Sex 4 sex? no mentioning of $ ?

[Looker]

(donnnnnny @ Jul. 10 2006,16:07) My  statement i  dont believe  you can fcuk girls for nothing  and not get a bill later on. bull shit.
cheers   donnnnnny

It really all depends..
Having freebies from hookers? Well..as I said, got them for mercy and honestly not really looking forward others. Not interested simplistically speaking..what for?
I've had hookers and normal relationships for almost 30 years now and seriously loosing interest for mercenary sex. Just it doesn't work any longer for me, although I still try once in a while to "test" myself.
Lastly I did it in Kuala Lumpur with a very nice LB recommanded by Khun Chilli ..to Khun Chilli!
One thing is that we have to praise about Asia in general, it's that for western men (and locals too) the look department is not that essential when it comes to being attractive. At least, it's less important than in western countries.
Needless to say that hunks score well in certain environments like clubs, bars, disco, etc..and that happens allover the world, but the way how you treat a lady in this part of the world has more importance over the way you look.
We are also helped by the fact that far too many local guys do not make many efforts to treat their ladies nicely, probably being blessed by such aboundance of beauties ..and by cultural heritage..
I found that a part some "cancerogenous" girls that were born principally to suck money, among other things, most asian women are not looking for your financial support but it's true that many of them do like some fun in bars and fancy places and that comes a bit dearly, hence it does help if you seat on a thick wallet..but not essential.
Obviously, in countries were salaries fall at almost ridiculously low levels (Thailand, Philippines, Indonesia, etc.) you may occasionally feel the pressure of giving an helping hand..and there comes your trip to Western Union

[rob69in]

I think alot of guys have a problem with blatantly paying for sex with a provider, for whatever reason. They cannot make the connection between picking up the tab on everything with there girfriends to that meaning paying for there time & company, & more often than not, you just get that patronizing peck on the cheak at the end of the night, & the throw away one liner "thanks for a lovely time". She had a free night out, you had some female company, you paid & didn't get laid. Cheers easy! Its a scam.

Every bloke i know, less the flex crush, hung, pretty boys, are sick to death of the lack of sex & picking up the tab 90% of the time. Very few women even offer to pay for anything. In fact i have heard women brag they went out friday & saturday night, paid for nothing & didn't have to open there legs! what sort of an attitude is that!?!

I cannot seperate paying for food, drinks, transit costs, nightclub entry, & all manner of other stuff, from simply dispensing with nonsense & paying for it,at least the end result is known. If this isn't paying for there time when its a date or girlfriend, then they get there hand in there pocket, see how long your date / girlfriend lasts then.

I find going to the LOS / Latin America far, far less stressful & a whole lot more varied & pleasurable sex than the date / girlfriend deal. I actually enjoy being out. I actually am enjoying taking them out, it also allows you to be more relaxed & comfortable, the whole situation is better.

I have never, in my entire miserable existance had a women pick up the tab on an entire night out. I rest my case.

[PANICOS]

Snezana pls do not make fun of it.at least we men the older we get and can still pay for our sex all the "'ladies'' LOVE US.
BUT if u get older u will find that nobody wants u even if u pay them.(when i say "You'' i dont mean u personally)

[Bit Beefy]

I have never, in my entire miserable existance had a women pick up the tab on an entire night out. I rest my case.

This i have to say happens all the time i openly tell women when im broke or saving or just being tite and there are actually a large number of women who will pay for an evening whether it be cinema, drinks a meal...How long they stick around for i have had good luck with aswell.... Its my personality

[Looker]

(Bit Beefy @ Jul. 11 2006,02:23) This i have to say happens all the time i openly tell women when im broke or saving or just being tite and there are actually a large number of women who will pay for an evening whether it be cinema, drinks a meal...How long they stick around for i have had good luck with aswell.... Its my personality  

Typically, when going out with g/f, she pays for the tow movie tickets (about 12 Euros) and I pay for the dinner (average about Euros 40) so..it's a 1 : 4 ratio more or less..but I get laid
..at least

[Guest]

You can get sex for free or next to nothing in Thailand.

With the ladies it helps if they are busy career executives and/or lumbered with the responsibility of looking after elderly parents, or single and live at home with a kid.

Lady boys it is easy once you are away from working LB areas, but even then if you play it right it works. I can think of one hotel I stay at regularly where there is a knock at the door at about 2am after a certain LB receptionist comes to visit after work. never asks for a thing

Believe it or not there are actually women out there who like sex, without financial motivation. I know it is hard to believe

[rob69in]

(Winston @ Jul. 11 2006,13:41) You can get sex for free or next to nothing in Thailand.  

With the ladies it helps if they are busy career executives and/or lumbered with the responsibility of looking after elderly parents, or single and live at home with a kid.  

Lady boys it is easy once you are away from working LB areas, but even then if you play it right it works.  I can think of one hotel I stay at regularly where there is a knock at the door at about 2am after a certain LB receptionist comes to visit after work. never asks for a thing

Believe it or not there are actually women out there who like sex, without financial motivation.  I know it is hard to believe

Not in a westernized country!

