Buying a girl from a bar, long-time

[bangkoksins]

I would advise anyone asking themselves the OP's question to read Stephen Leather's book - http://www.stephenleather.com/privatedancer.html

It was a free online e-book, but I see he has now printed it. So unless you can find someone (Google: private dancer .pdf) who still has the e-book you will need to buy or borrow the print version.

[moe666]

Are you sure you want a long term relationship with a Thai gg or Lb? Are you prepared to change the way you think and believe about relationships, sex, and love, because they will not change , up to you.
 As a Lao friend explained to me one day," you westen people use the word I love you to much, an asian will not tell their husband or wife I love you until they have established a long term comitment of support in the relationship."
 I support a Thai gg and her kids, my support lets her be more selective in her customer selection and she doesn't have to pedal herself as much. It gets me 100% of her time when I come to visit or as much as I want. We must have some LB action.
 So think about it, can you think like a thai an except some differences

[stogie bear]

(bangkoksins @ Dec. 18 2006,21:35) It was a free online e-book, but I see he has now printed it. So unless you can find someone (Google: private dancer .pdf) who still has the e-book you will need to buy or borrow the print version.

It is available free on this forum.

The search bottom is your friend!  

[thaibound]

(stogie bear @ Dec. 18 2006,03:21) Don't go with bar girls for a loving relationship. It simply won't work and if your the jealous type stay at home and jerk off! Thais don't see 'love' in the same way that you probably do.

but let's not think that *only* "thai bar girls" are likely to "love" your money instead of you.
not that a cool customer like myself could ever be fooled, but i did have "a friend" once who met this beautiful woman in l.a. and...well...thai bar girls have no monopoly on deception or breaking hearts.

truth be told i feel much safer with a beautiful thai bargirl/ladyboy who i know won't tell me she's pregnant, will never ask to move in with me and has no chance of convincing me i'm her first, her last or even her only. and talk about easy to end a relationship - just show her your wallet's empty. beats hell out of divorce papers!

[Guest]

(thaibound @ Dec. 19 2006,08:25)

(stogie bear @ Dec. 18 2006,03:21) Don't go with bar girls for a loving relationship. It simply won't work and if your the jealous type stay at home and jerk off! Thais don't see 'love' in the same way that you probably do.

but let's not think that *only* "thai bar girls" are likely to "love" your money instead of you.
not that a cool customer like myself could ever be fooled, but i did have "a friend" once who met this beautiful woman in l.a. and...well...thai bar girls have no monopoly on deception or breaking hearts.  

truth be told i feel much safer with a beautiful thai bargirl/ladyboy who i know won't tell me she's pregnant, will never ask to move in with me and has no chance of convincing me i'm her first, her last or even her only.  and talk about easy to end a relationship - just show her your wallet's empty.   beats hell out of divorce papers!

Very true but here we are talking about the "second worest sin", I guess. The same goes to another hot topic on "prices". ust because it's much cheaper than that in our home cities, does not mean it's not over priced than what we can get away with.
Be a smart tourist guys.

[Guest]

I had a feeling that the girls, bar girl or not, could have a true feeling for you. HOwever, there is a huge difference in the perceptions. I feel Thai almost feel entitled to get money from you only because your are "richer". Like the vendors on Patpong always tell you a couple of bahts is small money for you but big money for them.
The only reason to maintain a long term relationship is mutual love. And if the love is mutual, there is absolutely no reason for you to pay. She enjoy your company too! So why aren't she paying you! Having to pay to fuck is bad enough, now we have to pay to not fuck?
If you butterfly, you have 100% of everybody's time anyway (when you are there). Even if you have particular interest on a specific LB for long term, just visit her everytime you go there. That'll do the trick already. Why stuck yourself in a payment plan?

[stogie bear]

The only reason to maintain a long term relationship is mutual love.

Learn to 'love' like a Thai person (working or not) and you'll live long and prosper in the LOS.

[Guest]

(stogie bear @ Dec. 19 2006,11:07)

The only reason to maintain a long term relationship is mutual love.

Learn to 'love' like a Thai person (working or not) and you'll live long and prosper in the LOS.

For the less enlightened, Mr. Bear can you elaborate? Sounds like some great wisdom is there, what is the Thai person way of loving?