Date with a non working ladyboy?

[pepsi]

Hi to all lf you! This is my first post here.

What if I want to meet some regular ladyboys for dating? I mean non-prostitutes. How could I reach them?

Maybe an ad in some media? Throw a mega party and put an invitation on Bangkok newspaper? Any ideas and pointers are welcome.

Prostitutes are incredibly pretty though... but I am not sure whether any real friendship or romance is possible.

[Bumpa STIKKA]

First move to Thailand. After that it's easy.

If you don't live here then just forget it and stick with the professionals!

[farangbah]

Are you seriously saying you haven't dated a regular ladyboy?

You better get to it and post that ad, mister!

[seamus]

Unless you earn a shed load of money , you have next to no chance of holding onto a LB in the west. Others May disagree, but from My observations on the London scene, it's all about Money

[pacman]

Forget the advertising pepsi. I can't see that working out.

Plus the idea of a relationship is easier said than done. Oh sure, they do happen, several fellow board members are in relationships right now.

But for a new guy arriving in LOS, the best you can hope for is a sponsorship arrangement. This allows you to believe you have a girlfriend which she will encourage while you send regular money.

That may sound blunt & uncaring even but I have just passed on more knowledge than you would find out in your first year. For free.

Plus the girls don't fall neatly into being either a prostitute or not. There are many opportunists who might be enticed by enough money who would never consider themselves prostitutes. Regardless what we wish to label them.

I think you need to do a lot of reading of the forum to better understand the potential minefield you want to embark upon. Good luck.

[celentano]

in LOS every Ladyboy is regular.. because prostitution is illegal, so this mean... don't exist Ladyboy Prostitute..........or i'm wrong?? heheheheheh

[daveduke007]

Im meeting a non P4P ladyboy who has a really reponsible job and with whom Ive been talking to for weeks on msn at Central Rama 2 ( near where she lives and well out of the way ) on my first night in BKK and we are getting on that well we will have more dates I'm sure

It will be a pleasant change from the P4P scene

pepsi , the answer to your question is try the dateasia site

[Jerome]

I found my first and only ladyboy GF at outpersonals.com.
She has a medical degree and we have been together for over 2 and a half years now.

If I had one piece of advice for someone looking for a LB GF on outpersonals: Don't ask for Cam sex.

[pepsi]

Thanks for your advice guys, I am amazed to see such good comments from so different angles. So there is a choice here like in any matter. Just jotta use my brains and not be stupid

I am visiting Thailand for 2-3 weeks on jan/feb and there is a chance I'm coming later for a 2 month business trip to Bangkok. Something should happen in that time.

Still haven't decided if I should visit Phuket or go straight to Bangkok / Pattaya on my vacation...

[kahuna]

I ain't absolutely positively certain that there are many or any non-professional Thai ladyboys...

But there sure are a lot of pizza and shop girls who will fuck for a few baht...

While I hate to admit it, the best advice was posted by Mr. Pacman...

[pacman]

I'm full of good advice... you just have to ask me...    

[tim1212]

well played dave duke

many visits i believe

[Lorren]

(Jerome @ Dec. 08 2009,11:38) I found my first and only ladyboy GF at outpersonals.com.
She has a medical degree and we have been together for over 2 and a half years now.

If I had one piece of advice for someone looking for a LB GF on outpersonals: Don't ask for Cam sex.

 I would have to agree!

[Jerome]

You would dear.

[thegame925]

I have met non P4P LBs in lawyer's offices; as receptionists; as hairdressers; working in shops and stores; on the subway (in Bangkok the Skytrain is great for meeting students); as waitresses in restaurants and often as beauticians on make-up counters (especially MAC Counters).

I have also met them through Internet sites such as Dragoncastle.net

This is world-wide - but particularly in the Far East.

There has not been a vacation in Thailand in the last decade or more where I have not enjoyed one or two non-P4P LBs as well as P4P LBs.

You just need to keep your radar well tuned.

As the Bible says "Seek and ye shall find".