[rob69in]

(Bit Beefy @ Jul. 11 2006,02:23)

I have never, in my entire miserable existance had a women pick up the tab on an entire night out. I rest my case.

This i have to say happens all the time i openly tell women when im broke or saving or just being tite and there are actually a large number of women who will pay for an evening whether it be cinema, drinks a meal...How long they stick around for i have had good luck with aswell.... Its my personality  

You are probably what they are looking for in physical looks, so they are willing to get there hand in there pocket. You are the one they will go to for sex, while they are in a relationship, because after all women rarely get into long term relationships with the man they like to have sex with, just the best provider.

I would like to see compulsory DNA testing for all famillys with children in the UK, i think a few realities would hit home hard!

I was amazed at what lengths, & digging deep into there own pockets, women would go to, to get the "pretty boys" while I was in the army & out & about in a group of lads.

Unfortunately as i don't have the physique or looks i will only ever be viewed as a provider. Over the years some of my friends have learnt that they were merely providers & there wives were getting regualr sex else where. Despite the fact that they have been on there back with "flex crush" on a regular basis, they still get 50%+ on the split, what an excellent deal that is!!  

If you happen to fall into the pretty boy catagorey & not the provider catagorey your "free sex" ( I don't actually believe such a thing exists, theres always an invoice floating around somewhere ) oppurtunities will be numerous

[Guest]

I want to thank you guys , for all the replies and remarks my post got. Allthough I am a member of a different LB site, I like your forum better. People respond in a honest and direct manner, without really bashing each other. All the different points of view, make great reading.  That last post  about "providers" and "pretty boys" from rob69in   was also very interesting. And I certainly think that applies to a lot of relationships in the world.
I got a reasonably good job, but I do think I am more in the "pretty boy" category. In my line of work I interact with women a lot. They tell me  their stories and I listen when they talk amongst each other. And it is true, there are enough women who REALLY like having sex for sex ,but with goodlookin'dudes. Only the thing is, if they want to raise a family they need allso need somebody who gives them emotional and financial security (aka provider), this is often NOT the pretty boy. So if they can get away with it, they will try to have both in the end....   (and you thought men were scum eh?)

[rob69in]

Matt,

i am 99.99% certain i will be single to my grave, I don't have any yearning for kids what so ever, i have virtually stopped comunicating with "eligble" western women, unless forced to do so thru' politeness or work, I certainly do not seek there company socially either. My eyes have been opened wide thru' years of travel around a great deal of this planet & observing numerous relationships of work colleagues & friends alike in that time. My opinions have been formed thru' real life experience.

If my engineering mentor of many years ago were still alive, ( he might be, but he would be about 100 ), i would look him up, shake his hand & thank him whole heartedly. As I left his guiding hand on completion of my apprentceship, he said something like this, "If you have only learnt 2 things from me in our time together, Never, ever get married & all women are prostitutes its just the currencey that varies." At the time i thought they were very harsh words, but after nearly 30years, I consider it to be one of best bits of advice i have ever received!

[Guest]

 

[mickey_o]

I agree with Rob69, we always pay one way or the other. Free is in the idea of no barfine, though drinks, dinner & clubbing; it all adds up...

Cheers to all,

Mickey

[Guest]

Here in Europe when I date a GG, I don´t  even call it freebies, when the girls wants sex, without anything in return.
It would be like they are doing us a favor by sleeping with them, while we all know it´s the other way around! Just think about it guys , 70% of the positions they are either of their back or on their stomachs, and we are doing all the work! (I don´t mind that much, but hey..) To quote Eddy Murphy in one of his one man shows, if women think about sex during his show ....`There is NO woman in here, who wouldn´t be rather laying somewhere , with a nice STIFF one in them, I am not THAT  funny´!
Fuck it! The next ladyboy I am with, the price will be 6000k ST! (she will be paying ME ofcourse)  

[Guest]

free in London free in Malaysia... but it depends upon your attitude and their mood...i did learn following an incident with a thai girl in Hong Kong a tough lesson...

you don't pay for the sex, you pay them to leave!

i know a bit cruel and it certainly did not apply to the two ladyboys i slept with FOC. In both cases we hit it off and their company was great.

[donnnnnny]

Agree with rob they all sell to the highest bidder , i also don't believe women really want sex for sex  sake. i know men do. if this was the case(women wanting sex for sex sake) then why are most hookers women??) answer men will pay for sex  women use sex to get what the want. what do women want?? security  and in most cases children. and they dont give a flying fuck how they get it as long as they do.
now i know ill get , a  roasting lmao
Women allways talk like they want sex and are reallly horny. pigs asss. most women are dead roots(fucks)the  program sex in the city  absolute bollocks  women pretending to fuck around  give me a break.
long live ladyboy world great sex by men who look better than most women. 
to hell with fucking women with big asses and tight purses.cheers to fucking hot wild sexy ladyboys be they brazillian argentinian italian or thai.mmmmmmmmmmmmm