Can butterfly man survive 3 nights at Guess?

[deepthroat]

After reviewing all the data I come to find that I'll only have 3 or 4 nights in Bangkok, and about 5 different Guess Girls that are on my MUST DO list, based just upon their pictures and some rough intel picked up from this site. Viv, Jenny, Top, and Yo are all on my list. And I'm pretty sure there's at least 2 or 3 others that will turn out to be really high on my list when I actually have them in front of me. BUT: I don't want to create problems and ill-will. If I were to go with Jenny the first night and tell her I'm a butterfly man, how uncomfortable would it be to go back the next night and pick one of the other girls? Believe me, I'm not a pussy and I'm not afraid of hurting someone's feelings, but I understand that commerce aside, this is also a thing about "losing face" for the girls. I don't want to create a bunch of ill-will or make my mongering unpleasant. What to do, what to do? I want to be able to hit Guess on a few consecutive nights and go with someone different each time. You experienced guys probably have some great advice for me....

If this should go in the "new members old questions" please move it and I'll await your answers.

[mardhi]

Just be up front and tell them thats what your planning to do - its no drama and you wont be the first to do it. The problems arise when you DONT tell them and then they lose face - telling everyone upfront = no problems.

Cheers
Mardhi

[kahuna]

I've taken 6 different girls from Guess Bar...and I don't believe that I come near the Guess Barfine Record...

Perhaps we'll find out who the record holder is on this thread...

Edit: Names are good I suppose...Eat, Dtom/Ohm, Yo, Moo, Ink and Boi/Poi...All more than one time, a couple for extended visits/travel and one for a very very extended visit...and they all still talk with me and try to get more of my baht...(although I'm not certain if Boi is around any longer)...and like KK, there are others I would still like to sample...

[Road Runner]

Remember there are about 30 girls on the books.
They each get on day off a week so figure about 4-5 girls will be missing each night.
Also some of them (Joy comes to mind) work on their days off and save them up to do longer trips to see their families upcountry.

Jenny will normally arrive quite early  -  not sure what time but I think it's as the bar opens around 5pm.
Often she will be coming back from her first short time about 6-6.30pm.

Yo shows up around 8-8.30pm and usually goes to sleep on the sofas.    
Viv seems to show up whenever she shows up.
Top I try to ignore most of the time so don't really know.

RR.

[koykaeng]

(kahuna @ Dec. 28 2008,15:23) Perhaps we'll find out who the record holder is on this thread...

I'm sure there are guys out there that would make me look like a complete newbie in regards to this challenge.  

However, for the record, I've so far managed Pear, Eats, Jenny, Joy & Moo.

I've never had any problems with any of the girls I've barfined thus far, and there are still plently of others on my list.  

Cheers
Koykaeng

[dutch]

(kahuna @ Dec. 28 2008,10:23) Perhaps we'll find out who the record holder is on this thread...

That will certainly not be me (only 2 girls).

[daveduke007]

(dutch @ Dec. 28 2008,17:29)

(kahuna @ Dec. 28 2008,10:23) Perhaps we'll find out who the record holder is on this thread...

That will certainly not be me (only 2 girls).

 Nor me, I have had only 1 girl from the Guess, Jenny can be very persuasive   and equally when I have visited the Guess with other girls

[jimslim]

Ok I'll go for 9 so far ..........

Jane , Jenny , Mimi , Joy , Ploy , Beer , Poi and Pang

Number nine shall remain nameless incase a certain BM turns up in my garden in Boston Strangler mode

[manarak]

Jenny, May, Joy, Yo.

Jenny was my first in Thailand and Guess - I did't know and could not even imagine the whores would be jealous if then I take another girl the next evening.
Jenny gave me the evil eye the whole week. What a bad theater performance!

You are lucky to have that piece of knowledge beforehand, DT!

[ciobha]

I have been with (in order) Jenny,Natti,Mimi,Pang, Beer and Joy, and every one of them a great experience(although Mimi is still my favourite).

On a side note, Iagree with Manarak in his post above, Although at the time I could not fault Jenny - she has taken a dislike to myself and my little mate the Slimfella because we haven't barfined her since.
Her little diva tantrums do not befit what is really a genuinely nice girl.

p.s Where is Natti at these days Mardhi?

