Your friend sponsors a ladyboy in the bar...

[Tomcat]

This question rears it head time and time in conversation and it is that -would you fuck your buddys GF if she works in the bar even though hes 6,000 miles away shivering in some cold rain soaked shithole

It doesnt effect me but my answer is that if you want a friend , buy a dog

If they work in a bar the arse is for hire to any Tom Dick or Harry

[EyeMahk]

(Tomcat @ Nov. 10 2010,18:02) Your friend sponsors a ladyboy in the bar
would you fuck your buddys GF if she works in the bar

Please define "friend" and "buddy".   i.e. close friend from home, friend in LOS, forum acquaintance, etc?

[Bumpa STIKKA]

(Tomcat @ Nov. 10 2010,22:02) If they work in a bar the arse is for hire to any Tom Dick or Harry

Of course it does... and you are doing a disservice to the ladyboy if you spurn her because of some idiot wanking in the snow 10,000 miles away.

If she works in the bar as a prostitute then she's NOT your girlfriend. You don't own her and you have no say in how she spends her time.

Feel free to send your money (you chump), but if a friendship is determined by which prostitute you DON'T fuck then I'll forgo the friendship and keep my sanity and freedom!

We've had this talk before and some arrogant weirdos still think they have some claim over a whore because he either fucked her first or liked her more or sent her money to assuage his pathetic ego.

Get over your lost sorry lives and wake up...

If the girl is for sale then you should not be blackmailing your mates over who she sells to.

[kahuna]

It ain't black and white...It depends...As EyeMahk has pointed out, what is a "friend?..."
Someone you know casually or someone you know would have your back if the need arose...

I've been with many ladyboys who have had sponsors...Kinda nice really...You know they
ain't gonna be hitting on you for a new pair of tits...But, I don't believe that I personally
knew the sponsors...And how did I know that they had a sponsor...Cause the ladyboys freely
told me...

But if I personally knew the sponsor my answer to TC's question I suppose, is no, I wouldn't...
It's just a matter of respect...More for myself than for the "friend..."

The truth is there is more than enough to go around...And they all have clones...

[Jake_Sully]

Nicely put kahuna!

[zodiac]

Personally if I know a friend is sleeping with a ladyboy and have no interest in her... I dont even like knowing girls that just have short timed my friends... i want to be thinking about the girl not my friends haha

[Steff]

Call me old fashioned but I simply could not. If I know someone else (friend or otherwise) has a serious interest in a particular person (gg, lb, bargirl, prostitute, whomever) I will tend to avoid the encounter with their paramour. It makes me uncomfortable and I can't help but feel needlessly selfish. As Kahuna said, it is more about me than the other people involved and there are so many others to chose from. I just feel better about myself. I also like to think the gesture might be reciprocal,... silly fool that I am.  

[Stewart]

This is their job

This is what puts food on the table for them and their family each day

How does that make you feel better about yourself?

[Steff]

Get real. Seriously. This is not the issue. Yes you are right, but you miss the point as do others like Bumpa. I do not petition a debate here. I feel the way I do and you feel otherwise. It does not merit more than that. This thread will only result in a tug of sides of which will not enlighten or influence either.

[perth_couple]

If the person were actually 'a friend' and I knew it would upset them, then I wouldnt - plenty more to choose from..

On the flip side though, the 'gentlemen' amongst us should kid themselves that 99% of us who monger are sleeping with somebodies special someone everytime we st/lt...

[PigDogg]

(perth_couple @ Nov. 10 2010,18:52) If the person were actually 'a friend' and I knew it would upset them, then I wouldnt - plenty more to choose from..

Sums it succinctly.

[Bumpa STIKKA]

To me it's like saying "Don't buy in PC World because that's where I shop. I like that shop a lot and the shopping experience is great. You can go anywhere else but not PC World!"



Any 'friend' who demands that their mates only go with girls not on their 'Hands Off!' list shows extreme arrogance and delusion not to mention a selfish disregard for the needs of the actual working girl.

[Crackerjax]

Friends are hard to come by - ladyboys not so much. In other words, she's have to be REALLY hot.

Actually I know a fair number of girls who are "steadies" with one or another forum brother, some of whom I've met, others who are just cyberspace acquaintances. None of these guys claims to be anything other than a regular of these girls - nobody admits to being a "sponsor" in the sense of telling the girl not to work. Some I go with, some I don't - has nothing to do with the other guy and everything to do with me and the girl.

But if I ever did have a REAL friend who fell into the sponsor trap replete with emotional baggage and I found the girl out marketing herself, I'd take a pass and let him know he was being made a fool of by his "love".

[guydesavoy]

It doesn't affect me either, but...
Eyemahk is correct to pose the question : "What is a friend ?"

As Willie Nelson said ( )  if it was someone I liked and had respect for, I would leave it alone. It matters little to me that she is on the game or that he is having a mid-life crisis.
It's a question of personal ethics and decorum. Is that concept   here ?  

Having said that, if I'm not emotionally invested, and she's a hottie, I'll go with Bumpa.

In that instance, the gloves are off  

[manarak]

depends on how much beers I had and how good the LB looks and her reputation.