Being seen with a ladyboy

[Guest]

On my last trip to BKK I hooked up with a LB who I, not only enjoyed having sex with but, also, enjoyed talking to, and spending time with at her place. In fact, when I said that I had to leave to pack(my last night in LOS) she literally almost begged me to stay just to watch TV with her. I was blown away as the price was already set at ST. I really got the feeling she was a little lonely for some genuine company that wasn't trying to stick a cock in her and run off. I, of course, did stay only to have her fall asleep with her head on my chest. One word, WOW!

I had such an enjoyable time with this girl that I'd like to do more things(movies, dinner, going out in general) with her. When I mentioned this she really seemed to like the idea of it(No, no promise of buying her any gold or anything else) and she offered to drive and pick me up if need be.

Okay, FINALLY, to the point of my question. I'm 6'3", 240lbs, and have been able to handle myself pretty well in past problems here in the States but, to be honest, don't want any problems in the LOS. I'm concerned with the macho a-holes(drunken hooligans) that seem to be all over the place in BKK.

I have NO problems being with this LB but don't need the hassles that my attorney can't get me out of in a foreign country. Yes, I do tend to lose it fairly easily when someone disrespects me, or the person I'm with, for no reason.

How often have you guys run into problems with these jerks(closet homo's) who want to start trouble because you're with a LB? I'm not talking about the typical walk from the bar to the hotel, but rather, a night on the town(i.e., movies, dinner, etc...)

Thanks to all that respond and please accept my apologies for the long-winded post. The Jameson's seems to give me "typing fingers". All experiences, good and bad, are appreciated.

[Snick]

I take LB's to the movies all the time, go out to fancy resteraunts, ride the skytrain, go shopping,etc... Never had any troubles. The Thais don't care and the Farang don't notice.

The "feedback" isn't so much is she a LB or GG, but whether she is a "good girl" or a a bar girl. I.e short shorts, heavy makeup and a lot of tatoos will get you stares at a fancy resteraunt regardless of whether there is a dick attached or not.

[Tomcat]

Ive never had any problems but i know some of the other guys have reported being hassled in Phuket about a year ago.

To be honest the LBs i used to take down to Pattaya for weekends were passable to the drunken Holidaying Farangi, whom i guess you are talking about, and so i never got second looks . I have however seen other guys being heckled who are with the obvious Amazon LB types and its not a nice sight but one has to accept that in the real world this will happen.

It may be best to bite your lip and grin and bear it . better than being carted off in an Ambulance.


TC

[daveduke007]

I never had any problems at all, I go everywhere with my honey, and all I saw were admiring glances at her.

For those that might make comments about you after you have walked past are either intrigued or jealous coz they have no bottle to go for it themselves.

Must admit, I was a little nervous the first time going out with her, but now haven't a care in the world, im proud to be with her, and i think that 99% of others dont care either

enjoy

dave...

[Guest]

I have only really encountered a problem once. I was at the Chiang Rai seafood restaurant in the Tiger complex in Patong with a couple of ladyboys from C&D. One was Jenny and damn was she looking sexy this night. Anyway there were a bunch of pissed English guys with their catches for the night on another table constantly mumbling obscenities towards the girls and me. I had a few ales under my belt and eventually decided enough was enough. I caught the glance of one of the girls who basically just gestered to ignore them, but I was at my chivelrous best that night and was going to fight for the honour of my ladyboy.

I was getting so riled up I did not notice the other girl who we were with had gone back to C&D and within minute or two I was surrounded by a gaggle of ladyboys (What should we call a bunch of them?) the guys soon backed off, paid their bill and dissappeared into the night.

[Guest]

this is an interesting point that nannymoose brings up. Me I have had the same opportunity when I was in BKK. I hung out with my ladyboy all night and she wanted me to hang out more with her etc. she was passable to me and too the farangs on Sukhamvit but all of the Thais kept on looking at her like she was a ladyboy freak and she was very passable. It bothered me a bit but I ended up leaving her after a day b/c I always get tired of them after a while until I am ready to come. I have a wife and girlfriends here and I would rather hang out alone when I am on vacation except when I want to come.

[BAM]

no one wants to get in a fight with a gang of ladyboys. They don't fight fair, scratch with there long nails, wack you with there high heals!

macho a-holes(drunken hooligans) don't get very far but a bangkok jail cell.

[Torurot]

No problems here taking a LB out to picture etc, but remember a bunch of drunken yobbos are gunna fight dirty. Machismo, 10 pints & a pack mentality plays havoc with the "logic" part of the brain. Sometimes pays to keep ya mouth shut if the odds are heavily against you. My money is always on a "gaggle" of LB. They NEVER fight fair. :-)

[Guest]

Well, I guess if you're even asking the question, you're wondering how you look to people. If you care, sounds like you want to fight. If you don't care, nobody else will either. I've been with LBs for 4 years now, and I never restrict where I'm going. And I take passable and not so passable, but they are all georgeous. All the Thais just admire a good looker; I cannot imagine a Thai fighting you because you have an LB...that thought is just too stupid. As for farangs, who cares? In 4 years, the worst I got was some snarky comments. I usually just sat near them and hugged my LB even more, only for them to stare in jealousy.

Get it? Don't care and nothing happens. If you care, maybe you're the problem!

PS...I'm not trying to put you down, it's an honest, valid question, but ask it to yourself first.

[stogie bear]

I'm concerned with the macho a-holes(drunken hooligans) that seem to be all over the place in BKK.

I've been here for four years (coming up) and that comment is the dumbest one I have read... either that or there is another city called Bangkok somewhere and I am on the wrong planet.

If anyone is reading this crap then please (PLEASE!) just ignore it. I have never ever in my whole time here ever met a "macho a-hole" in Bangkok.

Totally ridiculous post.

[BAM]

The only drunken hooligan a-hole I've ever seen around Bangkok was Ape's bald buddy Nigel.... but he likes Ladyboys too so no need to worry

[dhz]

I have never thought of a ladyboy as a "sexual curiosity".  She is a part of our society like all other humans and should have the same rights for to life her kind of live.
Respect, understanding and acceptation should be what we have to shown this people.

[oilbaron]

I cannot say I have ever met a macho type in thailand in my years of visits, maybe the piss heads who are jelous as fuck that you got a babe with extras with you, I couldnt give a fuck who sees me with a fetish as long as it aint me dad! but even then i would live with it, You need to relax and if because you are a hard core 6ft4 fighting machine maybe a few rounds in the kick boxing ring down lumpini would cool you down a bit, I find nothing but good people on the whole in thailand and i can say without doubt that it is the most friendly city in the world in my experiance. Learn not to give a fuck and you will find your way a lot easier. He whom laughs last laughs longest as they say, and to them that dont Fuck em!

[oilbaron]

I have never thought of a ladyboy as a "sexual curiosity".  She is a part of our society like all other humans and should have the same rights for to life her kind of live.
Respect, understanding and acceptation should be what we have to shown this people.

Come on!, in the western world of course they are a curiosity's, if they were on every street of every country no one would care, Dont get me wrong i am all for the lb's. You are a little off key with this as the chap is trying to establish what the reaction is from the general public and others towards them, I could'nt give a monkeys personally.
alright stogie

[PigDogg]

I've taken planes, trains, and boats with ladyboys and not the slightest problem anywhere. Now, the ladyboys I traveled with were fairly passable and low key. On the beach at Ko Samet, my ladyboy friend encountered a naked Eurotoddler and starts playing with the kid. I started thinking holy shit, this kid's parents are going to go apeshit but there was no problem, the only problem was in my head.