Being seen with a ladyboy

[gunslinger]

Hey JB, I heard you had gone long time with her, bet you wish you were still there mate, when's your next jaunt?

[jellybean]

Hey, Gunslinger, It was great meeting you, yep, I did a couple of ST's and then went looooooonnnnnnggggg time with her. and enjoyed every minute of it - fantastic girl,       I can't wait to get back but work means its probably be xmas before I can get the time off again.

[gunslinger]

Good stuff mate, I'll buy the ale at Xmas, I owe you a couple of cold ones.

[Guest]

How much did 24 days cost?

[jellybean]

GunSlinger - thats a deal, I'll PM you near the time once I have dates sorted.


Ziggy - In Obsessions BF tops out at 10K baht, pay that once and you never have to pay the BF again for that girl as long as she is working at that bar. As for what she got, sorry - that is between me and her.

[Guest]

I feel proud. I've been called a psychoanalyst.
Continuing my psychoanalysis, I'd say you don't really like receiving feedback very much. If you don't, don't post! Getting tough, brutal feedback, right or wrong (and there is no wrong) is good for the ego.

ziggystardust,

Yes, and as we all should know Sigmond Freud was the "father" of Psychoanalysis. He came to my mind when I read that you mentioned "ego". I'm sure you knew he discovered the concept of ego, along with the id and superego and, I'm thinking, you must follow that school in your analysis of others. Similarities beyond that? Freud is today regarded by the psychiatric community as not having much of a clue as to what he was talking about(A genius thinker who's mind was addled by cocaine abuse). And, having died in 1939, it is felt that his cerebral function is limited. He was an interesting study though.

As far as feedback is concerned, well, when you're ready to actually post something relevant to the question as I posted it, and not the way you've incorrectly interpreted it, I would appreciate it as I'm all ears. It can be as "tough and brutal" as you'd like, but if you consider anything thats been posted so far as tough and brutal you must live your life in Candyland. Fire away, but please try to address the issue and not something born in your own mind. That's a little too Freudian for me.

This is what i was commenting on with what you said, I am just trying to help you out here, if you have outbursts when angry, thats why i mentioned lumpini for you, its a great place to relieve stress and clear the mind.

oilbaron,

Thanks, but I never said I had "outbursts when angry". If you'd like to quote something I've said, great. Please quote me instead of embellishing. Outbursts when angry is a way to describe a child subject to tantrums.

I'm not subject to either outbursts or tantrums. You, I think, are refering to my statement that, "I lose it fairly easily when someone disrespects me..."

This simply means that I react relatively sooner than most in the same situation. Instability factor? No, whereas some may take a little "shit" from assholes before they react to it, I've decided that I don't like to take any shit at all. At one point in my life, I did do it to keep the piece.

I then had a epiphany. Why should I take shit from some asshole, who I never said a word to? I didn't start this. Someone threw the first "punch", so to speak, not me.

I don't suggest my way of dealing with things to be the preferred course of action for anyone but myself. It has cost me physically but I knew that was, and always is, possible. It was not the reason for my post, nor even detailed in it, but it has, for reasons beyond me, taken on a life of it's own and needed to be addressed.


And, saving the best for last(stogie, when you're done pumping out your chest in pride click HERE )

Anannymoose wrote:

Yes, I do tend to lose it fairly easily when someone disrespects me, or the person I'm with, for no reason

stogie bear wrote in response:

Is it just me or is that comment a bit creepy!

I'd be willing to bet that it's just you. If you find it odd that someone would do something when someone disrespects him or someone he's with, well, you should feel creepy.

If you are a big fella prone to violence if you don't get respect in da 'hood or some little fella disses yer missus then maybe you should stay indoors, mate.

Actually, I'm a "big fella" prone to self-respect, not violence. My attitude is, try to take away my self-respect and, well, they'll see what happens.

I do find it interesting that you use the term "some little fella" in your advice to me. As I never mentioned size other than describing myself, I can only surmise that you're trying to imply to other readers of the forum that I bully those that aren't of my size. You go ahead and do what ever you feel you need to do to gain allegiance but it surprises me that you'd need to do that seeing as how you say things like "respect in da' hood" and "disses yer missus".

Surely you must be friends with all the cool kids being as hip as you are. And regarding your advice, as you've mentioned in one of your previous posts in this thread that "you don't get out much".

Is this because YOU don't get respect in "da hood" and people "disses yer misses" and you don't, or won't(can't), do anything about it other than staying inside? Would you also suggest scampering down the Soi with my proverbial tail between my legs? Tell me, how well does this approach work?

Thailand is NOT the place to bring an attitude. You may win a couple of battles, but the Thais will win the war.

