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[StreetDog]

Whether you retire in THAI or PI, it doesnt really matter. With Cebu Pacific, it is a cheap airline ticket to get from Manila to BKK or the opposite. Once in PI, it is dirt cheap to hop on Cebu Pacific to the various cities. I arrive in Manila next month and paid $27 USD for a ticket to Cebu. From there I paid $35 for a ticket to Angeles. That is one advantage to PI in my opinion. The cost of flights is ridiculously cheap.

As for things to do, I would agree with another member here....there just is not a whole lot to do during the day time hours but I fixed that. I have made many contacts with gals and most will gladly come over any morning. That carries you to mid day and then night time brings all the other fun.

Your dollar goes a lot farther in PI as far as I have seen and experienced.

Dog

[JaiDee]

(laputanegra @ Jun. 13 2010,05:37) can't really tell but if i will based it among the lb's i know i can say that they would prefer to be with Filipino guys for sex and be with westerners for money and security.

Ya, not surprised at all, and I guess my question was kinda rhetorical.  I mean, what 21-year old in ANY country would choose some 45-55 year old guy who is 30-50 pounds overweight and maybe not the most handsome guy in the world when they can be with one of their own kind who is their own age and handsome and slim?  Unless of course it was for financial well-being and security; good to hear we can finally put the " but the Thai culture is different, the young people there think differently, blah, blah, blah''..... B.S. to rest.

   And it's the same in Peru, Cambodia Indo and other 3rd world countries I have been to; the young cuties want to get to know me because I am tall and white and I have money to help them out, not for  ME..... and I am not interested in that at all outside of a short-term screw.


  I mentioned the lack of nightlife in the P.I. .......  remember, this coming from a guy who has been to a lot of big cities around the world and had also spent a lot of time in BKK, Pattaya and Phuket by the time I made my way to Manila and Cebu; there is nothing to do there!  Downtown  Cebu reminded me of an old movie set from The Sting at night; it literally looked like the 1930's or 40's with old cinemas and not a lot of street lights, etc....... there were 2 or 3 disco's in town {Sunflowers was one, maybe?} but they played sucky music and again we are talking about a 40-year old guy being stared at by beautiful 20-something year olds, not because I look like Brad Pitt but because I may be their lottery ticket.

         I remember thinking at the time; "in Phuket or Pattaya I am NEVER bored, here I am always pretty bored''.... and who knows if that has changed or not in 6 years.   But I am willing to go check it all out again;  I'd feel like I shortchanged myself into living in one place all my life if I don't check out other places, and I would always be wondering " what if........''

  Also on the list; Argentina, Brazil and Costa Rica.

[laputanegra]

yeah theres really nothing to do in manila only malls malls malls but the nightlife is not that dead, next time your here tell me and i'll take u to the hottest parties in the metro  

[JaiDee]

Okey Dokey

[JaiDee]

(transcebu @ Jun. 13 2010,04:19) I know girls who spent every spare peso going online for months with guys whose sole concern was getting a peek upskirt for a wank and never intended to fulfill their promises to come and visit or pay for boob jobs or whatever.

These guys are true dildos.

I used to always weed out the dreamers from the real travelers before I ever gave out contact info; the very LAST thing these kids want is to be exchanging texts and e-mails and time on MSN chatting wih dudes they will never meet, especially if they have to pay to use internet cafe's. And from the westerner's point of view, I have always been of the frame of mind of ''why waste your time chatting with someone you met on-line; once you get to {wherever} you will now have to spend time with this person and that fucks up your whole holiday''. And what if you get there and now you don't click and you don't like her or she doesn't like you? Talk about a waste of PC time, money and vacation time.


I was just joking about that girl Kate or anyone else on the Cebu website because I am still 6 months away from even contemplating going there, and there's no reason to build up expectations on either side. But it's nice to know I now have a good, new connection in Cebu and also in Manila, see ya' in 2011!

[StreetDog]

You are right on JaiDee about Cebu. It has not changed.
There is literally NOTING to do in morning and day.

The only way to pass the time there in the morning and day is to either have work to do online (which I do) or line up contacts to keep you busy during the day time. If I had nothing to keep me occupied in Cebu during the day, I would go nuts.

Like I said in a previous note, if you visit the place once, make some contacts, use the service that was posted on this thread to meet gals, you can easily have a bull pen of people to call morning, noon and night.

I dont do the LT for security purposes. So it is all ST for me. One in the morning, have lunch, invite another after lunch for afternoon delight, rest up for evening activities.

Memo to all, if you go to Cebu blind, 2 nights is enough. If you go prepared with contacts arranged, then 3-4 nights will be good.

[transcebu]

(JaiDee @ Jun. 13 2010,09:09)

(transcebu @ Jun. 13 2010,04:19) I know girls who spent every spare peso going online for months with guys whose sole concern was getting a peek upskirt for a wank and never intended to fulfill their promises to come and visit or pay for boob jobs or whatever.

These guys are true dildos.

    I used to always weed out the dreamers from the real travelers before I ever gave out contact info;  the very LAST thing these kids want is to be exchanging texts and e-mails and time on MSN chatting wih dudes they will never meet, especially if they have to pay to use internet cafe's.  And from the westerner's point of view, I have always been of the frame of mind of ''why waste your time chatting with someone you met on-line; once you get to {wherever}  you will now have to spend time with this person and that fucks up your whole holiday''.  And what if you get there and now you don't click and you don't like her or she doesn't like you?  Talk about a waste of PC time, money and vacation time.

     
  I was just joking about that girl Kate or anyone else on the Cebu website because I am still 6 months away from even contemplating going there, and there's no reason to build up expectations on either side.  But it's nice to know I now have a good, new connection in Cebu and also in Manila, see ya' in 2011!  

