I'm in love with a ladyboy bar worker!

[Naang Faa]

(mrlblover @ Jun. 10 2009,22:06) how you over come the thoughts from the past?

Do you not have a past also? Have you not been married or in long term
relationships in your 38 yrs? Have you not been involved as a punter in
the p4p game?
The chances are you have,and chances are you done this of your own free
will and desires..
She,on the other hand had little choice on who she went with before you
..after all,it is just a job,and she'll have little if none of the emotional attachments you may carry..perhaps a few wounds but thats to be expected...
If you can not be mature enough to get over this,just walk away,because your insecurity will screw it all up anyway..
Move on or move out..simple jaaaa
x

[Stogie]

(Lefty @ Jun. 11 2009,03:38)

(Stogie @ Jun. 10 2009,00:40) If you are in love with her then she has done her job properly.

Just remember that they would much rather pay a Thai guy to shag them than get it on with an old manky western dreamer for his cash. But needs must, right?

Put it another way... If you were 20, how would you feel of a 50 year old woman was in love with you, handing out her cash and desperate for love?

Yes, that's right... You'd take her cash and laugh your ass off about her to your mates down the pub.

Next time you come to Thailand, leave your heart in a safety deposit box at the airport and you'll enjoy your holiday a whole lot more.

Does your advice also apply to you?  

No.

[Guest]

OK, thanks for all the replys.


mrlblover

[tim1212]

no worrys - i think your bst bet is to get a new bird, get a ladyboy st-- or long time!! and ask if she has any friends-?? you never know who'll turn up, new ,exciting, unknown, etc but prob like me have a huge um.... whiskey, then tour round!!!but ddont get hooked on the 1st one unless you know shes yours

[tim1212]

leftys also right, you go 4 wrong girl -and you'll know v soon!!! no ones exactly the same 67%-89%, one mans poison is anothers medicine/ just get a realy good bird!!!!

[Stewart]

(bazza @ Jun. 11 2009,02:24) Well I am 50 and have a Ladyboy I am bringing to Engalnd in a couple of months she has been in loads of porn films, what would you rather do come to England live with a nice guy in a nice home or be fucked on film to earn a living

This is a wind up, right?

3 months tops, then I will send Naang Fa another 1000 Baht

[Guest]

thanks again,
but thank you to naang fa and the game.
they who read the opening thread and pin pionted the problem lies with myself.
i need to deal with the past.
to all others who thinks she is lying and still working the scene, are wrong. she isnt working the secne and doesnt have a thai boyfriend. there is only me and i need to deal with the issues.
thanks all again.

dave

[pacman]

Dave, don't live a life of regret, if you really like her, follow her & see where it takes you.

Everyone is so worried that she will either break your heart or take your money or something equally bad. I say go for it, the worst feeling is the one you experience in 20 years time when you take stock of your life & wish you had tried harder.

And with a 13 year age difference, you don't have the age gap that makes a mockery of these relationships. Even a 25 year age gap can work if you want it to badly enough.

Just go into it with your eyes wide open & keep your suspicions to yourself, she will know whether you are genuine or not.

[Guest]

cheers pacman



dave

[Naang Faa]

(pacman @ Jun. 11 2009,07:01) And with a 13 year age difference, you don't have the age gap that makes a mockery of these relationships.

Fair enough Paacmaan, this age gap seems the standard
(as far as LBT girls go) ..
x

[Lefty]

(pacman @ Jun. 10 2009,23:01) Dave, don't live a life of regret, if you really like her, follow her & see where it takes you.

Everyone is so worried that she will either break your heart or take your money or something equally bad. I say go for it, the worst feeling is the one you experience in 20 years time when you take stock of your life & wish you had tried harder.

And with a 13 year age difference, you don't have the age gap that makes a mockery of these relationships. Even a 25 year age gap can work if you want it to badly enough.

Just go into it with your eyes wide open & keep your suspicions to yourself, she will know whether you are genuine or not.

You could follow pacman's advice, which makes sense to me, or you could say to yourself, well I better listen to the constant naysayers here who caution you that those Thai/falang relationships are just too risky, and instead focus more on the safe falang/falang relationships.

Some here would have you believe all the Thais want us for is money or security. That sounds too risky. You can know for sure by finding a nice English lady, you won't have to worry about that. She won't care how much money you have, or how much security you can provide for the future. She'll keep herself looking really hot, give you great sex every day, and never leave or divorce you, taking at least half your assets in the process.
Yes, the falang/falang LTR is much safer.  

[Hilbie Paratodos]

people are people all over the world, we all share the same issues, i say listen to the nay sayers and negative fuckers like myself with your mind n heart, if u truly can listen to reason but follow your heart without looseing your mind then maybe u have something- take baby nit noi steps

[thegame925]

I spent many years worrying about the "age gap" - nowadays I tell the girl the truth - and even with a 30 year old there is a 46 year age gap between us.

I also make it clear (if trying for a longer relationship) that my Last Will and Testament has been written and will not get new codicils added (not that there will be much left anyway).

If they can accept these facts, then I can too.

I am also lucky, as I have written many times before, that my ex-wife and her husband together with my four adult children and three of their four wives, accept the fact that my preference is for young LBs.

I can only advise you to sort out your own mind, your own doubts, your own fears and then enjoy that which you have been lucky enough to find - accepting the fact that every relationship has its "ups" and its "downs".

This stuff ain't rocket science, but it does require some "common sense" and a clear recognition of reality.

Remember - to quote Tom Lehrer - "Life is like a sewer, what you get out of it, depends on what you put into it!"

[PanzerPorn]

(mrlblover @ Jun. 10 2009,10:54) have any of you fell in love because of multiple trips to same girl ?
sent the cash, paid for the body.
took her away from the scene.
but still in the back of your mind cant get the fact of she use to sell her arse each night and has probly had hundreds unload into her ?

Probably she is still doing that, good habits are hard to break.

You can do like that,
save your cash for buying the bar where she is working ( bar business is great in Thailand), marry her, have kids (opppsss sorry cannot), so forget about kids,put everything you have on her name, sit at HER bar everynight and get drunk early, wait until The Panzer is back to town for giving her a nice big present of love once in a while.........probably the average sextourists who would go to HER bar would be old men with small cocks.

Or you can still chain her in your basement.

[harley quinn]

Apologies for wandering a bit but surely the reason that Thai LBs and for that matter GGs are seen with older western men is because those men are comparatively rich. If  you look at the disposable income of the average Thai person and that of their western counterpart there's a huge difference.

Thats why if you go to somewhere like Monaco you will staggeringly beautiful girls, guys and transexuals hanging onto older guys - the old guys are multi millionaires.

Getting back to Dave's original point if you meet someone you like then surely you like them for what they are and who they are. I have a good friend who happens to work in P4P, I met her as a customer, became a friend and my life is richer for knowing her. If I was in a position to "take her away from it all" I would - on the assumption that she wanted me to which is actually a big assumption on my part.

Dave if you have been lucky enough to find someone special then treasure her for all she's worth, close a door on the past and enjoy the fact that she has chosen to be with you. The past is dead, the future is unknown and the present is all you have - revel in every glorious second