Christ! You don't read posts before you reply to them, do you?
In my first post I used the phrase "drunken hooligans" subconsciously, I guess, thinking that it would be understood that I was referring to falangs(Who the hell refers to Thai's as hooligans??).
In my second post I thought I'd remove any doubt and specifically said I was referring only to falangs.

Here you go bringing Thai's into the mix again. Are you thick-headed or is it something congenital? My God man, if you need help ask someone!

Allow me, if you will to offer you some advice. Even before my first trip to Thailand I, through reading, learned that the Thai were a proud, self-respecting, people who wouldn't take shit from anyone. I have the utmost in respect for that attitude. I've also learned, through first-hand experience, that they tend to bestow a lot of respect on those, yes, even falang, who maintain their own self-respect by the way they act and carry themselves.

It might take a little work but you should attempt it somehow. Intentionally, as you've said, sitting next to, and hugging your LB just to (I've assumed) get a rise out of some drunken assholes making snarky comments will not win you anyones respect. To the contrary.

You won't find the 'macho' types in Bangkok looking for a fight in Bangkok. You may finds a few ass-holes in Pattaya if you look hard enough for them.

This is something that is left to individual perception. I'm going to take this as a sincere observation but, I'm afraid to say, can't agree with you. While I certainly agree that there is, relatively speaking, more trouble in Pattaya than BKK you can't be serious when you say "you won't find 'macho' types in Bangkok". I've only been there four times but have seen the drunken assholes looking for trouble on 3 occasions. And YES, I'm talking about falang NOT Thai's.

It had nothing to do with me or LB's but they were still being assholes nonetheless and looking for a fight. Granted, it was in the "tourist areas designed for drinking" but I find it very hard to believe that in your almost 4 years there you can honestly say that you've never witnessed a problem. I can't be that unlucky.

[Guest]

You clearly have an attitude mate. Did you ever consider that if so many people are misinterpreting your original post that maybe you did not explain yourself clearly?

Are you trying to appear intellectual by talking about Freud? Is this the way you endear yourself to the members? Ask a question get a response, might not be what you want but accept it.

[BAM]

FULL BLAST ATTITUDE!

[Guest]

You clearly have an attitude mate. Did you ever consider that if so many people are misinterpreting your original post that maybe you did not explain yourself clearly?

Are you trying to appear intellectual by talking about Freud? Is this the way you endear yourself to the members? Ask a question get a response, might not be what you want but accept it.

You are fuckin' a right I have an attitude. I vividly remember being told that since the 7th grade. I am a non-conformist. Which means that as an American, unlike the rest of the world, I stand up for what I believe in. In this case, I stand up for myself. Does this info placate you?

I posted a sincere question in hopes of getting a sincere response because I wanted to gauge the potential for problems. Something that anyone of reasonable intelligence would understand. In addition to getting objective, and positive(helpful) responses from quite a few members(the majority) through posts or PM's, which I appreciate, I got responses, from a few, on the forum that made me out to be, wrongly, someone who was prone to "outbursts of violence" or looking for trouble with the Thai's, or looking to take on "little fellas". Did you call out anyone for misquoteing or misrepresenting me? Of course not. I'm not in the club. As far as you saying that I did "not explain myself clearly", well, I thought I cleared that up in my second post explaining that I was referring to falangs. Is there something else you're not clear on? Be specific as I can't read minds.

And no, I'm not trying to appear intellectual by talking about Freud but thank you for associating me, in your own convoluted way, of putting me in an intellectual group. My mention of Freud had to do with another member's response to my post, not yours. I don't believe he asked for your help.

It might, sadly, make you happy to know that I don't, by any means, consider myself an intellectual(thank you for the implication) but that I had to leave school at 16, minimum legal age in the US, to go to work to support the family because my father passed away. I worked my ass off. Should I allow you to make me feel bad because I'm familiar with Freud because I chose to apply myself and get an education while working full time? You're joking, right?

Did I ever consider that if so many people are misinterpreting my original post that maybe I did not explain myself clearly?
Besides your post, which has NOTHING to do with my original post, I've addressed 3 people so far who might've misunderstood my post. 3 people is hardly what I'd consider, "so many people" and, so far, I haven't noticed them asking you to come to their rescue.
By the way, I'm NOT looking to "endear myself to the members" by accepting a response that has nothing to go with my original question. Respond to my post and I'll consider it. Defending others before they respond is an insult to them. Give them the credit to respond on their own. You've done nothing but criticize me while offering nothing in return regarding my post. Get a life of your own instead of pathetically trying to help others without them asking.

