Ladyboy relationships

[Guest]

I have literally slept with about 350 LBs the last 4 years

still waiting for clarification about this, Zig

4 years is about 1400+ days

that is a new, different ladyboy every FOUR days for 4 years!

amazing; besides having a huge ,

I imagine it would also be very tiresome having sex with all these girls as well

but how does it effect the finance$$$$?

[post-op lover]

350 must be damn near everyone. At least all the bargirls and all the other lookers, no??? It would certainly blow through all the LBs of California's major cities - SD, LA, SF, and Sacramento. Or at least a huge portion of those on Eros, at 7969, and Divas.

Then again, JD, you're up around a hundred or two, right?

[Guest]

with ladyboys I would guess maybe 100 different ones and 50 or so ladies also?  but that took me 5 or 6 years to work on, I could never do 350 in 4;  I think it would give me a massive headache keeping track of who was coming and going and too much of a drain on my finances which I couldn't, errr, swallow.

 I don't think Zig will be seeing these replies in any case; if I remember right he was heading off to Issan with his new squeeze for a while [number 351?] and probably won't be checking the forums.  I know I wouldn't be!

[Guest]

just a thought on the topic.

do NOT fall in love with a tourist attraction

[Guest]

I'd hate to think of thai ladyboys as simply a "tourist attraction " !! They are far more significant than that mandy ! I'm sure as a sydney t girl you would not wished to be describe simply as an attraction for the tourists like some sick/obsecure circus act !!!!!

We all appreciate that life is hard for tgirls of any country and if they were given alittle more dignity and the freedom to work regular jobs then lots of these very talented people would not be victims !

I just wish it would be easier to have a loving, stable, "normal" relationship with a tgirl I could love infinately and sincerely !!!!

Inde

[Road Runner]

I'd hate to think of thai ladyboys as simply a "tourist attraction " !!  They are far more significant than that mandy ! I'm sure as a sydney t girl you would not wished to be describe simply as an attraction for the tourists like some sick/obsecure circus act !!!!!

We all appreciate that life is hard for tgirls of any country and if they were given alittle more dignity and the freedom to work regular jobs then lots of these very talented people would not be victims !

I just wish it would be easier to have a loving, stable, "normal" relationship with a tgirl I could love infinately and sincerely !!!!

Inde

Hello Indie,

A good post.

I have lost count of the times I have had to 'pick up the pieces' when some thoughtless berk has said something hurtful to herself.  

Luckily she has a strong personality  -  she needs it to put up with me       - but I still have enough sense to tell when the comments really hurt her  

RR.

[Guest]

yes i understand but these girls are top shelf they are worshiped by many pick a good girl and you will not get hurt.
why do most tourist go too patpong because you and me are sex tourists and pay for there services i no many of these girls.
sorry to be so blunt but it is reality i no a lot of these girls do have a heart to and are looking for the right one,i mean full time sponsor but how many times do you think they get hurt by false promises.
i tell the girls i see i never make promises as i hate to break them they understand,and i tell them all i can do is see them each trip.
so as a sex tourist searching for a nice girl for sex i would classify them as tourist attractions.

i will get my coat

[Tomcat]

I think Inde knows the score with working girls, hes been around the block, its just that he dont like the tourist attraction label. Like myself he is not exactly a bleeding heart but is giving respect in the right place as he is not talking about a Goldfish he just won on the rifle range from his point in this particular story.

He has humbled himself which is not easy to do i front of the guys here. your opinion is as valid as his but you have to understand his position.

Perhaps he should have gone for Bronze instead of Gold or not tried at all but i just keep thinking that if people didnt have ambition we would all still be living in caves rubbing flints .



TC

[Guest]

i no a lot of these girls do have a heart to and are looking for the right one,i mean full time sponsor but how many times do you think they get hurt by false promises.

for every one ladyboy hurt by a false promise, there is equally one sucker falang played like a fiddle and hurt just as badly

[Road Runner]

for every one ladyboy hurt by a false promise, there is equally one sucker falang played like a fiddle and hurt just as badly

I'd say it was more like for every ladyboy hurt there are two or three falangs played like fiddles.

