Sleep alone?

[Guest]

when I wake up from my usual 10 hours of rack time in my awesome king-sized bed,  I always think about how nice it is to sleep alone.   when I am in Thailand and  have ladyboys for a night, I always prefer them to leave after sex;   once the deed is done I don't see the point of having someone hang around and I want to crash and wake up and do what *I* want to do, not be tip-toeing around the room like a cat burgler while the vampire in my bed sleeps until 3PM before she goes home; seems much better getting her out the night before. If they wake up at 11 or 12 and want to fuck again that is cool, but this seems to be a rarity.

    ST is better [and cheaper] than LT in my opinion. your thoughts?

[Guest]

Well, when I was hanging around for a few weeks straight with the likes of May and later Aoy, they seemed to be waking up rather early and more than willing to repeat the act as much as, and when ever I was wanting to.  
Both ST and LT have their place, depending on the lb and level of the friendship, if any. IMO, if you find one you really connect with, you get the most bang for your baht by sticking with her for several days or a week or two straight.
Though, if variety and multiple conquests is the primary criteria, then going with only STs seems the best route.

[Snick]

Depends on the girl, but I've had many a night where I reach out for cock at three am and get a little mutual hand play in before drifting back to sleep....and thats fun

[Mai-Kee]

Exactly my words, JD! As long as there is no kind of emotion involved - and I can tell ya, that's getting harder and harder the older you get - I only have them st, especially the pro's. I enjoy sleeping alone too much and I absolutely hate it waking up besides somebody I don't know and even have to have a kind of babbling conversation in the morning - no fucking way!!!

MK

[stogie bear]

I can't do short time. I'd rather just get drunk and skip the girl completely!

My liasons are few and far between, so I like them to last!

[Guest]

you know, as much as I like ladyboys and I do a LOT, there are very few that I actually want to hang around with in the daytime. I have only had 3  LB girlfriends and those would be the rare exceptions; we seemed to "click" and so spending 3 or 4 days straight was no problems and even enjoyable.  But as  MK said, if they are working girls I can't see the point of them hanging around; when we wake up, what the hell are we gonna do?  shopping?  I'd rather hack off my fingers slowly with a butter knife.  Chat?  about what? watch TV?  I can do that alone, same as going for lunch. The beach?   about 10% of all ladyboys like that. I suppose I could fuck again if she was in the mood, but once a day is enough for me, frankly, and that usually happens at about 3AM.

  Fuck, leave and let me get my 10 hours of rest and wake up free to do what I want to do. sounds cruel but no one said this life is easy.

[Torurot]

Depends on the lady. Some are GREAT LT some are crap, and ST vice versa, so depends on the "connection"/personality. You find one of the 10% that like the beach = keeper. :-)

[Guest]

You find one of the 10% that like the beach = keeper. :-)

hahaha...very true......I like girls that want to hang in the sun, not stay in all day under the covers

[smuttleydfs]

I kind of like the overnights.........spooning and holding talesha's cock was pretty nice

[jellybean]

On a similar line, do any of you guys do more than meet-drink-shag-leave your LBs?

For instance do you go play pool, have a meal, go to a club or a non-LB bar, do a bit of siteseeing with you LB?

Do many of you go long-long time amaybe 3-4 days with your LBs?

I know this is common with other bar girls I was just curious to know how common it is in the LB scene and if the LB's are up for this sort of thing?

[stogie bear]

On a similar line, do any of you guys do more than meet-drink-shag-leave your LBs?

For instance do you go play pool, have a meal, go to a club or a non-LB bar, do a bit of siteseeing with you LB?

Do many of you go long-long time amaybe 3-4 days with your LBs?

I know this is common with other bar girls I was just curious to know how common it is in the LB scene and if the LB's are up for this sort of thing?

Check out the Trip reports forum... I think you'll agree that members who are sharing their lives with our ladyboy friends is very common indeed!

"Wham bam - thank you mam!"? Sorry... That doesn't work for me. I'd rather jerk off.

Spending the night with a beautiful ladyboy is often better than the sex!

Does anyone else understand that absurd statement?



Oh well!  

