Long term relationship

[Looker]

PLa
i was with jeje  for a few days on and off  in january. she told me the same stuff about the french bloke sending moeny and the american who is a ladyboy photographer(her boyfriend).
she is a fun babe who used to call me and come round after her cam was worn out  from  making $100  a day  .i stayed at her apartment a few times and watched her perform  for the cam . very interesting. shes a nice girl and ill see her  next week   for a few nights  fun.
latest news is that she  has finished with the yank? who knows  and who really cares?

She is in Samui with hime apparently. Pollar said they are doing business together
I'm talking about the Jeje who lives in Miami Mansion..not sure if she's the same one of yours.

[Guest]

PLa
i was with jeje for a few days on and off in january. she told me the same stuff about the french bloke sending moeny and the american who is a ladyboy photographer(her boyfriend).
she is a fun babe who used to call me and come round after her cam was worn out from making $100 a day .i stayed at her apartment a few times and watched her perform for the cam . very interesting. shes a nice girl and ill see her next week for a few nights fun.
latest news is that she has finished with the yank? who knows and who really cares?

[Mai-Kee]

RE: Brockie
That's bollocks, man! What's wrong with adopting children in a gay or LB relationship? I don't say that's easy, but it never is. I know 3 gay couples and 2 exmples of LB's who actually did it. One (post-op) adopted 3 children and they live the normal family life as everybody else. The other (pre-op) is living already in a 12 year relationship with her bf before they adopted a little girl of 2 years age. That's now 3 years ago and they're still a great family. Generalizations doesn't mean anything, especially not on such a special subject like relationships with LB's.

RE: Stogie
I absolutely agree! The question is also why the hell does it have to be a bargirl, if there are so many others around? I'm happy about khuntibis comments. A relationship that works out well with a non-working Tgirl. I know here in Amsterdam about 20 examples of totally fucked up relationships with bar- or ex-barTgirls (and about the same amount with Thai bar-gg's). Of course there are always exceptions - but it looks as that's the rule.

MK

MK

[Looker]

I know here in Amsterdam about 20 examples of totally fucked up relationships with bar- or ex-barTgirls (and about the same amount with Thai bar-gg's). Of course there are always exceptions - but it looks as that's the rule.

Old say: "You can bring a girl out of the club but you will never bring the club out of the girl"

[Guest]

I agree in general, but like everything in the world, there are exceptions. I can think of a few LBs posted on this site who I would definitely take the chance with as a girlfriend and trust them completely outside a bar. May and Pae are 2 I know very, very well, and in my opinion, they are solid people, and would not fuck you around in a girlfriend relationship. Just use your head like you'd do in a normal relationship and maybe take more time than you'd usually take to make a step, like 2-3 years (I know Pae 3 years). I think we're all saying working girls have big red lights on them, but a few are green, it's just very, very hard to know which are which as foreigners.

[jellybean]

.....I certainly do NOT see prostitutes as inferior people. I have a lot of respect and even admiration for many of them especially ladyboys who are really out on their own in this world......

I'm really glad to hear that    

As for the rest of what you're saying, to a point I agree with you, if you go looking for love with a working girl then for sure you'll find it or at least the illusion of it.

But what if you find it when you're not looking for it?

[gunslinger]

I'd say a lot of the guys in this forum are not in long term relationships, they take a lot of work from both sides..
                               Why anyone would make it harder by tossing distance, race,age, culture, money,religion and the fact that she is a transexual and a hooker and has another boyfriend into the ring is ,quite frankly, beyond belief.
                            "Oh but its different between me and.."
                             I'd give you 1 chance in 10, the other 9 evenly spread between the other 9 guys she's playing.

[daveduke007]

Quote (stogie bear @ Aug. 23 2005,07:32) ""and there are tens of thousands of genuinely loving (and lovable) ladyboys who will rock your world"" [b)

