Your friend sponsors a ladyboy in the bar...

[PigDogg]

(Crackerjax @ Nov. 11 2010,00:21) But if I ever did have a REAL friend who fell into the sponsor trap replete with emotional baggage and I found the girl out marketing herself, I'd take a pass and let him know he was being made a fool of by his "love".

A tricky one this is.

I dunno what I would do but I think I would turn a blind eye and not meddle in the relationship.

Rating on the girl would probably earn the enmity of girl which could be problematic for the friendship after the sponsor and girl kiss and make up.

[Tomcat]

The reason i posted this was that Jaidee kept nudging someone to do it. It was more of an issue 7 years ago than it is now though

circa 2003
I remember sitting in Wanchai with a fellow BM and he said " do you mind if take MissX from KC3 ( i didnt go to nana much in those days)". I said that i dont give a damn, take who you like. Then he starts asking questions about bed gymnastics and so on. I said look , take her but dont bother me with the details.. i dont want to know.

I suppose that was the last real GF i had in LOS anyway.

[Torurot]

Friends share..... all sorts of things. I'm "related" to a number of board members and this is not a bad thing. I don't and never have claimed exclusive rights to any person.

[koykaeng]

Not only would I shaft her, but I'd expect a discount.

I believe the term is mates rates....

I'd be sure to take photos and mail them to my mate to ensure he knows what she's doing whilst he's back home working his ass off for the next trip.

I think Burt Bacharach summed it all up succinctly in his 1982 track "That's What Friends Are For".

Cheers
Koykaeng

[guydesavoy]

I admire the sentiment, but that rather presupposes that either he doesn't know she's still working, or that he's not a real friend. Not sure TC was clear about that part.

Anyyway, I think the term 'mate' is being rather loosely employed here  

[thegame925]

If the guy is a friend (or even an acquaintance) and I know he is besotted with some girl, even if it isn€™t a true €œrelationship€ (and he knows that she is still working), then she is "off limits" for me.

There are so many girl€™s around that there is no need to paddle in a friend€™s pool.

However I've been with plenty of girls that other BMs have been with and vice-versa.

In any event, I think Juri's been with everyone, so there is always some common thread.

After all, isn€™t the point of reading TRs and looking at photos posted on this Forum one of the ways we see girls we want to meet?

[Jake_Sully]

(in response to GDS)

No I think it goes to show you perfectly candidly, how there are people who prefer doing OPGF's for whatever reason.

All the more reason to: a) pick your friends carefully who actually have integrity and, b) pick a person with actual character that is not that eager to screw around, (preferably both) if for whatever reason you decide to stop being a butterfly.

Strangely enough sponsoring a lb is like donating to a charity. As long as you don't forget that you yourself are not the CEO of the charity. The charity's goal isn't making your dreams come true, just making you happy enough to make another donation for however long as it can.

[guydesavoy]

(Jake_Sully @ Nov. 11 2010,18:42) (in response to GDS)
Strangely enough sponsoring a lb is like donating to a charity. As long as you don't forget that you yourself are not the CEO of the charity. The charity's goal isn't making your dreams come true, just making you happy enough to make another donation for however long as it can.

Very true Jake

I think this thread evokes a myriad of responses, depending on how one interprets the OP.

But I am ever reminded, as I read all the posts, of what a wise man once said...

Maybe I sound insensitive but its not the case at all. I do care! But if I had to live my whole life based on how everyone might be sensitive to me..

I think that sums up a lot of posts here

[Tomcat]

As an aside

I dont frequent the City Of London bars as often these days but i can honestly say that any Girl in a wine bar would be game for a shag as far a most guys are concerned , even if it were someones best friends GF it dont make any difference, blokes in general dont care and would shit on their buddies most of the time as far as GGs are concerned.

Maybe the City is a rat race and so only rats live there

Must go , i got a date with old so and so's missus  

[Foggy]

thats probably why we only end up with one or two TRUE friends in this life.

and if the OP has told u he would be annoyed then expect whatever follows, par for the course.

[seamus]

(Tomcat @ Nov. 10 2010,14:02) It doesnt effect me but my answer is that if you want a friend , buy a dog

If they work in a bar the arse is for hire to any Tom Dick or Harry

Plenty of other girls in the bar, Why would you want to fuck your so called friends GF, fine mate you would be...................not !

[Bumpa STIKKA]

(seamus @ Nov. 12 2010,01:06) Why would you want to fuck your so called friends GF, fine mate you would be...................not !

I agree. But how many people have a 'GF' who works in a bar selling her body for sex? NONE!

They may call her that and she may go along with it. Or the poor bloke may make assumptions about the relationship but NOBODY has a "GF" who works as a bar girl getting her ass stretched for cash.

You may be in love with someone who works in a bar or you may feel charitable but please don't do your 'friends' the injustice of trying to make out that she's YOUR property and that YOU decide who she chooses to screw around with.

It's insulting to your friends and demeaning to yourself.

I'd avoid bedding bar workers who I thought my 'friends' were besotted with - but I doubt that I have any friends who would characterize their relationship with a P4P worker as 'girlfriend/boyfriend.'

[TEXASMAC]

Is she hot looking? Then YES

[spare wheel]

i understand the "if she is in the bar then she is for hire" concept, but if i know the guy and can call him a friend then i wouldn't.

just the way ive been brought up, you don't hit on your mates girl.


SW„¢

[rxpharm]

This actually has more to do with the relationship between you and your friend more than anything else. Factors such as is he a close friend vs: an acquaintance, is he realistic about sponsorship, etc. would all play a part in the decision.

For me personally, I would not if he is a friend. An acquaintance, possibly, but only if he really understands that she's still working in the bar and not "staying home".