[jman]

4 here...Fah, Nan, Eats & Top....again no problems. Just dont make any promises in bed that u dont intend to keep later....

And the first 2 - Fah & Nan were both the same nite!! And not together as a package. My first time in Guess (in the old Soi 1 location) I went with the intent to see Nan. However, when I arrived she was otherwise "engaged" with a customer. So went ST with Fah. When we returned to the bar after 1 hr....Nan's guy was gone - he passed I guess. And I promptly BF'd her LT.

No problem with Fah or Nan when I returned the next nite and BF'd Eats!!

[piz9999]

what a strange talking here!! the lb or gg are in the bars for work, so feel free to use them, you are nothing else than a cash cow (or kwai), a part of business. I think no lb care how many time and with who you go. Every farang who visit bars like that is a butterfly, i think every lb and gg know that! Are you there for find your love-of-life or fun?

[HogTied]

(piz9999 @ Dec. 29 2008,18:59) what a strange talking here!! the lb or gg are in the bars for work, so feel free to use them, you are nothing else than a cash cow (or kwai), a part of business. I think no lb care how many time and with who you go. Every farang who visit bars like that is a butterfly, i think every lb and gg know that! Are you there for find your love-of-life or fun? * *

Well I'm sure you'll have a memorable experience at some point if you follow your own advice and treat them that way, *

Of course they are not robots no matter what they do for a living and Thai's do have as mentioned the idea of face, just follow the others advice be nice to them and be upfront about your intentions to butterfly or not and DONT promise something your not going to follow thru on.

I am feeling a bit of a light weight only Nan, Jenny and Top so far but I'm hoping to add to that number in the next few days *

[thegame925]

On my December 2006 - January 2007 visit when The Guess Bar was at its original location, with ST Rooms above, I had Jenny, Fern, Nat, Joy, Mona, Pear, Beer and Jane and in between had Nong and Nick (who came to the Guess Bar later that year and have since left) and during that period brought a half dozen other LBs to those ST Rooms, (most of whom were from KC3, and whom (after we'd done the business) came down to The Guess Bar and had a drink with the girls.

I had made it clear that I was a butterfly from the first day (or an over-grown kid in a sweet-shop).

On subsequent trips I have been out with Joy and Natti and brought my Filipino LB Friend Josie to The Guess Bar (twice this year) who talked to Beer, Joy, and others whlst I taked to BMs.

I have chatted to (amongst others) Moo, Ploy, Vivian, and have them on my "to do list" for January 2009.

As I wrote, following my last visit, when in the Guess Bar after an evening and then a night with Joy:

Day Four €“ Tuesday 2nd September 2008 - Continued €“ Early Evening and through to Midnight

I finished my packing and walked across to The Guess Bar.

I sat at the Bar, drinking a number of Gong€™s Margaritas; talked to BM Sashasexy69.

Joy was adjacent to Sashasexy69, kissing a German guy who was trying to tell her he could not take her back to his room because he was leaving for the airport. Over his shoulder Joy blew kisses at me, and then went back to kissing and fondling the German.

For those of you who wonder about the etiquette, these girls know that we are butterflies and, if we don€™t pretend otherwise, they are going to be up-front and honest in front of us.

We love them for their bodies and their company.

They (in the majority of cases, I know there are exceptions) tolerate our bodies; they sometimes enjoy our company and they love that folding paper in our wallets.

As long as you are polite and respectful, and ensure that no girl loses "face", you can work your way through the stock in any bar and you should not worry about the fact that your "performance" or lack thereof, might (possibly) be the subjct of conversation  in the bar betwen the girls for at least 22 seconds!

Enjoy yourself!

[Juri]

.....if ever, when i find a LB in bar and take her out, from all other LB seen, not knowing i take her just for a ST or what ever...... i NOT go next day's same bar, for fishing the next....

so, you can easy and unknow fishing a bar empty, without some "loosing faces" or the stamp "number-fucker" on you.....

..my style for never have some problems in that way.....same in GUESS.....