[Guest]

Forgot to address this statement by ozzie:

Ask a question get a response, might not be what you want but accept it.

While listening to all opinions is virtuous, accepting what I don't want is a defeatist attitude. You might be willing to do this but I'm not. Maybe it's just your nature. I feel for you.

[Guest]

FULL BLAST ATTITUDE!

AND THEM SOME!

[Guest]

This is a totally non-productive thread. Why don't we just all end it here. It doesn't seem to be doing anyone any good, nor is it fun. I read the forums for amusement, jokes, info, or give advice. This is at the point where it is in none of those categories anymore and is only increasingly confrontational, the opposite of what a LB forum should be.

[smuttleydfs]

[Guest]

You clearly have an attitude mate. Did you ever consider that if so many people are misinterpreting your original post that maybe you did not explain yourself clearly?



Are you trying to appear intellectual by talking about Freud? Is this the way you endear yourself to the members? Ask a question get a response, might not be what you want but accept it.

You are fuckin' a right I have an attitude. I vividly remember being told that since the 7th grade. I am a non-conformist. Which means that as an American, unlike the rest of the world, I stand up for what I believe in. In this case, I stand up for myself. Does this info placate you?

I posted a sincere question in hopes of getting a sincere response because I wanted to gauge the potential for problems. Something that anyone of reasonable intelligence would understand. In addition to getting objective, and positive(helpful) responses from quite a few members(the majority) through posts or PM's, which I appreciate, I got responses, from a few, on the forum that made me out to be, wrongly, someone who was prone to "outbursts of violence" or looking for trouble with the Thai's, or looking to take on "little fellas". Did you call out anyone for misquoteing or misrepresenting me? Of course not. I'm not in the club. As far as you saying that I did "not explain myself clearly", well, I thought I cleared that up in my second post explaining that I was referring to falangs. Is there something else you're not clear on? Be specific as I can't read minds.

And no, I'm not trying to appear intellectual by talking about Freud but thank you for associating me, in your own convoluted way, of putting me in an intellectual group. My mention of Freud had to do with another member's response to my post, not yours. I don't believe he asked for your help.

It might, sadly, make you happy to know that I don't, by any means, consider myself an intellectual(thank you for the implication) but that I had to leave school at 16, minimum legal age in the US, to go to work to support the family because my father passed away. I worked my ass off. Should I allow you to make me feel bad because I'm familiar with Freud because I chose to apply myself and get an education while working full time? You're joking, right?

Did I ever consider that if so many people are misinterpreting my original post that maybe I did not explain myself clearly?
Besides your post, which has NOTHING to do with my original post, I've addressed 3 people so far who might've misunderstood my post. 3 people is hardly what I'd consider, "so many people" and, so far, I haven't noticed them asking you to come to their rescue.
By the way, I'm NOT looking to "endear myself to the members" by accepting a response that has nothing to go with my original question. Respond to my post and I'll consider it. Defending others before they respond is an insult to them. Give them the credit to respond on their own. You've done nothing but criticize me while offering nothing in return regarding my post. Get a life of your own instead of pathetically trying to help others without them asking.

aveduke007, ozzie, generouschap, Bam, Torurot, PigDogg,

I'd like to thank you for your insight and also for taking the time to provide helpful posts. It is appreciated and what I was looking for.

Seems you have changed your opinion somewhat

I posted a sincere question in hopes of getting a sincere response because I wanted to gauge the potential for problems. Something that anyone of reasonable intelligence would understand. In addition to getting objective, and positive(helpful) responses from quite a few members(the majority) through posts or PM's,

I used to be indecisive by now I am not so sure? Are you retracting your thanks for my "helpful post" because I said that it seems many people have misinterpreted your original post.

I thought I cleared that up in my second post explaining that I was referring to falangs. Is there something else you're not clear on? Be specific as I can't read minds.

Well given that my response seemed appropriate to you then clearly it was not I who did not understand your post but maybe some others or was it just their reposnses you did not like because they were not what your were looking for?

Which means that as an American, unlike the rest of the world, I stand up for what I believe in. In this case, I stand up for myself. Does this info placate you?

Oh here we go not another one who thinks the US is the centre of the universe and no other country in the world has anything to offer

I haven't noticed them asking you to come to their rescue.

I was not trying to rescue anyone just mearly stating an opinion.

ou've done nothing but criticize me while offering nothing in return regarding my post. Get a life of your own instead of pathetically trying to help others without them asking.

Another witty comeback. I do not seee how stating my own opinion is helping others without them asking?

[smuttleydfs]

Ozzie

Its obvious the 6'4" 230 doesn't contain one inch or one ounce of gray matter.........better to ignore the sludge