[Guest]

Spending the night with a beautiful ladyboy is often better than the sex
Does anyone else understand that absurd statement?

well,    you must admit  that your experience with the subject at hand is a bit limited, SB;  you have probably spent the night with only a handful of ladyboys since you had  Kui as a steady all those years, and obviously the ones  you were with were pleasant company for you and that's great.


    But I can't tell you the number of uncomfortable moments and evenings I have had with ladyboys on dates, where after the basic "how are you, where do you come from, how do you like Bangkok?"   line of questioning is over with [5 minutes], you sit there with nothing else to say and wondering what the hell am i going to do with this kid for the next 4 or 5 hours?  and of course she is not ever going to initiate any type of conversation, it is always up to you to be the topic starter and when english is limited that is not always easy. I think  you would change your tune a bit if you tried to have a nice evening out with a  different ladyboy say about 40 or 50 times.

            The night we played pool with you and Kui,  Vicky and myself  and Road Runner  and his girl was very cool;   again, Vicky is  a nice  girl and spending time with her is easy because her english is good and she can converse well.   from my experience that is a rarity, and the majority of the time I would frankly just rather meet a girl and have the sex and go our seperate ways.

as for vacations I have only had 3, all with Aon, and they were great.  We can talk about everything, she is very bright, and so small that she barely takes up any space in the bed.  We even spent 10 days in a rental car driving around the north of Thailand near her home; try THAT  with someone   you don't have much in common with.   I am sure there is no other girl I could do that with right now, but there may be someday, who knows.

[stogie bear]

well, you must admit that your experience with the subject at hand is a bit limited, SB;

I couldn't agree more! I haven't been with many ladyboys... and Kui was my first (and to date - easily the best) ladyboy experience.

I still feel like a tourist when I go to Nana or Pattaya! I still feel like a candy addict who's found the sugar bowl!

I do NOT ever think that 3 hours in the hotel room after a couple of Beer Changs or an hour on an egg timer in a short time room is gonna make me feel horny.

That to me is just a complete waste of my time and effort! I may as well go home early - watch the news - and go to sleeep with the smug patronizing mini-bar painting rude signs on my bill the next day!

I feel a bit deflated if the girl I am with wants to leave in the middle of the night and I like waking up to a beautiful ladyboy first thing in the morning!

But that's me! What can I say!

[Guest]

I feel a bit deflated if the girl I am with wants to leave in the middle of the night and I like waking up to a beautiful ladyboy first thing in the morning!

Funny, I actually met a girl when I was there in February who I saw 3 or 4 times; I always wanted her to stay over and hang for a while because I actually liked this one, but she lived with her parents and had to go home after we screwed every time.

Then I met another girl and brought her over; we had generic sex and I wanted her to take off afterwards but she had no intentions of leaving my bed. She says, after I started to not-so-gently nudge her out the door; "you don't like a lady to stay with you"? Not with YOU I don't!!

I can't win

[brocklanders]

The difference whether you want a girl or LB to stay with you long time in Thailand/Singapore/Indonesia or short time is whether you can speak the language. I speak fluent Thai so as soon as they figure out you can undertand them, a whole new world opens up to you. Some things you didn't want to know in the first place(dark side of the business) and some things are pleasant suprises. The Philippines is kind of an exception because the girl/Lb can speak decent English but speaking Tagalog(even conversational) opens up a whole new girl/lb and they become more comfortable and eventually real. I am learning Bahasa(Indo) but my main problem with Indonsian girls is that I cant communicate with them so short times are the norm with me.

Another issue is the age factor. If you are twice the girls age, what kind of conversations do you expect to have and what will you really have in common. I am 36 and still find it difficult to have anything in common with them and I am guessing 36 is pretty young for a ladyboy admirer in Thailand.

Lastly, one of the reasons why I have never done LT with a LB and likely never will is that many of the LB's are seen in the morning or later without their makeup and they can look awefully scary....even the stunning ones. Take off the makeup and nice clothes and the stunning LB's start to look more and more masculine and that scares the shit out of me. For those of you whom like fem boys or men, that would be a definate plus. One more thing is that I could never have LT with a pre-op because the last thing that I want is to wake up with a tool box in my hand or rubbing up against me.

Dirk Diggler is Brock Landers