You WILL NOT find them working in bars.[/b] Agree or disagree... I'd be interested in any comments.[/QUOTE]   I found my love and could not be happier Your got yer Mother in a whirl Shes not sure if your a Boy or a Girl Comment Post Cancel Tomcat Legendary Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 5580 Share Tweet #39 08-24-2005, 03:08 AM What's wrong with adopting children in a gay or LB relationship I didnt even realize that Gay /LB adoption was legal in Thailand ?. I definately dont agree with it. Not natural. Kids should have a real mum or female adopter. You have to draw the line somewhere ! Political Correctness gone mad. Comment Post Cancel Guest Share Tweet #40 08-24-2005, 03:12 AM ive said it before and i will say it agin "why buy when you can just rent" Comment Post Cancel simon442 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 79 Share Tweet #41 08-24-2005, 04:55 AM What's wrong with adopting children in a gay or LB relationship I didnt even realize that Gay /LB adoption was legal in Thailand ?. I definitely dont agree with it. Not natural. Kids should have a real mum or female adopter. You have to draw the line somewhere ! Political Correctness gone mad. I used to think the same Tomcat, but having seen some of the neglect that children with 'natural' parents suffer, I have changed my mind. Having a pussy does not automatically make you a good parent. For a kid in care, I think the important thing is that they are loved and raised well by foster parents. Gay/LB are just as qualified to raise kids as anyone, in fact probably more so as they will have been vetted and interviewed before being allowed to adopt or foster. Much better than than some 20 year old Chavette who can't even remember the dads name and hasn't got the financial means or emotional maturity to raise a child. Comment Post Cancel Mai-Kee VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 2291 Share Tweet #42 08-24-2005, 05:19 AM well said!!! .... and regarding the examples I mentioned earlier - both of them live in Europe. MK http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEdXtf-GHvU Comment Post Cancel brocklanders VIP Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1186 Share Tweet #43 08-24-2005, 05:25 AM Ok, its one thing to have two gay men or two gay females as adoptive parents. Usually one of the parents will take a maternal or paternal role in the relationship.......BUT, having a ladyboy and a male raise a kid is just way to confusing for even the brightest of children. One of parents being a father and the other being of the third sex is so far out of bounds that it defies reasoning. Having a long term relationship with a ladyboy is one thing but dragging a child whom is not their natural child creates so many issues that it would take me a week to list them. Granted, love and caring has no boundaries but the child will be ridiculed for life and confused on multiple levels. brock landers Comment Post Cancel stogie bear Legendary Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 16165 Share Tweet #44 08-24-2005, 06:57 AM BUT, having a ladyboy and a male raise a kid is just way to confusing for even the brightest of children. I don't know about that. Times have changed and at least here in Thailand it would work fine. There are hundreds of thouseands of children being raised by grans and whose lives interact oiutside what we might think of as 'normal' parenting arrangements. Kui would make a good mother and a terrific role model for any child. Confusion from kids comes from what people do and inconsistancy in their lives, not from who people are. I'd be a bad parent. I'm not an example of how I would want kids to be in later life. Kui is the opposite. She is strong, patient, serene and responsible. Kids need one or two people to care about them and what they do. These days it doesn't matter what sex they are/were/want to be. Comment Post Cancel Tomcat Legendary Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 5580 Share Tweet #45 08-24-2005, 07:55 AM It might indeed work in Thailand as the culture is different but im probably thinking with my Euro head . I would not ever dream of kids having gay foster parents in the UK, the kids would get so much stick at school , especialy boys. Countries like Holland maybe ?, but then again the law of sexual consent there is 13 years Old and half the Population are smoking magic mushrooms........ TC Comment Post Cancel Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 template Next English (US) Deutsch (Du) English (US) French Spanish Help Contact Us Tgirl Asia Ladyboy World Shemale Center Tgirl Club Go to top Copyright ladyboy.reviews 2003 - 2024 Topic Pagination Dropdown Add-on by vBMods.rocks Powered by vBulletin® Version 5.7.5 Copyright © 2024 MH Sub I, LLC dba vBulletin. All rights reserved. All times are GMT. This page was generated at 08:45 AM. Working... Yes No OK OK Cancel X

[Tomcat]

What's wrong with adopting children in a gay or LB relationship

I didnt even realize that Gay /LB adoption was legal in Thailand ?.

I definately dont agree with it. Not natural. Kids should have a real mum or female adopter. You have to draw the line somewhere ! Political Correctness gone mad.

[Guest]

ive said it before and i will say it agin "why buy when you can just rent"

[simon442]

What's wrong with adopting children in a gay or LB relationship

I didnt even realize that Gay /LB adoption was legal in Thailand ?.

I definitely dont agree with it. Not natural. Kids should have a real mum or female adopter. You have to draw the line somewhere ! Political Correctness gone mad.

I used to think the same Tomcat, but having seen some of the neglect that children with 'natural' parents suffer, I have changed my mind. Having a pussy does not automatically make you a good parent.

For a kid in care, I think the important thing is that they are loved and raised well by foster parents. Gay/LB are just as qualified to raise kids as anyone, in fact probably more so as they will have been vetted and interviewed before being allowed to adopt or foster. Much better than than some 20 year old Chavette who can't even remember the dads name and hasn't got the financial means or emotional maturity to raise a child.

[Mai-Kee]

well said!!!
.... and regarding the examples I mentioned earlier - both of them live in Europe.

MK

[brocklanders]

Ok, its one thing to have two gay men or two gay females as adoptive parents. Usually one of the parents will take a maternal or paternal role in the relationship.......BUT, having a ladyboy and a male raise a kid is just way to confusing for even the brightest of children. One of parents being a father and the other being of the third sex is so far out of bounds that it defies reasoning. Having a long term relationship with a ladyboy is one thing but dragging a child whom is not their natural child creates so many issues that it would take me a week to list them. Granted, love and caring has no boundaries but the child will be ridiculed for life and confused on multiple levels.

[stogie bear]

BUT, having a ladyboy and a male raise a kid is just way to confusing for even the brightest of children.

I don't know about that. Times have changed and at least here in Thailand it would work fine.

There are hundreds of thouseands of children being raised by grans and whose lives interact oiutside what we might think of as 'normal' parenting arrangements.

Kui would make a good mother and a terrific role model for any child.

Confusion from kids comes from what people do and inconsistancy in their lives, not from who people are.

I'd be a bad parent. I'm not an example of how I would want kids to be in later life. Kui is the opposite. She is strong, patient, serene and responsible.

Kids need one or two people to care about them and what they do. These days it doesn't matter what sex they are/were/want to be.

[Tomcat]

It might indeed work in Thailand as the culture is different but im probably thinking with my Euro head . I would not ever dream of kids having gay foster parents in the UK, the kids would get so much stick at school , especialy boys.

Countries like Holland maybe ?, but then again the law of sexual consent there is 13 years Old and half the Population are smoking magic mushrooms........


TC