I'm in love with a ladyboy bar worker!

[Foggy]

(mrlblover @ Jun. 10 2009,10:54) has this happened to you ?


mr lb lover

No it hasnt in 20 years of coming to Thailand .... but when I live there then it might .... because thats the only time you have a smidgen of a chance of success....

Good luck though....

[jimslim]

(mrlblover @ Jun. 10 2009,10:54) my head is fucked !
but my heart is in love !

That has the makings of a great song


I'd copy write it before someone steals it

[Guest]

thanks for changing title mr stogie,
but can i stress the girl in question kept her word and hasnt been in scene for over a year. Still doesnt help knowing what she did as this is how i met her, but the love has taken over and the thoughts havent left.
thx for music clip miss taneisha, in fact you know the girl !

head still fucked & heart still hurting


mrlblover

[bazza]

Well I am 50 and have a Ladyboy I am bringing to Engalnd in a couple of months she has been in loads of porn films, what would you rather do come to England live with a nice guy in a nice home or be fucked on film to earn a living

[Naang Faa]

If i had a thousand baht for every time i saw this,only to see the girl
run off with someone else i'd have 37,000 baht now ..
x

[indianajones]

Ok, ok


If you are under 30, then maybe, if you are older and not exceptionally good looking, then please listen to common sense and dont fall in love with someone you paid for sex.


The reason you paid her, is because she didnt want to be with you, you are paying her to do something she doesnt want to do.

yes?


Also, dont listen to some sex tourist who lives vicariously through posting on an internet forum about ladyboys....






1000 nights at the Nana hotel doesnt make you an expert on anything

[thegame925]

Everyone has a past - forget the past - it is the now and the  future that is important and that counts - Enjoy the now and do not dwell on her past relationships, (or your own past relationships)














Love the one you are with - Stephen Stills of Crosby Stills Nash And Young






Ooo, umm, umm
Umm, umm
Yea hey
Du, du, du
Umm, hmm
Umm, umm

If you're down and confused
And you don't remember
Who you're talkin' to
Concentration slips away
'Cos your baby is so far away

And there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be
With the one you love, honey
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
You gotta love the one you're with

Hmm
Don't be angry
Don't be sad
Don't sit cryin'
Over good times you had
There's a girl
Right next to you
And she's just waitin'
For somethin' to do

Yes and there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove, yea
(And if you)
Can't be
With the one you love, honey
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
I love the one

(Dudu, du, du, du, du, du, du)
Dit, dit, dit, di, di
(Dudu, du, du, du, du, du, du)
Umm, umm, umm
(Dudu, du, du, du, du, du, du)
Yea, ahh, ahh
Dadada dadada

Yea
(Ahh, ahh, ahh)
Umm
(Ahh, ahh, ahh)
Please
(Ahh, ahh, ahh)
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
Ah love the one you're with
You gotta love the one you're with

Umm
Turn your heartache
(Du, du, dudu)
Right into joy
(Du, du, dudu)
'Cuz she's a girl
(Du, du, dudu)
And you're a boy
(Du, du, dudu)
So get it together
(Du, du, dudu)
(Together)
And make it nice
(Du, du, dudu)
And you won't need
(Du, du, dudu)
Any more advice
(Du, du, dudu)

(And there's a rose)
There's a rose
(In a fisted glove)
In a fisted glove
(And the eagle flies)
And the eagle flies
(With the dove)
With the dove
And if you can't be
With the one you love
(Ohh)
Ohh

Love the one you're with
(Gotta love the one you're with)
Love the one you're with
Gotta love the one you're with
(Love the one you're with)
Love the one you're with
(Gotta love the one you're with)
You gotta love the one you're with
(Love the one you're with)
Love the one you're with
(Gotta love the one you're with)
You gotta love the one you're with
(Love the one you're with)

(Dudu, du, du, du, du, du, du)
You gotta get it together
(Dudu, du, du, du, du, du, du)
You gotta get it together
(Dudu, du, du, du, du, du, du)
Did it together
Dadada dadadaForg

[Lefty]

I don't agree with anyone who generalizes about bar girls. It may work, it may not. Perhaps the risks are a little higher. No two are 100% exactly the same.
Everyone deserves to be judged on their own merits or lack thereof. I'm sure some will scoff at that notion, well, because they just have it figured out better than anyone else.

I find it interesting that some here who seem to be negative have done the same thing they are seemingly warning you against.

[indianajones]

(Lefty @ Jun. 11 2009,03:33) I don't agree with anyone who generalizes about bar girls. It may work, it may not. Perhaps the risks are a little higher. No two are 100% exactly the same.
Everyone deserves to be judged on their own merits or lack thereof. I'm sure some will scoff at that notion, well, because they just have it figured out better than anyone else.

I find it interesting that some here who seem to be negative have done the same thing they are seemingly warning you against.

Golden rule is age.


If you are a 40 odd year old bloke with a beer gut who comes to Thailand to pay for sex, then see fucking sense...


Bargirls are people


there is a reason youcant get 19 year old girls at home to love you, Thailand is different how?




ah yes, you paid for it


so they must love u back?



hmmmm

[Lefty]

(Stogie @ Jun. 10 2009,00:40) If you are in love with her then she has done her job properly.

Just remember that they would much rather pay a Thai guy to shag them than get it on with an old manky western dreamer for his cash. But needs must, right?

Put it another way... If you were 20, how would you feel of a 50 year old woman was in love with you, handing out her cash and desperate for love?

Yes, that's right... You'd take her cash and laugh your ass off about her to your mates down the pub.

Next time you come to Thailand, leave your heart in a safety deposit box at the airport and you'll enjoy your holiday a whole lot more.

Does your advice also apply to you?

[indianajones]

(Stogie @ Jun. 10 2009,14:40) If you are in love with her then she has done her job properly.

Just remember that they would much rather pay a Thai guy to shag them than get it on with an old manky western dreamer for his cash. But needs must, right?

Put it another way... If you were 20, how would you feel of a 50 year old woman was in love with you, handing out her cash and desperate for love?

Yes, that's right... You'd take her cash and laugh your ass off about her to your mates down the pub.

Next time you come to Thailand, leave your heart in a safety deposit box at the airport and you'll enjoy your holiday a whole lot more.

I dont generally agree with anyone, but thats all true...


"tonight i stay my room"


again?



wow, she's a fucking hermit!


or a very good liar, and you are a lonely old man





ummmmmm, id go with answer 1..... i stay my room tonight, too

[Guest]

i value all apinions, but may i stress she is no longer a bar worker and no longer living near any tourist spots, i have been to where she works and lives.
the reason for posting was to see if anyone feels the same ways in not forgetting where she came from and basicly how you over come the thoughts from the past.

mrlblover

[EyeMahk]

(bazza @ Jun. 11 2009,02:24) what would you rather do come to England live with a nice guy in a nice home or be fucked on film to earn a living

I'm not a Thai LB so I can't answer for sure, but if the pay is higher (with a possibility of it being a LOT higher) in England, I would guess that they would go to England.

[Guest]

and where as im 38 she is 25


mrlblover

[Hilbie Paratodos]

if she just started working in the bar like say 8 days before u met here then go for it, but id have to say just have fun and dont say the word luv or anything that pertains to real life and the most special thing in it with someone u rented or that someone else has rented before u and some one else before that someone else ad infitnitum has rented, you should no better then that, and i think its sound advice to realize that over a ten year age gap even being from the same culture is really pushing it though im not sure you age or your public love interest age.....bar girls are whores as are their friends, who even knows if in 8 days in the bar if she hasnt already gotten her phd in moochhood..........have fun bro, thats what its about........have fun..                     =