Most of the girls are basically honest - but they are also poor!   If you were in the same situation you might think twice but my bet is you would still grab what you could get away with.

Despite how the above will read I still have great respect for these girls. They ply a business that must be demeaning at times with amazing grace and dignity.

My two penneth

RR.

[Guest]

i no a lot of these girls do have a heart to and are looking for the right one,i mean full time sponsor but how many times do you think they get hurt by false promises.

for every one ladyboy hurt by a false promise, there is equally one sucker falang played like a fiddle and hurt just as badly

could not agree more jaidee money is number one for these girls and they will try every trick in the book to extract it from you,and good luck to them it is there job.
i think there is a lot of very wise guys on this site who no the score and once the girls no you no the score they treat you differently and open up and you no longer become a customer but a friend then you will see the good side of the girls.

[stogie bear]

Most of the girls are basically honest - but they are also poor!   If you were in the same situation you might think twice but my bet is you would still grab what you could get away with.

Despite how the above will read I still have great respect for these girls. They ply a business that must be demeaning at times with amazing grace and dignity.

Wise words...

[Guest]

 

 very well-put, Mandy...... without patting myself on the back TOO much I believe I am one of these guys now; when the girls see me they know better than to look at me as a sucker and would never even try to lay that sick water buffalo routine on me. They respect me and tell their friends so when I walk into their bars I am left alone and I like that.

  On the other hand I have no problems with the girls conning these people for every dime they can get, as long as they are not members here!  seriously......if some sap from the states or england or Aus is prepared to shower these people with money and gifts I wish them all the power in the world.  It just won't be coming from me.

[Looker]

I'd hate to think of thai ladyboys as simply a "tourist attraction " !!  They are far more significant than that mandy ! I'm sure as a sydney t girl you would not wished to be describe simply as an attraction for the tourists like some sick/obsecure circus act !!!!!

We all appreciate that life is hard for tgirls of any country and if they were given alittle more dignity and the freedom to work regular jobs then lots of these very talented people would not be victims !

I just wish it would be easier to have a loving, stable, "normal" relationship with a tgirl I could love infinately and sincerely !!!!

Inde





   

Hmm..are you living in BKK Inde?
Because if you do, then you should well know that the city hosts hundreds of ladyboys who has normal jobs and normal lives and are respected in the society like everyone else.
In fact, by talking with Thai friends and business partners, I've the perceptions that gays are considered worst than lb's. However, Thai society it's very tolerant. Have you ever seen lb's working in government offices in the US or Europe? Well..in Thailand there are!

Anyway...honestly, I am a bit amazed to see how many of you guys in here feel disappointed after having dated, or least tried to, a club girl..geez guys..grow up for Chrissake! You are dating a club girl and expect a serious outcome?
Although I may agree that the lovegame it's hard with any partner you meet, no matter from what background they are, surely with clubgirls it's HARDER

[Tomcat]

the city hosts hundreds of ladyboys who has normal jobs and normal lives and are respected in the society

Probably thousands i would think. I agree that reading here one will get the impression that all Ladyboys are Prostitutes unless you dig deeper. According to Sam Winters(ou) reseach only a small number of LBs are prostitutes.

On the matter of discimination that is more complex according to Winter. He says that indeed Thai Ladyboys are respected and as you say have normal jobs but respected and liked are not the same thing. Some people are even jealous of them.

I was looking for some info for Ziggylast week for his book and happened to come across this report.

Actually if you read Inde,s post he didnt have a full relationship as both side agreed it wouldnt work and sanity prevailed . To be honest i think most guys here know the score about working girls and the GFE experience of about 3 days in Pattaya or Phuket is as far as it gets.

money does help....
A least a two guys who post here have more than a few Million Dollars or pounds stashed away and that takes half the problems away before they start and also helps pay for the Prozac and counselling if/when it goes pear shaped.

Also not everyone dates Bar Girls........Its hard work of course finding them and theres the rub. I hope Brickie works at it and takes some strength from a famous Maths Prof. who always tells his students ...." the most successfull people i know used Plan B"



TC