I agree with you JaiDee! That's why I set up the site without contact info such as the many other ways guys can make contact with lbs. This way the girls don't have to waste time on a guy until he is actually in town and ready to meet.

It seems most lbs are lucky if they meet one out of 20 of the guys that claim to fall for them online. It's little wonder some of them feel justified in hunting the hunters. They do become quite jaded after getting their hopes up time and again. With this service, if the date is a total flop, at least they walk away with 400 peso for their effort of turning up and they're actually meeting someone who is willing to and capable of meeting in real life.

Regarding love v money and security, as superficial as that seems, I do believe these boys are part female and emotions do often flow from a sense of security, and this is even more so the case in Filipino culture. It may be a different love than we seek or feel, but it can be a loyal and caring commitment. I have met girls there who are very much in love and loyal to older and not so hansum men (in my eyes), and it's not all about the money, but a rich (in their eyes) foreigner who wouldn't help out financially to some degree, is much less likely to be perceived as one who really cares for them. Having seen how most live, I couldn't live with myself if I didn't help a gf out a little, though I'm careful about creating a situation of dependence, which puts the balance of power way out of whack.

Perhaps I'm a bit naive, but that's the impression I get having talked quite a bit with friends and girlfriends who I don't believe were just telling me what I wanted to hear. The girls differ in their thinking and degree of intelligence, honesty, integrity, selflessness and independence. There are gems out there in PI and if one's character deserves it, (we all have flaws), then great loving relationships are possible, I'm convinced.

[guydesavoy]

That's a great post transcebu. I wouldn't take you as naive for a second

[Bumpa STIKKA]

(transcebu @ Jun. 13 2010,12:26) There are gems out there in PI and if one's character deserves it, (we all have flaws), then great loving relationships are possible, I'm convinced.

Of course there is.

If you can't strike up a relationship with a beautiful (and genuinely good hearted) ladyboy from the PI or anywhere then maybe you don't really want to.

[transcebu]

(Bumpa STIKKA @ Jun. 13 2010,13:59)

(transcebu @ Jun. 13 2010,12:26) There are gems out there in PI and if one's character deserves it, (we all have flaws), then great loving relationships are possible, I'm convinced.

Of course there is.

If you can't strike up a relationship with a beautiful (and genuinely good hearted) ladyboy from the PI or anywhere then maybe you don't really want to.

I agree. And along a similar line of thought, I wonder how many of the guys who get hurt by a lb gf's infidelity or opportunism don't have wondering eyes and hands themselves on occasion. It's hard to not be tempted on occasion and I suspect it's only a small percentage of chasers are capable of a truly loyal and monogamous relationship.

I've got nothing against butterflies btw. It's just not for me. I respect guys who don't promise more than they're willing to give. Each lifestyle has its pros and cons.

[transcebu]

Another Girl Added!

Buchaka
A 21 year old outgoing, down-to-earth transpinay who operates a curtain business with her mother in Cebu. She€™s known for her constant smile and easygoing nature.



Her gallery is HERE!

[JaiDee]

(StreetDog @ Jun. 13 2010,11:41) about Cebu.  It has not changed.
There is literally NOTING to do in morning and day.  

rest up for evening activities.  

Ok,  can you explain to me exactly WHAT these evening activities are??

Because I don't think I found them.....  and I never have any problems keeping myself occupied during the day; I sleep late and I like the beach and reading, a good movie or documentary, etc..... I am much more of a night owl and in Phuket, Pattaya, Samui or BKK I can;

  Go to some go-go bars
   Meet friends at beer bars and have a chat
  Go to numerous beach parties nightly {not BKK}
   Sports bars
    Massage parlors
   Untold amounts of pool halls
    Great Thai or western food, 24/7
   Chase LB's in any number of places where they congregate
     Stay up and keeping busy nightly until 3, 4, or 5 am.....

    From what I remember NONE of these things were available in  The P.I. ........which would leave me totally bored same as last time and wanting to head to Phuket; which is exactly what I did the last time!

        I'm moving up into my middle-age years now and to be honest sex only interests me a few times per week, and certainly not every day;  so besides having sex with the very cute and friendly LB's who are available there, what else could I do to keep my interest levels up??  Remember Street Dog; I am talking about somewhere I want to retire to, not just have short- time sex.....if I was still a sexual animal like I was 10-15  years ago it would be a no-brainer and I would just move to Pattaya.

             No knock on your website or the girls who live in the area, Transcebu, hell I am your biggest supporter! And I have been preaching on this forum that P.I. girls are better to hang around with for 5 or 6 years now.  But you've never been to Thailand and seen the nightlife there;  I guess once you've been to both places  you could understand how a person may get bored in the P.I. very easily {and hell, I get bored easily anywhere I go!}.

 Why don't the authorities there lighten up a bit??  It would be great for tourism......

[JaiDee]

I spent quite a bit of time with Leslie on my 2 trips to Cebu ..... her English was absolutely perfect and in fact her accent was more Spanish-sounding than anything Asian. Also has a western face, she could move to LA or Miami with no problems and fit right in; no one would even be able to tell she wasn't a local.

Great ladyboy, friendly and cute, good personality....but after dinner was eaten and sex was done with, I was unable to keep myself or her occupied. There's 24 hours in a day; if you put aside 8 for sleep, 2 for sex, and 2 for eating what does one do with the other 12?

[guydesavoy]

remember that face

[JaiDee]

I remember, also...... that face being under me several times

Half the guys in here, myself included, could easily fall for a girl like this; she has it all, and can even talk too! Smart, fun, personable, doesn't just sit there and nod her head and say "up to you'' 14 times a day; this is truly someone you could date and hang around with.

I just wish she lived on Kata beach