Contact Info ~ Good idea, eh?

[JaiDee]

    Other letters the girls get often which mean absolutely ZIP:

 "I live in XXXX  and would happily pay for you to come over here anytime, pay for airfare and you'd have a place to stay, etc........"

" Saw your pics  on  XXXX website,  I can't come to where you live because I have a wife and kids but we can be on-line friends, right?"

" I have a serious foot fetish and just wanted to tell you that I'd love to suck your toes and lick the heels of your shoes forever"

  "I am coming to Thailand from Sept 11-sept 22 and want to spend the WHOLE time with you; we can travel, go to Pooket, meet your family, fall in love, and we will have sooooo much fun together, sound good"?

and then the clown never calls, writes or anything, because of course he met someone cuter his first night in Nana and forgot all about the first ladyboy, who was kinda making plans, you know?  This first happened to Kitty [the blonde one] way back in 2001 and she complained to ME because I was the one who referred the guy and gave him her e-mail address!


            The post question was "contact details, good idea,  eh?"

    Answer; "contact details, good idea...... NO"

[stogie bear]

There are too many times in the past where I have given contact information and for some inexplicable reason it's been ME that's been the bad guy both from the ladyboys or the suckers.

From the ladyboys it's "He cheap charlie" or "Why you friend, he not call me?"

From the suckers it's usually "She was crap in bed and YOU recommended her to me!" or "I thought you said she was a nice girl. She was only after my money!"

If you want 'contact' - see fucking NASA!

[JaiDee]

(stogie bear @ Jul. 28 2008,01:39) There are too many times in the past where I have given contact information and for some inexplicable reason it's been ME that's been the bad guy both from the ladyboys or the suckers.

heh heh...... take however many complaints you have gotten and multiply that by ten and you may have an idea of the crap *I* have gotten.

    Sites that do give info..... 1/2 the time the details are off or even if the 2 people somehow do meet up it usually turns into a fiasco ...... eventually any  websites which do give info will drop that pracrice, trust me.

        Yaaaawwnn...... and this being said on this forum when it was mustard-yellow years and years ago;  go to Thailand, walk into Nana Plaza, find a few hookers and enjoy your holiday.  Pre-contact is a huge waste of time, builds expectations on both sides [which usually leads to a let-down], and ties you in to one model;  what fun is that if you are going there for 3 weeks?

 and for those who want contact details and aren't going to Thailand..... forget it, the models do NOT want to know you!

[Road Runner]

(JaiDee @ Jul. 27 2008,17:25) Answer; "contact details, good idea...... NO"

But just think of all the fun e-mails and text messages we'll miss out on.          

RR.

[seamus]

Wot does Fleeing call these guys who want contact detail " Fantasty traveller's" never been to LOS, never likely to go.We all know where they work, if We dont hit the search function, or ask.If the girl is freelance then OK you might need their contact details.But wot the girls dont need is some eejit phoning them at all hours.


Seamus

[stogie bear]

(JaiDee @ Jul. 27 2008,23:46) ...and for those who want contact details and aren't going to Thailand..... forget it, the models do NOT want to know you!

Reminds me of the great words I was taught when I was in my early 20's by a great mate called Les Ryan...

"Stogie... there is one law in life and one rule in life... If you understand and accept them and follow them you'll always do well.

Here's the law... Nobody cares about anything you say or do.

Here's the rule... Always show sincere interest in everyone you meet."

That's it, folks.

A smart ladyboy won't care a toss about what you do but will listen attentively while you tell them about it!

[manarak]

About the contacts database...

My site is just that. I got 1300 Shemales on file.
Sadly, 90% of contact details are outdated.

The established pros keep their details up to date on my site by themselves, while enthousiast punters update the remainder of the 10% that are up to date.

Many dumb users expect from me that I keep the 1300 entries up to date.
The fact that my site is free does not even stop them from requesting I should even check the phone numbers regularly. hmm...

[LadyboyCrush]

Ya, on my site I keep the contact information to paying members only... (unless requested by the model) -- one reason is because it automatically filters out the non-serious wankers who just want to webcam with the girls and chok wow with never meeting them... (and they get enough of that bullshit as it is) -- if they are too cheap to join a site, then odds are they are too cheap to come to thailand to make their fantasies a reality...

..the other reason I keep it to paying members is to get more people to sign up and make me mo' money, of course... Just being honest.

But I agree, it is simply impossible to keep up with their ever changing contact info... I tell all the models at my site to inform me if their number or email changes... (and many of them do) -- but just as many DONT unfortunately.

[Guest]

As a paying member of AsianTS i think this would be a good idea for that site, if you are prepared to pay and are fair dinkum, not looking for a free ride, contact details are ok...
And from experience, the girls usually dont reply to calls or text messages unless they are from a thai number, so any guys calling from o/s, unless the girl knows the number, is wasting their time....

just my 2 bobs...
cheers....

[stogie bear]

(bib70 @ Aug. 11 2008,20:08) As a paying member of AsianTS i think this would be a good idea for that site, if you are prepared to pay and are fair dinkum, not looking for a free ride, contact details are ok...

I happen to know that the owners of that site go to a lot of trouble to find out contact information for their members.

Just because it's not plastered on the bio doesn't mean they don't have it.

Have you even asked?

[Guest]

(stogie bear @ Aug. 12 2008,01:36) I happen to know that the owners of that site go to a lot of trouble to find out contact information for their members.

Just because it's not plastered on the bio doesn't mean they don't have it.

Have you even asked?

Im sure they do go to alot of trouble SB, but my point is they may as well share that info with their legitimate paying members without having to ask, and be sure to place that info where only paying members can access it....

In my opinion would add to value of site and get more paying members, thats all....

cheers....

[stogie bear]

No point. because the amounts of complaints generated when it's either wrong or the lb refuses to cooperate.

If the site had 20 models then fair enough. AsianTS has over 1,000.

So - I hear you ask - why no just info on SOME of the models...

Tried it... all you get back is "Why you have for THIS model and not THIS model."

It's a no win situation.

Many sites have an 'opt out' polcy for their models. Which means that the models have to say they do NOT want their contact info online.

AsianTS.com seems to operate an opt in policy, which is much better for the models.

Also - if you ain't in Thailand you don't need the info and if you are just go to the bar.

Please don't post about 'making plans' because this just is insane. Plans don't ever work out.

Best not to hassle the girl till about an hour before you want to stretch their asses. Bets for you and best for them.

Sure - an accurate list of contact info would be a good selling point but that list would always be out of date and just annoy the models.

And if the service was that valuable it would definitely have been done by now!

[Guest]

Ok mate, i'll agree to disagree on that one...the beauty of debate and opinion
I do think however that sites using the excuse of too many complaints for not providing a particular service is pretty lame...complaints are a part of running any business, they have to deal with them.
I have been a member of AsianTS since 2004 and I think overall its still a great site..but i also think the others have caught up, if not overtaken it and with so much competition out there, ladyboy sites should be providing their paying members as much as possible. At the end of the day they are a business providing a service, and the customers must come first.

cheers....

[stogie bear]

(bib70 @ Aug. 12 2008,09:09) At the end of the day they are a business providing a service, and the customers must come first...

Amen and we both agree on that.

[Guest]

(stogie bear @ Aug. 12 2008,11:49) Amen and we both agree on that.

Haha...cheers mate.

So SB you making it to any of the meetups at Guess in August? That was a cool night when a few of us did the NP tour back in early July....