Sex 4 sex? no mentioning of $ ?

[Bit Beefy]

its very unpleasant for guys to sit and wait for thier girlfriend to treat them and spend thier money for thier boyfriend......

I mean come on lol what is this... This is precisley why i dont have a girlfriend... What happened to give and take if i earn £1000 a week and so do you as my wife or girlfriend why shud i spend half of mine on yours while yours sits and earns interest.. Not a question for you to answer Snejana just putting it out there... Im all for treating ladies and taking them out but as u said Give Give Give from us Guys... Am i a tite ass? lol

[Bit Beefy]

(Randyman @ Jul. 10 2006,03:56)

(Bit Beefy @ Jul. 09 2006,10:32) As for Hollywood good looks dont believe the vicious rumours sir lol    i am bald, fat and ugly just like the rest of you      

What? Bald? you Beefy?

 by the looks of your pic, you've got the "Rick James jerry curl" going...
                                 
 RM

i use soul glow

[nemrod]

(Trocadero @ Jul. 09 2006,17:05) Ooops, I meant to offer up some guesses on the OP's question. Probably one or more of these girls expected you to broach the subject of additional remuneration for services rendered, failing that they might have assumed that you might offer compensation, (by slipping baht into her handbag). Since you did neither, these girls chose not to create a conflict where one or both of you might lose face. Additionally, one or more of these girls might have expected to see you again in the future; asking for money now might have put you off from wanting to see them again in the future, and left you with the impression that they are not good girls.

Maybe sometimes it could be so but I think it's a very risky way doing this.I think that at least of one of the chicks she wants really something more than money.Well,anyway,I enjoyed it a lot and it was very cheap .You can think of me that I am son of bitch ,but a happy son of a bitch

[dummy_plug]

(Randyman @ Jul. 09 2006,21:56)

(Bit Beefy @ Jul. 09 2006,10:32) As for Hollywood good looks dont believe the vicious rumours sir lol    i am bald, fat and ugly just like the rest of you      

What? Bald? you Beefy?

 by the looks of your pic, you've got the "Rick James jerry curl" going...
                                 
 RM

Noooooooo, I'm Rick James, bitch!

Hopefully someone got that...besides you Relpax.

[dummy_plug]

In my opinion, I sincerely doubt that freebies, in the sense of the word, will occur with professionals in the game. After all, sex is their job and sole source of making a living. Whoever said that they probably have Thai boyfriends who shag their brains out every other day is probably right, so the draw of hot wild steamy sex - something they do maybe 4 to 5 times a night, probably isn't all that appealing. There's probably a dozen reasons why they may not ask for money, some of them may not make sense to you or me (and most won't) because for one Thais have a funny way of thinking, and two, Thai ladyboys have an even funnier way of thinking.

That said, as Looker and some other guys pointed, there's a ton of girls and LBs walking around who aren't in the sex trade who will probably sleep with you without a set form of payment, but again I highly doubt its because you're just so goddamn good-looking that they couldn't resist!

[Guest]

Like I said b4 , I don't think my looks alone, were the deal closer...Even though they are working girls, none of them like to be treated as (just) a prostitute (who would? ). But when you treat the girls like the "ladies" ,most of them aspire to be, this will not only ensure quality of sex that night, but it will also gives u an edge during future visits. And who knows? if ure lucky enough a freebie.....  

On tips how NOT to treat the girls, check out that ugly guy with the wig from "ladyboyguide", he really disgusts me...  

[Randyman]

(Matt @ Jul. 09 2006,18:41)  On tips how NOT to treat the girls, check out that ugly guy with the wig from "ladyboyguide", he really disgusts me...  

uhh no thanks I'd rather not

randyman

[Looker]

(dummy_plug @ Jul. 10 2006,05:00) That said, as Looker and some other guys pointed, there's a ton of girls and LBs walking around who aren't in the sex trade who will probably sleep with you without a set form of payment, but again I highly doubt its because you're just so goddamn good-looking that they couldn't resist!  

As I said..that happened to me ONLY when the biz Girls or LBs had mercy on me
I remember once I was standing at the gas station at the crossroad of Sukh with Nana and it was around 1:30 AM
Nana's gates went open and tons of GGs and LBs flooded the area.
At least 50% of all LBs from the well known bars who passed by me were smiling and asking if I wanted to take them..alone or with her friend..probably a good chance since you can skip the barfine
In particular, one of them stopped by and asking me if I wanted to go with her, so I replied: For free?... and she said of course NOT
Then I shoot back: Do I look like someone who needs to pay for a girl??
She replied..You are cheap..and left quite annoyed!!
THAT WAS FUN!!!

