Paying for it?

[Guest]

Hi All,

OK, I am not from the religious right, I carry no moral standards that I would inflict upon anyone else and I am not some tight ass that doesnt want to pay. That said.....
I have no problem in the fact that I like ladyboys, they make me horny as hell and if I had to pay every time I logged on to asiants, I would be whoring myself out. But I do have a personal problem with prostitution (thank god its illegal in LOS and the police stamp it out wherever it occurs!!!!). Im not sure if it is the moral side where I am using someone who has reached pretty much rock bottom (no pun intended) or if it is the ego factor in that I am not so sad/fat/ugly/repugnant that I ahve to pay someone to fuck me.

Anyone else have an issue with it? Or can some of you persuade me that it is fine so I can empty my sack??!?!?!?
thanks.

[stogie bear]

Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world.

In Thailand it is illegal, but thankfully it is also endemic, un-policed and an accepted part of the rich culture that makes up Thailand. Everyone is either buying it or selling it so a minute amount of foreigners that show up don't really cause much of a stir!

I don't see any moral issues with prostitution. The girls (and boys) have what you want and you have what they want. It is a friendly and amicable exchange of good(ie)s!

When you are paying a bargirl you are improving the lives of many many people. Almost all of these girls support families in far off places around Thailand (and sometimes beyond!)

If you think that paying for sex is an expensive hobby then try marriage and kids, or even a girlfriend. The stress and costs of these things are far in excess of anything I want as a part of my daily life!

Having said that - I can't seem to lose 'The Shadow' no matter how hard I try!

We all pay for sex in one way or another. Cold cash seems to offend some people but to me it is the most straightforward and honest way to get some of that ladyboy ass!

Create your own set of moral standards and don't let some misguided mythical Victorian nonsense govern your life. Religeous people are a stain on society and should be spat on if seen.

[Guest]

There are two ways to look at this. the moral (right) which you have already mentioned. the other is you pay for it anyway you turn. if you hire a legal girl you pay for a service she renders      and she makes money and you get relief. you go your way with no worries.

on the other hand you get a girl friend/spouse you pay her bills (housing, food, clothing etc...) and you get relief   when she feels like it. You still have to put up with her mood/ emotional swings.  

In the end you pay either way. it comes down to what you want to deal with on a daily basis.  blow your wad and go home with no cares or blow your wad and get told to take out the trash/ mow the lawn etc....


It is you choice.

[allstar88]

what!!!!you chaps pay for sex????shame on you all          

[Randyman]

(allstar88 @ Jun. 27 2006,16:10) what!!!!you chaps pay for sex????shame on you all          

the real trick is getting the girls to pay me

randyman

[Road Runner]

(Randyman @ Jun. 27 2006,21:36) the real trick is getting the girls to pay me

Best offer I ever got was 50 Baht short time - but I had to pay my own bar fine

RR.

[SamplerDoc]

(Road Runner @ Jun. 28 2006,03:53)

(Randyman @ Jun. 27 2006,21:36) the real trick is getting the girls to pay me

Best offer I ever got was 50 Baht short time  -  but I had to pay my own bar fine  

RR.

I was going to just comment on SB having the correct economic theory but you guys are way to funny

[SamplerDoc]

Btw.... You are not paying them for sex but rather to leave at the end minus any drama.

[Snick]

I don't pay girls to sleep with me, I pay girls to leave in the morning
--Charley Sheen

[Guest]

I feel they should pay me - give them so much pleasure.

If you are paying more than 300 bhat for a fuck, you are paying more in thailand relative to the average income of the country than you are in your own country.

[Guest]

What rubbish. You can't FIND pretty Asian ladyboys where I come from so that comment is a fucking inane stupid one.

[Guest]

For me it comes down to one sole factor. Choice!

Does she choose to be there and or is she being forced into this situation? If I feel she has no choice or is being controlled by outside factors I don't partake.

It does make me angry when the religious zealots come down on Western males paying for sex in Thailand......blah, blah
when I know the reality on the ground is quite different. As many of you would know if you have visited any brothels or massage places except Nana Plaza (where Thais don't go because it is low class) the majority of males visiting these places are in fact Asian. I have trouble sometimes even seeing other non-asian males. So as a percentage of total males paying for sex we don't come up on the radar except if you go exclusively to nana where there the large majority of punters are western.

So back to your orginial question " To pay or not to pay?"

Pay when she makes the choice and don't pay when she doesn't have a choice.

Then everyone is happy and there is no exploitation........

[Snick]

(newcomer @ Jun. 28 2006,08:56) ...if you go exclusively to nana where there the large majority of punters are western.

You should say non-Thai.

There are often more Japanese than Westerners in Nana clubs.

[post-op lover]

What, they take your money and have sex with you?! I thought we just gave them money to like us.

No wonder the escorts always say they had a good time after dinner. Crap. I was so stupid.

[Guest]

(testicular @ Jun. 28 2006,08:36)  What rubbish. You can't FIND pretty Asian ladyboys where I come from so that comment is a fucking inane stupid one.

Your government should encourage immigration, we got plenty here