Don't waste money on "long-time!"

[Tomcat]

Hey Thaibound , what happened to that lovely girl in Obessions you were cuddling on Monday... you told me that you thought she was a keeper for sure....

anyway
When the boyfriend turns up at your Hotel in the morning like happened to me last week, then you got problems. The Hotel management had to restrain this raving lunatic as i stuffed his LB GF into a taxi and made out of BKK ( against my better judgement i might add). She said it was her big brother........

The thing we guys put up with for a shag eh!.....

[buttafly]

(Tomcat @ Jan. 06 2007,20:25) She said it was her big brother........

I know a punter who had a girl meet him at the airport.....she came with some goofy Thai dude, said it was her brother also

ya, right!!

[Socrates999]

Quick note- I had Nan from Guess bail early after an agreed to LT- I think she left about 0130. She started to tell me "Sister ... blah blah bullshit", but I told her to keep her mouth closed because I didn't want to hear any lies. Paid her my low-ball ST rate. Not a peep of complaint.

She's called me almost everyday since then!

[thaibound]

(Tomcat @ Jan. 06 2007,06:25) Hey Thaibound , what happened to that lovely girl in Obessions you were cuddling on Monday... you told me that you thought she was a keeper for sure....

i believe you are referring to the very lovely Sofa, #62 at obsession. i bought her a drink again tonight in fact as monkeyman and rob69 looked on.

and then i left with #53, naphoon, a blonde with a smoking little body. okay, i butterfly.

but sofa is a keeper and i highly recommend. looks as good naked and sweaty as she does dolled up in the bar. an excellent *shorttime* indeed. ; ) and after our brief chat tonight it seems she might be a delightfully willing longtime as well....

[thaibound]

(mardhi @ Jan. 06 2007,02:42) ...   This was probably fueled by her knowledge that maybe her BF (who works in a gay boy bar) stays overnight with customers and she 'assumed' it would be no different for her.     She probably had a rude awakening when he said, well no actually as a Thai man I do have double standards - you do as I say, not what do what I do.  Hence she probably felt obligated to go home to him.    Just sounds to me that you were in the difficult situation of being the guy who wanted to get his end away in the morning and stuck in the middle of a tif between them.      Hopefully the lesson will be learnt and you can assume that the following will likely happen:

1.  Fern no longer even attempts to go LT
2.  Her BF accepts it going forward (and there are loads that do)
3.  He says he is not comfortable with her working in a bar and she leaves.  

Again, I dont know any of this as fact, just guessing what is likely to have happended - incidentally I dont of any other girls who have BF's in Guess bar but I would not be surprised if others do - for sure Jane does not but thats the only one I know for sure.    

Ironically I believe Fern must have liked you a lot - she is normally very shy and I have never seen her approach a guy hence I asked Jay why is she so restrained and thus found out the answer that a) she is new to working in a bar and b) has a Thai BF she loves and is in the feel guilty stage (despite him doing whatever he wants by the sound of things).  

Cheers
Mardhi

the image of fern repeatedly intimate with a thai boyfriend who works in a gay boy bar somehow lessens my desire for her.

but maybe that's just me, since after all there are those who would see fern herself as doing (and being) pretty much the same thing.

although your thought that "she must like (me) a lot" does stir the imagination that upon my return to bangkok, she'll offer me a long-time at the short-time price to make up for it all. i confess, it was a bit of a bummer sleeping alone that night. with all the fresh breakfast snacks going to waste as well....

i forgot the other cardinal rule of thailand: "NEVER plan ahead"

[PigDogg]

(jhcal26 @ Jan. 05 2007,23:07)  I guess not everything associated with Guess is gold.  

So how does Guess Bar become go beyond gold and go platinum in this regard?

1) If a girls intention is not to stay all night she does not promise longtime.

2) If she is not hitting it off with the guy or if she gets a call from a prime customer she says, "I sick, I go, I sorry.  You no pay or you pay just little bit."


Some might say whatever happens outside the bar is not the bar's business. But what I'm talking about is how can a bar go above and beyond the call of duty to put the customer first. To me it's just an extension of don't steal from a customer.

[SamplerDoc]

TB,
Good read here. I even read everyword

[Guest]

Well Fern was very very apologetic tonight , hang on i didnt barfine her it was thaibound ,, but lord i felt like it was me the amount she apologised .

She knows it was a bad move on her part , from what i can gather , but at the time she probably didnt see it like that and was thought she had earnt the right to misled and take whatever money she could get .

Still never had a girl apologise so much to me , even tho she did nothing wrong by me at all , i just kept saying next time be honest ok , customer not care if you have to go before morning , but customer not happy if you lie to them about not having to go .

[stogie bear]

Wow... The internet again comes to the rescue!

[moe666]

Last year doing a little walk around by Nana Thai Mansion the lovely Eye comes out.
I ask her whats up and she say going home. Well one thing leads to another and she is in my room with her ass up in the air and I am greasing her up for the old heave hoe.
It was fun but she was honest from the start, I cannot stay long time only short time.
It was ok by me because after a bit she seemed a bit weird, but nice.

[vangough05]

Its all good in realtiy. Seems like Jay has this place ticking over very very nicely. My self I can't fucking wait untill I get to Guess and check this great place out for myself. I would say maybe Jay has had a quite word to Fern and all will be well in the future. Full marks to these girls for their efforts I say. I am sure Fern will now be more up front in any further dealings

[Tomcat]

(stogie bear @ Jan. 06 2007,16:14) it's not unusual for this to happen.

Stogies spot on. eventually everybody gets problems due to the law of averages... the ladyboys are not sex automatons but also have networks of friends and social lives outside the bars and from time to time it will spill over. You were just unlucky to roll the wrong dice .

I would say that at around one in twenty of my encounters leave a bad aftertaste or something to brood on over breakfast and im pretty amenable.

Good luck anyway for the rest of your Holiday.

TC

[mister_smith]

ignore this

[mister_smith]

(thaibound @ Jan. 07 2007,02:51) the image of fern repeatedly intimate with a thai boyfriend who works in a gay boy bar somehow lessens my desire for her.

but maybe that's just me, since after all there are those who would see fern herself as doing (and being) pretty much the same thing.

although your thought that "she must like (me) a lot" does stir the imagination that upon my return to bangkok, she'll offer me a long-time at the short-time price to make up for it all. i confess, it was a bit of a bummer sleeping alone that night. with all the fresh breakfast snacks going to waste as well....

i forgot the other cardinal rule of thailand: "NEVER plan ahead"

wasn't there a thread on here a while back about some guy guy saying to a LB "do you feel like a woman?" to which LB replied "no i'm a guy guy" some LB are women in all but genatalia ans some are gay guys

as to fern really liking you well hmmm

[mister_smith]

(monkeyman @ Jan. 07 2007,04:19) Well Fern was very very apologetic tonight , hang on i didnt barfine her it was thaibound ,, but lord i felt like it was me the amount she  apologised .

She knows it was a bad move on her part , from what i can gather , but at the time she probably didnt see it like that and was thought she had earnt the right to misled and take whatever money she could get .

Still never had a girl apologise so much to me , even tho she did nothing wrong by me at all , i just kept saying next time be honest ok , customer not care if you have to go before morning , but customer not happy if you lie to them about not having to go .

And why do you suppose she was so apologetic ? Because she sincerely feels bad or because she knows Forums like these can have a dentrimental effect on her reputation , if she feels so bad give the 1000 bhat to Jay who can return it to Thaibound