Don't waste money on "long-time!"

[thaibound]

(Socrates999 @ Jan. 25 2007,10:37)

(thaibound @ Jan. 21 2007,16:33) holy fuck dude, she apologized to you too!!!  
why the hell would she apologize to you?  
you got to watch that luscious bod lean over that pool table for hours and it cost you nothing!    

Well, it was in the context of her trying to close a business arrangement, a bit late in the evening. I mentioned something about only liking LT, she said sure, I said "No thanks" and something about the night we went to Soi 8 bar. She kinda giggled and oopsed "Sollly".

Just business.

ah, i forgot you like 'em to sleep in even later than i do!
actually, i don't usually even like the overnight at all, she was just so damn cute the night b4 when i made the 'arrangement'!

i'm glad my OP finally helped someone as you avoided her 'promise' of a LT which would have left you in a similar bind to my own - although i'm sure you'd have been wiser with the bahts and avoided this extended post-war altogether!

still, hard to resist a girl who looks *that* good leaning over a pool table. unless ming the merciless is right next to her, of course, then you just do whatever ming tells you to do!

[Guest]

so much said about a test of character gone bad. we as whore mungers really have no conseption of the motivation to sell sex to strangers or to support a thai boy friend. but that said its not an original concept. this whole thing is between an un happy patron and the mammasan

[neil324]

You let her walk all over you which they will, you should have just gave her what you thought she had earned which was clearly a st rate.
End of problem then, but she might of moaned about it but so what shes got what she wanted and your left with the bad taste in your mouth as it stands now.

[bangkoksins]

a single ladyboy breaking a single promise

I was not going to post again but....

The above few words about the promise says it all.

You are going with a woman, LB etc for money. She is willing to sell you her body for a certain amount ,or for an exchange of goods.

Forget about promises.

Some guys will cheat the girls, some will reward them (in their own eyes) others will just pay for the transaction and be done.

In Europe a transaction such as this is much more straightforward for a Westerner to understand. Money, sex, that is it, or pay per minute (so to speak). Throw in any signs of affection, understanding, humour etc and some Westerners here in Thailand forget that it is money she is going for and not the charm.

I have been with countless LB's who did A, B and C, even X, Y and Z on occasions. I have been robbed (literally) so many times it is not funny.

Did I report it? Nope, cos each time even though I hate to admit it I was in the wrong.

Sure she should not have robbed me but I also should not have given her the chance to. My mistake and it took me a long time to understand this.

So remember the reason she is with you is she wants something from you. You might kid yourself into thinking that you are different, there is a connection etc - forget it.

This also goes for Mardhi (seems to get it, but maybe from some of his posts, might forget every now and again) and every other farang who has not got it yet.

If you still do not get it, read Stephen Leather's Private Dancer (which used to be free and still is if you know where to look).

[stogie bear]

(neil324 @ Jan. 27 2007,11:27) you should have just gave her what you thought she had earned which was clearly a st rate.

Like I always say... there's always two sides to the story and from what I understand they were together for several hours and NOT "clearly a short time rate!"

In fact this is where it becomes unclear! When does a short time become a long time? Just because the hours aern't at night doesn't mean that it's not a long time.

(Please don't write your ideas on that here as another thread has been started that covers this!)

[stogie bear]

In Europe a transaction such as this is much more straightforward for a Westerner to understand. Money, sex, that is it, or pay per minute (so to speak). Throw in any signs of affection, understanding, humour etc and some Westerners here in Thailand forget that it is money she is going for and not the charm.

Spot on. Well said.

Private Dancer is available free on this forum. Run a search for it if you are interested in downloading it.

[PigDogg]

(stogie bear @ Jan. 26 2007,22:10) Private Dancer is available free on this forum. Run a search for it if you are interested in downloading it.

Searching for:

private AND dancer

will make your life easier!

[Guest]

(PigDogg @ Jan. 28 2007,00:16)

(stogie bear @ Jan. 26 2007,22:10) Private Dancer is available free on this forum. Run a search for it if you are interested in downloading it.

Searching for:

private AND dancer

will make your life easier!    

Or check out Stogie's latest opus

[Guest]

Come on 3000 baht!! Her BF works in a boy bar! Thaibound I dont care how good lookin ... the little head got the best of you. Hope you chained up on the first two dips...

[stogie bear]

(lemarquis @ Jan. 28 2007,00:34) Or check out Stogie's latest opus

Sarcastic git!

[Road Runner]

(stogie bear @ Jan. 27 2007,22:01) Sarcastic git!

I thought he was trying to be nice to you!

RR.

[stogie bear]

Direct link to the PDF version of PRIVATE DANCER

The thread about Private Dancer...

The Stogie Bear 'opus!'

[Guest]

(stogie bear @ Jan. 28 2007,06:06) The Stogie Bear 'opus!'

A star is born