as we went out to the cinema and other places but even they must have loved her in her university uniform

Also me, BigTel, Billy69 and costassg did the walk of shame on soi7 in Pattaya with about 6 ladyboys in tow, now that was FUN

Dave...

[buttafly]

I don't care how they dress nor who see's me with ladyboys

I am happy.....if the jealous haters don't like who I am with, they can screw

[TopDog]

I have no problem being out with a LB if they dress reasonable but there's no way in hell you'll see me walking around Paragon Mall with Talisha in her hip high silver boots and black hot pants (which is one of her standard working uniforms). If any of you brave souls are willing to give it a try let me know and I'll pay your barfine, it would be worth the laughs.

[buttafly]

(TopDog @ Jan. 02 2007,23:44) there's no way in hell you'll see me walking around Paragon Mall with Talisha in her hip high silver boots and black hot pants

valid point

but Teresa, and indeed most girls, dress much more conservatively when going out in public places. truth be told the type of ladyboys I prefer can pass for females amongst almost all westerners so it's never a problem and again, even if it was fuck 'em

[Mai-Kee]

I love it when they dress real slutty in public!!!

[mac73]

Doing the walk of shame is no big thing for me, i dont give a flying fuck about what strangers think about me or who i am with. Let them think what they want.

I find there is a big difference in a lb's dress code for going to work and for just normal daytime, some of the looks you get coming out of Nana with your latest squeeze and them wearing their going 2 work clothes can be quite fun actually but have also been out shopping during the day and the ladies i have spent time doing that have always dressed down compared to their night time attire.

[TTChang]

truth be told the type of ladyboys I prefer can pass for females amongst almost all westerners so it's never a problem

Agreed buttafly - but are there any who pass for females amongst the thais?  .... that is until they see the ID card !!     Even if their given name is changed to a female one, the LB ID card still says "Mr"

[katoeylover]

No problem for me either. I often take them away for a few days and we go out everywhere. who cares what strangers think?
Mostly they are probably jealous...

[buttafly]

(TTChang @ Jan. 03 2007,02:05) but are there any who pass for females amongst the thais?  

this is VERY rare from my experience and the girl has to be 100% passable of course, in every way.....sometimes old ladies or Thai people in general won't know it's a ladyboy till they talk, then to see the look on their face when they realize it's a kathoey is classic.

but for the most part the girl has got to be 1000000% passable for a local not to spot 'em

[dhz]

What other people of you to think is not your problem,  but it`s the problem of that  humans which so badly think of you.
It´s your life, it`s your decsion and not care about what other like to want from you.
The best way is to be honest about this theme to the people which surrounding you and than they can not criticize you.

[viking1960]

having gotten over my own guilt about my own sexuality, i have no problem with what other people think-and the LBs i've taken to my apartment were reasonably dressed.

[kahuna]

I enjoy being out with them in public places...restaurants, shopping , etc...
although I'm not really enamored with the sluttly look...
but then again, they don't tell me how to dress either...

[Guest]

Although I would usually prefer the girls dress a little more conservatively after I have bar fined I am not too concerned about it and in fact sometimes I love the downright slutty look. All depends on what I have in mind once we have left the bar.

[stogie bear]

I like Tee Tee a lot as a person and of course she looks great, but she'd be the first to tell you that she does NOT like going out shopping and eating fancy food, etc. What you see is what you get. A Barbie doll ladyboy who wants to fuck for cash! Getting her to dress down is gonna be next to impossible and would also make her extremely uncomfortable.

I feel no sense of shame in Thailand as what I do is transparent and bleedin' obvious and done without attracting much attention.

But the site of me groping Cindy in a pub on the Isle of Wight slurping on a pint of Guinness might present a different set of problems! The thing that grows on you living in Thailand is a spiritual freedom. It takes a while to shed your paranoia, but once it's gone then you really are free to do what you want and you'll never feel less about yourself.

If people want to think negatively about what you do then they are the losers really. I was over 40 before I had decent sex and I'm not giving that up now for a life in the grey gormless repressive states of The West!