Fern... any sightings?

[pacman]

You are a good man seamus, & I believe harris has shown himself to be a gentleman with the way he has concluded this little episode.
I also accept your apology & take my share of the blame for my inflammatory posts on Sunday night.      

My intention was not to beat up harris or to make light of what is a very real & ongoing relationship he has with Fern
but to point out that it is we falang who have the luxury of indulging in romantic love.

All the P4P girls I have ever met have more important priorities than waiting to be courted with the hope of more.
Important things like eating tomorrow & a roof over their head.
So harris I hope a bunch of BMs join you for a drink, I would be happy to if I was in town.      

I know Stogie had his tongue in his cheek when he made the reference of wanting to gloat but remember kahuna's comment that many of us have been in your shoes.
If Fern was anything less special than she is I would be thinking she could be dumped for the next one, but after all your time & investment maybe you can cut her a little slack & get your holiday back on track.      

[Stewart]

(PanzerPorn @ Jun. 26 2008,02:20) Damn..........so no more jealousy, mockery,
counter-intelligence operations and amusement from this thread??

Fuck, I was looking forward to that Pacman has a certain elegance to his sarcasm and piss-taking

Harris11, you bastard!!

[pacman]

   elegance, I try ...... sarcastic piss-taker ?? ... I think you have the wrong guy.

I hope you are referring to harris11 in the nicest possible way, if he is a bastard, he is a good bastard      

[tsmonger]

Kahuna..great words of wisdom that all BM's should remember..

[stogie bear]

 Great avatar!  

[katoeylover]

I agree with Kahuna - we all know the score and can accept that, then why not just have fun when you are there.

Harris - you obviously like Fern a lot, so just enjoy your holidays with a Girl you feel completely relaxed with, and dont give a flying fuck what goes on when you are not there.

[harris11]

Just taking a few days to think things through and what I should do.

Thanks for all the advice which I know is ment well and I accept.

Have had e mail from Fern who is concerned that everyone says bad things about her on ATS, I replied , that she need not worry because infact it is the opposite, not one post has been bad about her, and everyone say she is a good person and is only doing what she does and that the problem lies with me and my expectations of the relationship.

Thinking I want to go Pattaya and party hard and butterfly around for a couple of days then go up to BKK and catch up with some friends before seeing Fern.

In reality what will happen is that after a few drinks in Pattaya and the standard " How are you" and "Where you come from handsome man" routine I will be thinking what the fuck am I doing here and that I should be in BKK with Fern. We all know how quickly these trips fly by and every minute should be well spent.

Jury still out on what I should do.

Still think I am lucky to have these options and I appreciate the fact that many BM would love to be in LOS whatever the problems we all have from time to time with our ladyboy friends

[LadyboyCrush]

[i]

(kahuna @ Jun. 23 2008,18:15)

(seamus @ Jun. 16 2008,05:05) Much more into young Thai boys, so I am told  

Perhaps no different than any other healthy young Thai ladyboy...Just a bit less discrete...

At least 5 times I've watched her leave Tawandang, one of the Isaan girls favorite disco haunts, on the arm of a young Thai boy...And I always thought who is paying whom, or are they freebies...

I suspect the other girls in the party wouldn't have liked to as well...But maybe they didn't have enough baht...

So, surely you are wise enough to realize that it is natural for a young hot 20 year old to want to mate with another young hot 20 year old that natively speaks the same language and shares the same interests...

C'mon -- we are all guys here right... Guys fuck anything that will let them... It is an instinctual desire to deposit ones sperm into as many holes as possible... its really as simple as that.

[daveduke007]

(harris11 @ Jun. 26 2008,11:44) In reality what will happen is that after a few drinks in Pattaya and the standard " How are you" and "Where you come from handsome man" routine I will be thinking what the fuck am I doing here and that I should be in BKK with Fern. We all know how quickly these trips fly by and every minute should be well spent.

Jury still out on what I should do.

And I've no doubt that WILL happen with you harris, I know I would feel the same without my "teerak" Am.

I know I would be bored and tire soon of listening to the other girls routines myself.
I prefer the GFE with the girl I have and even if we do fight like "cat and dog"sometimes 95% of the time its fantastic.

At the end of the day mate do what makes "YOU" feel happy and as KL says if you feel completely relaxed and happy with Fern then "go for it"

Good luck mate

[Stewart]

your biggest mistake was falling for a P4P girl & thinking it was a real relationship.But as Kahuna said, dont spoil wot you have with her, just accept it for wot it really is, a good time & a great shag everytime you go to LOS

Fucking hell...an Irishman that doesn't speak complete bollocks

That was quite......errr.......thoughtful and intelligent

.....OK, what have you done with Seamus?

[seamus]

 Seamus like's to have a laugh most days & talk a load of shite, as life is way too short.Every now & then I have to wear My serious head, not often I grant you, but this was one of those occasions & My fellow Irish BM's never talk a load of bollocks, they keep it light hearted  


Seamus

[PanzerPorn]

(seamus @ Jun. 28 2008,19:45) Every now & then I have to wear My serious head, not often I grant you, but this was one of those occasions

Is that a serious situation?? ehm......

[seamus]

LOL , no it wasnt a serious situation Panzer, just needed a serious post, which was hard I have to say
Have a good one in LOS mate & shag a few for Me


Seamus

[kleetora]

(stogie bear @ Jun. 26 2008,21:16)  Great avatar!  

Who's the chap in the mirror? Seems like a full house to me.

[kleetora]

(dummy_plug @ Jun. 24 2008,22:57) Si Geena and I were browsing around and saw our precious Vee who has about 8,000 friends - 7,998 who are young Thai men under the age of 25 and two who are above!  

Just caught this, DP are you and Si Gee then friends with Vee on Hi5?