Follow up about my trip i was planning

[Guest]

I know you probably already checked this out but have you checked out the Embassy site? http://usembassy.state.gov/posts/rp1/wwwhmain.html

Also if you get a chance if you could go with her when she goes for the appointment that could help out also.

[mirimark]

SUCKER.......Who, Who's Playing this shit, No Jim Beam No Triple Beems, shes making MatchBox Fucking Twenty Money

[PigDogg]

Your cartoon may seem off the topic of thread at first glance. However, Mirimark, I suppose this is a followup about the trip you were planning? But I am LOL!!

Chris, too bad you can't leave the States and I'm not sure exactly what that means cause a trip to the PI would be fun. Thinking way ouside the box here, and not knowing where you live, if you live in San Diego maybe you could meet her in Mexico or if you live in North Carolina you could meet her in Bermuda (it's either Bermuda or the Bahamas that offer Thai citizens a visa on demand, maybe the same for the PI).

[Pinga]

It is difficult for someone living in the States to imagine what a third world country citizen will do to get to the States. Why is it almost impossible to get a visa? Because 90% or the so-called "tourists" never go back. Living in one of these countries as I do, I never cease to be amazed at the lengths the hopefull travelers to the States will go to to get a visa or try to enter illegaly. Almost every week here there is a report on TV about someone who lost their savings in a visa scam. Since I am and American I am always being asked to help someone get into the U.S.

Although I don't know the girl in question, I would bet that IF you managed to get her a visa (extremely doubtful), she would immediately disappear upon arrival.

[Guest]

Shit.... sorry i forgot to mention. I actually had to convince her to try to get her visa...and come to vist... she wanted me to go to the Phillipines... first....to see what kind of person I was......
another thing, i think the fact that she she graduated from college with a degree in nursing might help her chances (considering the U.S. has a very high demand for nurses) She is going to tell the interviewer that she wants to visit the U.S. first before she makes a decission to take the exams to become a nurse in the STATES.... and she is going to try to get a banking accuont and get some of her parents assets transferred to her name.....OK I think that this ups her chances. if all this happens... plus the forms I am going to fill out for her at my lawyers office..... does anyone think that this solid as I do or am I to hopeful.... AND THANK YOU!!! again(I am such a kiss ass) for all of your help.... I feel like that the visa has a better chance now. but if not I'll just try again.

[PigDogg]

My vguess, and it's jsut a guess since I really don't know is that it certainly can't hurt that she's a nurse, there's no under the table nursing jobs.

I don't know your situation bro but is it impossible to get away for a week, Fri night or Sat AM departure and return the following Sunday?

[fancylighters]

haha.... sorry to disappoint... not just intelligence... there is a lot more about her that I like... and she is coming over as a friend.... i havn't met her but i have talked to her alot and ....and when a person is not trustworthy or has a problem with lying... there tends to be very little consistentcy.... and I have asked her a lot off questions multipe times and she always answers them the same.... and why would she be willing to come to the U.S.  knowing that she is no longer in any position to  do what a lot of ladyboys typically do to visitors to their country...such as steal or whatever else.... and yea she is just an all around cool person.... if you recall my first post I wasn't into the whole paying for sex thing... I actually wanted to meet people and go see some shows and bars. We talk on the phone for hours (I have a really great phone plan) and we send emails back and forth.... I am not saying its love.... I am saying that she is a really cool person.... a friend..... sorry if that's hard to believe but it's the truth.... I think that .... I don't know his name... but I  think he owns the site.... I think that he can probablly be a character witness for her... because she says that she knows him through his girlfriend... but I won't know that until he posts....again sorry if it is hard to believe that a ladyboy could want nothing more than sex or money and not want anything to do with  friends....hmmm
P.S. does anybody know the owner? How many liars do you know that can keep their story straight?

Given the new, kinder, gentler spirit of this site, I'll choose my words carefully.  

Dude, are you freaking nuts?  Inviting a girl from another country over, w/out having ever met her in person?  Is she staying at your house?  

Somebody, SB I think, mentioned how easy it is for guys to have great long distance internet relationships.  But things are very different in person.  

I hope you're not vouching for this person to the State Dept in order to get her a visa.  And I hope you're very clear to her what you're expecting (hot, sweaty sex, any time you want it) in exchange for your efforts, the attny's fees, etc.  Otherwise, if she gets off the plane and decides you're just not her cup of tea, it's going to be a very weird, and very long visit for you.

btw, PI girls have relatives & friends everywhere.  So be clear that you're not going to allow any of her friends, or her great aunt Edna, to stay over at your house, that you're not going to be giving her $$ for trips, lending her your car, etc.

You may think this is harsh.  But I had a friend who married a real PI girl (i.e. gg).  When they came back from their honeymoon, he found her brother at their house.  Somehow, it was just assumed it would be ok for the brother to stay at their house, and he did so for 5 months (and not contributing any $$ for his costs) until my friend finally grew some balls and kicked the guy out.  So be clear with her no visitors, friends, relatives, guys she picked up at the 7-11, allowed.

Oh, and I hope you have a rice cooker, and like, really like white rice.  Because PI's eat that shit at every meal, including breakfast, 7 days a week.  

IMO, it would be much better & wiser for you to go to PI first b4 inviting her to visit you.

[tropical]

@christof
You have got to be kidding....
"If you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all!"

[Guest]

@christof
You have got to be kidding....
"If you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all!"

tropical, tropical, tropical.. have read all the replies and tried as much as possible to be nice to chris.. but now your post finally convinced me to say what i really have inside.. yes, if you dont have anything good to say, then shut up! is this your way to compensate your failed visit chris?? for sure this one will make you a little bit different from reflectionsgold whose father died just when he was about to fly for bangkok then to the philippines? probably this is one of the reasons why the PI girls are not posting in here anymore?? reflectionsgold, then you.. what a coincindence!
but yes chris, if you really are serious, then aubrey, being a nurse (i hope), will for sure be a little bit of help..

[Stewart]

@christof
You have got to be kidding....
"If you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all!"

Did I miss something? What is the " "If you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all!" " all about??? I don't see that in this thread anywhere?

[Guest]

stew, its all about getting aubrey visa for the US instead coz he failed to come to cebu after the plans and inquiries.. hee hee..

[PigDogg]

My interpertation of Tropical's post is that he thinks Chris' plan of bring a PI sweetie he's never met to the USA instead of going there himself is not well thought out.

[tropical]

[QUOTE]Did I miss something? What is the " "If you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all!" " all about??? I don't see that in this thread anywhere?
PigDogg and asian-tgirl are both correct,thanks guys,the first comment was directed at christoph, the second was directed at myself having nothing positive to add to this dreamers fantasies,then I thought it was best not to attack him but just not comment on the topic.

[Guest]

haha.... i'm not a dreamer.....well, maybe a little... I have taken a lot of the necessary precautions.... about her coming here...I realize that PI people have a lot of family everywhere but I have made it clear to her that that shit doesn't fly with me....trust me its no love lost if she comes here and its miserable.....i have friends all over the place and a few good buds in law enforcement....so i don't have to much worry about her trying to staying in the U.S..... My hole point about starting the thread was to see if anyone else has done this before or had any input about the situation... Whether it was nice or not.... If she is who she "acts" like...then that's great... but if not.... her ass is back on the plane..... its harsh....but that's life.

oh and there are other things that make me think that she has good intentions...one she is starting a bank account....two she is getting assets put in her name and she is planning to take the exams that are needed to be approved to be a nurse in the states...anyways.... I might just be hopeful....

[Guest]

and the reason why the PI's don't post in the forum anymore is because the government banned access to the site.