I'm in love with a ladyboy bar worker!

[petesie]

However.......each situation and relationship is different.......while the Forum members point out potential pitfalls.....there is an equal amount wishing you the best of luck.................perhaps thats a consensuous sentiment that we all individually wish for..........

If you care for her then things will run their course...regardless of anything else or even gender.....if she cares for you.....that will show also......you are the man on the ground and whilst advice, opinionated or not, is available here.....your decision can only be........yours......

Best of Luck.................

[Hilbie Paratodos]

your taking a ladyboy hooker to move with u to england huh? believe me shes already thinking about men (more customers on the side). best thing u can do is tell her thats fine but that u get most of the cut or your turing her in to the governement be it a real or acqusation ...just a realist, why be used for free old 50 year old man? no need to be a jerk, just that its probally your only option unless u want to be cheated on or taken to the cleaners...and i realize prostitution is legal in england, u need to marry her first-....let her have the oppourtinity for a differant visa situation.....hey your dating a whore, moving a whore to another country, whats the big deal about being a little bit of a pimp too. basically id say your crazy for bringing one of theese girls anywere more then for fried rice two streets down from the bar u payed for her to leave out of while in pattaya. .. and for the record im not recomending u become a pimp- lets all get drunk all of two weeks in another country n fall in luv!!!!!!!!!

[aquarius77]

Good luck mrlblover. Follow your heart and don't live your life wondering wotif. What is the forum advice on say a LB from thai love links who is not a sex worker. they have same story. Not like Thai man. Like older man. More romantic and serious. Any chance of 25+ age gaps working or is it still all about the money?

[bigmick22]

Would you ask if you didn't suspect?

You already doubt her motives - how can you trust each other?

[nebster]

I hope it is on the level for you but I would read the book "Private Dancer" by Stephen Leather

[Stewart]

(bazza @ Jun. 14 2009,00:19)

(Stewart @ Jun. 11 2009,12:21)

(bazza @ Jun. 11 2009,02:24) Well I am 50 and have a Ladyboy I am bringing to Engalnd in a couple of months she has been in loads of porn films, what would you rather do come to England live with a nice guy in a nice home or be fucked on film to earn a living

This is a wind up, right?  

3 months tops, then I will send Naang Fa another 1000 Baht

Not a wind up my friend true    why would I bother to lie

My apologies - I assumed noone could be that stupid.

I stand corrected

[Guest]

(harley quinn @ Jun. 11 2009,19:54) Apologies for wandering a bit but surely the reason that Thai LBs and for that matter GGs are seen with older western men is because those men are comparatively rich. If  you look at the disposable income of the average Thai person and that of their western counterpart there's a huge difference.

Thats why if you go to somewhere like Monaco you will staggeringly beautiful girls, guys and transexuals hanging onto older guys - the old guys are multi millionaires.

Well, mrlblover, in my point of view an answer to your question may be found by looking at the topic in a more general way:

Long term relationships and even more so marriage have been - at all times and all places - first and foremost an institution for granting material security for both partners and - if any - their kids. It's a deal.

So, if the average Thai bar girl, be it gg or lb, will go steady with a farang who is not good-looking but financially safe in order to protect and secure her or as harley quinn puts it above, she is doing the same thing as a great majority of females around this globe. Tests show that this must be rooted in the female habitual patterns since ages. Status matters more than looks. Here I consider ladyboys in the same category because they are definitely not men.

So, there is nothing wrong with that.

The problem is to believe there might be another reason.

The idea of "eternal love" between two individuals has only become popular during Romanticism in the 19th century. It is a romantic idea, an illusory concept!

Knowing that, one can relax one's mind.

Without the expectation of unconditioned love and faithfulness it is easier to "fix this deal".

In my opinion it is not the point whether one goes steady with a ladyboy as one is perfectly free of how to spend one's money but it's the wrong expectations that would give the headache.

BTW, I am not merely theorizing: I have been going steady with a nice ladyboy for now about three years. And trying to remember all that made it quite easy for me to accept that Panzer, the old semi-fag   , fucked her at one occasion in BKK. Her and I are still okay, and Panzer is still an old friend of mine  

[Lefty]

Very good post. Very well said.


Much better than reading what the tired arrogant old cynics have to say.

[tim1212]

well done dear friend- at . it was refreshing

[tim1212]

whoops meant post 67, its obvious but not often seen ... slowed down to analise, even i undersand

[Stogie]

Without the expectation of unconditioned love and faithfulness it is easier to "fix this deal"

Exactly.

[seamus]

(elcomandante @ Jun. 14 2009,20:17) And trying to remember all that made it quite easy for me to accept that Panzer, the old semi-fag   , fucked her at one occasion in BKK. Her and I are still okay, and Panzer is still an old friend of mine  

That would be hard in BKK, trying to find someone Pansy hasn't slept with One of the reason I like Indonesian LB's

[PanzerPorn]

(seamus @ Jun. 15 2009,12:31)

(elcomandante @ Jun. 14 2009,20:17) And trying to remember all that made it quite easy for me to accept that Panzer, the old semi-fag   , fucked her at one occasion in BKK. Her and I are still okay, and Panzer is still an old friend of mine  

That would be hard in BKK, trying to find someone Pansy hasn't slept with    One of the reason I like Indonesian LB's  

There are a few.........like Gol.......ehem sorry..........Cindy and Lefty's avatar (who probably will be mine pretty soon).

Nice first post Raul, hope to see you again soon for some "Sturm und Drang" and some undercover Blitzkrieg.

Heil El Comandante!

Seamus, i looked around for Mary at the airport...........

[bigmick22]

(PanzerPorn @ Jun. 15 2009,17:14) There are a few.........like Gol.......ehem sorry..........Cindy

spoken like a true homo

[Guest]

Yep, Panzer, will be nice to go on a common mission again in Krungthep jungle. ¡Hasta la victoria siempre!