[donnnnnny]

matt happens often to me. ill be 50 this year still pretty fit and reasonable looking. no fuck it im handsome and hung still. had bee declaring undying love for me last trip along with may and a few others
.26 years in asia has taught me alot. Ist i have had the so called free sex exeriance alot , I dont want free sexy or no money involved. Why you ask?? well ill tell you why. if you have a hooker with you and get a"freeby' you are then obligated to her. there is no such thing as a freeby, there is always a price to pay.
Looks count for fuck , what counts is personality.
dont agree with you sb 98% of thai ladyboys have boyfriends in the back ground somewhere

[Bit Beefy]

Looks count for fuck , what counts is personality.

[dummy_plug]

(donnnnnny @ Jul. 10 2006,11:49) dont agree with you sb  98% of thai ladyboys have boyfriends in the back ground somewhere

Do you mean ladyboys as a population, or the ladyboys that work in the bars?

I'm just going to take a wild guess that the same proportion of ladyboys with boyfriends probably mirrors that of the Thai population in general. Sure, its inevitable some will be in relationships, but not all of them will be - just keep that in mind. And even if they have a boyfriend what does it matter? You still get the fucky fucky and you're still paying the baht. I never understood why that was an issue unless you're trying to make an honest woman out of a bar girl. And if that's the intention, then you've got bigger problems to worry about!

[rob69in]

If you have a certian look & a certain physique & a reasonble size cock, you will always be popular. The manner in which you treat your partener does count of course, but initial attraction is always physical, if you are not physically attractive to the person you desire, you are on an uphill struggle regardless.

I was in the daft & barmy ( army ) for 23 years & always went out with varying groups of lads, but certain types seem to naturally attract the chix, & lots of them. Most you could stereo type. Athletic, tall, pretty boy looks, dressed well, ( read, his clothes fit ) & reasonbly hung. I was also athletic & well dressed in those days but the vast majority of western women were just not interested, i was not the only one by far!

Now i don't really bother, because for all those years i did, i got virtually nothing, except an empty wallet from feeloaders who rarely opened there legs at the end of the night. If you are totally honest with yourselves thats why you are taking them out,... sex!

Since not bothering, I dress in comfortable clothes, rather than "designer" clothes, have simple inexpensive aftershave, I try to keep myself clean & repectable when taking out LBs / TS / GG's & have had more "free" sessions. But still picking up the tab on drinks, food, night clubs & transport.

I think if you strike it right, & you bump into someone who is out on a "fun" night, in a more liberated country than most western ones then you will end up in the sack, without receiving an invoice in the morning.

[Guest]

(donnnnnny @ Jul. 10 2006,12:49) Why  you ask?? well ill tell you why. if you have a hooker with you and get a"freeby' you are then obligated to her. there is no such thing as a freeby, there is always a price to pay.

dont agree with you sb  98% of thai ladyboys have boyfriends in the back ground somewhere

I understrand what you mean , but hey..you are only obligated , when you feel obligated...meaning you, and you alone decide on your behaviour b4 and after a freebie... and I feel obligated to no "hookers"

And that last Quote was not me donnnnnny......and I don´t agree with that one either

[donnnnnny]

(dummy_plug @ Jul. 10 2006,13:26)

(donnnnnny @ Jul. 10 2006,11:49) dont agree with you sb  98% of thai ladyboys have boyfriends in the back ground somewhere

Do you mean ladyboys as a population, or the ladyboys that work in the bars?

I'm just going to take a wild guess that the same proportion of ladyboys with boyfriends probably mirrors that of the Thai population in general. Sure, its inevitable some will be in relationships, but not all of them will be - just keep that in mind. And even if they have a boyfriend what does it matter? You still get the fucky fucky and you're still paying the baht. I never understood why that was an issue unless you're trying to make an honest woman out of a bar girl. And if that's the intention, then you've got bigger problems to worry about!  

nnnny flash

[donnnnnny]

what i wanted to say above was
i dont give a flying fuck if a girl ladyboy im paying for has a boyfriend. i care nothing about it. My statement reguarding ladyboys having boyfriends. one's i have had pesonal contact with. i tell it like it is. most of the ones i know have boyfriends in the back ground.
rob is correct if you go out with a hooker in thailand and treat her nicely you will inevitably have a good time. you will as we all do get offered freebys. but if you accepot a freeby watch out as you are now obligated to the person and she will want a pay off
i dont believe you can fcuk girls for nothing and not get a bill later on. bull shit.
cheers donnnnnny